Aries-Capricorn
Capricorns often feel a little jealous of the optimistic attitude of Aries. In fact, there is no need for Capricorns to have their own happiness.
Aries people often give people the impression of being selfish, because they always do whatever they want without much consideration. They should really remember to think before they act. The selfishness of Capricorns comes from their disdain to consider others. They only care about their own dignity. No matter what, selfishness is selfishness, no matter what the basis is, it is very bad.
Capricorns are very jealous of Aries’ happiness. Happy is an unusual word for Capricorns, who are ruled by Saturn. Mindlessness is also a rare trait among Capricorns. Even though they are still young, Capricorns are very calculating. No matter whether these babies wear pink clothes or sky blue clothes, they will be old women and old men when they are born.
So, you understand why Capricorns can’t fly happily, but Aries can.
Aries people tend to rely on feelings and impulses in interpersonal communication, while Capricorn people are based on practical principles. Although Capricorns don't like to use marriage to get into the upper class, there are far more Capricorns than Aries who do this. It's not that Capricorns are very calculating for themselves, in fact they are thinking about their offspring, which shows how thoughtful they are. So, if a Capricorn hears a friend say they want to quit their job and travel, they will be shocked; if a Capricorn hears a friend say they are living together without being married, they will be frightened? ——What if she gets pregnant? What if he can't find a job?
Capricorns always feel hurt when Aries accuse them of being ambitious. They think no one knows about his ambitions, and they don't even face the fact themselves.
Aries people are also ambitious, but they never hide it. Aries people are not snobbish and are not keen on following the crowd. They only value their own ideals and pursuits.
Capricorns can adapt to adversity, turn adversity into good times, and maximize their strengths. Aries people should really learn this.
Aries (female) - Capricorn (male)
Both of these people give people the impression of being extremely selfish. However, when we look into the root cause, we find a big difference. Aries people often hurt others unintentionally because of their immature thinking, while Capricorn people are determined to remove all obstacles in order to realize their own plans, and it doesn't matter if they hurt others.
Capricorns have almost no mental infancy and adolescence. They are mature and sophisticated when they are born. Maturity has many benefits. It can make people think more carefully and make them suffer less. But being mature to the point of being proficient means always being wary of others, letting your mind hang around your whole life, and thus living a difficult life. No wonder Capricorns are most jealous of Aries people’s carefree attitude and way of life. However, Capricorns are never willing to easily develop a long-term intimate relationship with the opposite sex of Aries. Unless they are already middle-aged and everything is ready, they will consider this issue. Due to their foresight and never acting on impulse, Capricorns rarely let their emotions prevail over their reason. Perhaps this is why they are unwilling to interact too closely with Aries who act based on their feelings and impulses. They look down on those who cannot restrain their emotions. human. Maybe they don't want to admit it, but it's true - they are utilitarian and very sophisticated. In order to get ahead, they can give up love, suppress their feelings, wrong themselves, and flatter their bosses. For them, marriage means climbing to a higher social status and a bigger wallet. However, Capricorns believe that doing so is not selfish, but for the sake of future generations. Only by being rich and powerful can we ensure that our offspring can grow up healthily and receive a good education, instead of being unable to correct their teeth or have crooked feet due to poverty. Look how far they think! They also defended their views on marriage so openly: Instead of spending a lot of money to treat foot diseases, it is better to carefully choose a pair of good shoes when the feet are not sick. Marriage means money and status to him, so there are very few Capricorns among those who elope or die in love. They are unlikely to let their emotions run wild and perform a romantic drama.
Both Aries and Capricorn can be compared to sheep climbing up a hillside. The former want to climb up because they think there will be more charming scenery at higher places, and climbing up itself is challenging. Once they reach the top of the mountain, they feel that it is meaningless and immediately go down the mountain to climb another slope.
The latter climbed hard because he understood that only that mountain had its own world and could be safe, so he had to climb up at all costs. In order to climb the mountain, the latter can endure all hardships, including eating cardboard or iron sheets, as long as they can have a full stomach and have the strength to climb. Therefore, Capricorns can always silently endure harsh criticism, heart-piercing frustration and harsh prejudice, as long as they can If you can succeed, you can endure anything. No wonder they are always the most obedient and submissive to their superiors in social situations or on the road to career. Aries people, on the other hand, are quick to heat up and cool down quickly, and they are easily angry. Their emotions and emotions are all expressed in emotions. The word "suffering" is a word that cannot be found in their dictionary.
