Recently, another very sad thing happened:

In Deyang, Sichuan, a female doctor could not bear the pressure and public harassment and chose to commit suicide. Although her colleagues tried their best to save her, she But in the end, he was unable to save himself and passed away...and all this actually originated from a conflict in the swimming pool.

My butt was touched while swimming

My family caused online violence and forced the female doctor to death

The female doctor and her husband went swimming. In the swimming pool, two 13-year-old boys After touching the female doctor's buttocks, the doctor asked them to apologize, but both children refused. They also spat at her, made faces, and made insulting gestures.

When the doctor’s husband saw it, he went over and pushed the two children into the water and taught them a lesson. Later, he also apologized to the two children for his impulsive behavior, but the female doctor was still tortured in the dressing room. The child's family members beat him, but they reconciled after calling the police that day.

The next day, the child's parents went directly to the female doctor's unit and made a fuss, asking the hospital to fire her. They also posted the edited video online to create public opinion and scold the female doctor and her husband. In the end, the female doctor could not bear the pressure of public opinion and committed suicide by taking medicine.

We do not deny that the doctor’s husband’s approach of beating other children was wrong, and the doctor’s own way of dealing with emotions was also wrong. However, the cause of the whole incident was indeed that the two children were too naughty and the children’s parents were too disrespectful. Be reasonable.

It is obvious that the child offended others, but instead of educating the child properly, the doctor who was bullied was driven to a dead end. Is there any sense in it? Only her children are so precious that they cannot suffer any loss. Anyone who messes with her children will want to skin them.

The era of poor diction is outdated. Now is the era of rich diction. The more irrational people are, the more they chatter incessantly.

That is not "education", but "instruction"

Protect him for a while, but it may harm the son, which is equivalent to killing the son for the rest of his life

They all say Parents are their children's best teachers. Many of the things each child learns when growing up come from imitating their parents, especially their words and deeds.

However, there are many examples of children making mistakes without educating them and blindly protecting them. The naughty children are very annoying, but the naughty parents behind them are hateful.

The case of "Killing Wife and Hiding Body" that has just been settled caused a sensation. After killing his wife, the suspect hid the body in the freezer for 3 months. During this period, he chatted with his father-in-law and mother-in-law as his wife, and also posted photos of his wife. He used his wife's credit card to buy a hotel room and go to nightclubs without any regrets.

What was the first reaction of his parents after they learned that their son had committed a murder?

Shirk!

"He did it unintentionally, he made a mistake."

"This matter is indeed my son's fault. If he did it, he should call the police immediately for rescue. He is afraid, and he is also a child. , I haven’t experienced anything.”

Does this sound familiar?

"He is still a child" is like a universal sentence. As long as you pursue this sentence, it means that you are not generous, ignorant, reasonable and unforgiving. The child is young and ignorant. You should forgive him a lot. But now your son has killed someone! Can this be solved in one sentence?

When someone asked her what she thought about her son spending the woman’s money, the mother’s answer shocked a lot of people:

“They are already married, and she is not She approves of spending money on children. "

Oh, her son is a child, but her daughter-in-law is not. This is too much of a double standard. Her child is a treasure, but other people's daughters are. Isn't it?

Naughty children are "incited" by their parents. In their hearts, no matter what evil things they do, their parents will take care of it.

Previously, a 17-year-old boy raped and killed his classmate because his courtship failed. His best time was ruined by his evil thoughts.

However, his parents did not feel that their son was at all wrong, and even slandered the deceased, claiming that it was the girl who took the initiative to dedicate her "first night" to their son, and did not admit his crimes of rape and intentional homicide at all. He even wanted to use his son's excellent grades to ask the judge for a lighter punishment.

To drown a child is to kill the child. If a child does something out of line before his three views are fully developed, parents should stop him in time and discipline him strictly, otherwise sooner or later it will lead to catastrophe.

There is an old Chinese saying that if you don’t mend a small hole, you will suffer a big hole. There is also a famous saying in Singapore's rule of law: punish small evils severely to deter big evils. China's Marriage Law, Protection of Minors Law and other laws involving parent-child rights and obligations give parents the right and obligation to discipline their children. If parents do not discipline their children's "minor problems", it is also an act of abandonment of their obligations in law, which will have a negative impact on the children's lifelong health. Growth also creates hidden dangers of possible illegal crimes.

? Rain Inspection and Customs Working Committee "WeChat Parent Classroom" Chapter 32