Many people think that maintaining a marriage is not a very simple matter, because after two people get married, they have to take care of more and more things, and there are more and more places where money is needed. To be honest, the bond that maintains the marriage relationship between two people is not money and children, but the mutual growth of both parties. In the process of maintaining a marital relationship, the role played by the woman is very important. If the man works outside and the woman spends money randomly instead of making money, it is the woman's fault.
After a woman in Henan swiped her husband's credit card several times to pay off the debt, her husband became furious and did not give her any living expenses for five years. When I first saw this news, I thought there was a certain problem with what this man did, because the wife needed her husband to provide living expenses to take care of the family. If at this time the man did not give it to the woman because he was angry, If there is any living expenses, it is obvious that this man is not doing the right thing. But after understanding the truth of the matter, I think there are very serious problems with this woman's approach, and it has brought a very heavy burden to the family. The man did not do this deliberately, but simply could not stand the woman's lavish spending.
According to the reporter’s investigation, it was learned that when the man first married the woman, the woman had been spending money lavishly and would often swipe her credit card. If she had no money, I swipe my credit card, and when I can't pay off the credit card, I go to my husband to help me pay it back. In fact, there is a big problem with what this woman did. When two people maintain a marriage, they are completely different from when they were in love. At this time, the woman should make her concept of money clearer and then help the man with the money. Save it all. This woman obviously failed to fulfill her obligations as a wife, and instead put a lot of pressure on the man's life. So the man made such a move at this time, hoping to punish the woman for spending money without caring about the other party. behavior.
In fact, there are certain problems with the man's approach at this time. He can give the woman a small amount of living expenses, but don't not give it completely, because the child also needs a lot of money during his growth process. So the money given can be enough to maintain a basic life. This woman should now reflect on how much harm her behavior can cause, because in the process of maintaining a marriage, both people's money should have a very clear use process, otherwise it will be difficult to maintain the family.