How did such a pair of people get together?
Due to the constant vigilance, the man is lonely in his heart, and this loneliness is especially strong in places with many people. And the woman is keenly aware of this. So this kind woman walked up to the silent man and talked to him, hoping to cheer him up. The woman smiled and talked about herself and old things to the man, but the man seemed to have a big rusty lock on his heart and remained reserved and indifferent. The woman felt that the man would rather stay alone than see the beauty in life. "Maybe he hates me," she thought aggrievedly, and was about to walk away.
Actually, the man also appreciates the beauty in life, but he just doesn’t want to say it out loud. When he was still a primary school student, he drew beautiful pictures behind his teacher's back and played serenades mesmerically when he was sure no one could hear him. But that is all in the past. At that time, he had not yet experienced the hardships and dangers of the world, and he still had a heart that believed that everything would be beautiful... Now he is still not sure whether the woman really loves him, so he will never talk about these beautiful past events. Listen to her.
If a man closes his feelings too much, the person who loves him will be deeply hurt. This will be especially painful if the woman is an Aries. The man knows this, but he would rather risk losing the woman he loves than let the woman see a glimpse of his thoughts without 100% certainty. Those romances belong to the past. Now he must be pragmatic in everything and stick to reality.
After falling in love, the woman wants to transform differences into similarities, while the man wants to transform them. Conflicts arise when there is a conflict of interest with a certain party.
They are often unhappy because of money. The man takes money very seriously and counts it very clearly. But the woman is lavish and not good at calculation (to be precise, she doesn't want to bother with calculation). If the woman encounters financial difficulties, the man will lend her money to pay the rent or repair the car. The woman can spend the money with peace of mind because their relationship is different from others. The woman was also secretly moved. This person could be so considerate at this time. It was so worthy of love. A few months later, the woman did not pay back the money. It was not because she meant to be dishonest, but because she simply forgot about it, but the man did not forget. He could not forget. The man tactfully hinted or directly reminded her, but the woman thought he was joking. Yes, she remembered that the man had said he would lend it to her, but that was just talk and he couldn't take it seriously. Besides, since she had plenty of money, she gave him a brand-name color TV and a silk bathrobe as Christmas gifts. On his birthday, she also bought a gold watch and a famous breed puppy as gifts. She bought it with her own credit card, and its value far exceeded the money he gave her in the first place. The man was also moved by the woman's generous gift, but he thought that sending back something and borrowing something back were two different things. So, he sent the woman a reminder note, which also listed that the interest on the 200 yuan should be 47.96 yuan. What will happen to the woman after she receives this reminder note? Of course I was so angry that he was so vulgar and made our relationship smell like copper. "The man was also very angry when he knew the woman's reaction - she actually thought that she could default on our feelings.
Even if the above incident did not happen, they would still have their ups and downs because their natures are so different. . The man tends to think the worst when things happen, and he is less fanciful and more practical. The woman is an incorrigible optimist, always dreaming that miracles will happen. At the beginning, the woman's unsophistication makes the man like it, and the innocent woman also admires her. The man is deep and sophisticated. But gradually they find that the other person's initially attractive personality becomes unbearable. So the man tries to convince the woman not to believe that the rainbow in the sky can lead to heaven, and the woman hopes that the man will stop throwing cold water. In the end, they have no choice but to break up. .
But since they have loved each other, how can they give up easily? The scars will hurt whenever they recall the past. Life can only become increasingly happy after each other no longer demands each other.
Emotions have a great impact on their sex. If there is any discomfort, the man will be extremely cold and the woman will deal with it listlessly. In fact, once the man is convinced that the woman really loves him, he will burst out with passion that surprises the woman. Compared with the cold look during the day, he is completely different. Although the woman is easy to get angry, she is also easy to calm down, and once the man can show sincere love during sex, the woman will quickly forgive him and get into the role. Therefore, the quality of their sex life depends largely on the man.
For any couple or couple, transforming each other is a thankless task, especially for this couple. Therefore, no matter the man or the woman, once they decide to stay with each other for a long time, they must accept everything about the other party with a hundredfold tolerance.
Aries (male) - Capricorn (female)
Whether such a pair will love each other is largely determined by the age of the woman. If the woman is young, it is unlikely that the man will have the heart of a "gentleman". Because the woman at this time did not have the standard of ordinary beauties, her behavior and conversation were too sophisticated, like a little old lady, and she was suspected of being sharp and sophisticated. The woman will also think that the man is too reckless and shallow. In a word, she will not take this man seriously. If the woman is over thirty, there will be a touching love story. At this time, the woman had rich experience and knew something about all the issues that people would be interested in - from psychology to ecology. She also knew what the latest opinions were, and time seemed to have worn away her stiffness, and she Become easy-going and tolerant, no longer reserved and cold. This made the man very happy, thinking that this was his best life partner.
The man made another reckless mistake. The heart of this Capricorn woman has always been so hard, and what she pursues is still a bright future and a high deposit. The reason why she favors men is because most Aries men in their thirties have already achieved some success, and there is still greater success in sight (however, in any case, Aries men will not think of it until they are fifty years old) save money).
The woman has always been respectful to her boss, so if she is working under an Aries man, office romance will never happen. In the eyes of this boss, this female secretary is capable and shrewd, occasionally even aggressive (but often people think she is a bit sexy), relatively funny, but not abrupt. She always wears fashionable but not trendy clothes, and her colors are nothing more than dark blue, brown or beige. In short, she is an ideal secretary. But one day, the boss will find that this humble female secretary is diligently learning everything he has done in this position and is preparing to replace him. The gentleman will not be satisfied. There is only one solution: fire her immediately.
So if such a pair falls in love, they must not be colleagues. Neither superior nor subordinate.
The woman is like the mythical monster Janus with two faces. Like Janus, her two faces are always in the past and always in the future. However, the woman believes that the past determines the future, so what she values ????in the man is a family history and genealogy that can be shown off, and a large amount of property that is enough for the children (who do not know when they will be born) to live a comfortable life and inherit. So her mutual trust should also have a considerable family background? No, she was background enough for her.
Because she knew that she came from a humble background, she often doubted whether she could succeed. If a man convinces her that she is loved like a treasure, he must be careful and keep telling her "I love you" clearly and clearly.
Even if the man finally convinces her that she has won this love, he still has a lot of hard work to do, otherwise he will not be able to completely win this woman's heart. The woman also has a family. She is obedient to her parents and does her best to help or raise her brothers and sisters. If her parents or a member of her family are dissatisfied with the marriage, she will give in. If her family gets a nod, it's likely to be accompanied by some request for financial assistance. The woman would rather sacrifice love than disobey her parents, so to marry this woman, the man must also promise to live with his father-in-law and mother-in-law. This means that the new family must be settled in a large apartment with multiple suites, and even during the honeymoon There must also be two old men who are inseparable. This is difficult for most men to accept or tolerate for a long time, and it is even more unbearable for Aries men who are accustomed to being self-centered.
Their union is too slim and there are too many obstacles. Even if there is no obstruction from the woman's family, their personalities are too different.
The woman never fantasizes about anything (she probably only likes the story of Cinderella and regards it as a real story). Everything is considered realistically and everything must be done step by step. The man's thinking is as wild as a horse and his actions are unconstrained by the world. This will inevitably lead to conflicts. The man thinks the woman is too reserved, and the woman thinks the man is too reckless. Even in front of him, the woman is calm and reserved, so that the man thinks she is rejecting him, but what the woman actually wants is: she hopes to get together with the man, but she is afraid that the man only appreciates her character instead of loving her as a person. Although the woman has nerves like steel and a heart like stone, she is still a woman who longs to be loved by the opposite sex.
If she suppresses this desire and curbs her need for the love of the opposite sex, this woman will be power-mad, money-mad, and even become violent and cruel.
The man will also feel that the woman’s indifference during sex makes him frustrated. The woman is cold because she always doesn't believe her own feelings and is afraid of being deceived. So a careless man cannot know this and will become annoyed and angry and walk away angrily. How eager the man is to be rewarded for his passion.
So, we can expect that even if this pair of people get together, it will be difficult for them to grow old together. In fact, as long as they are willing to spend time communicating with each other and as long as the man is more patient, their prospects will be wonderful. As the years go by, the road they travel hand in hand gets closer and closer to the mountain. The air there is calm and the sun is bright.