Eighteen people unexpectedly came to this event, all of them beautiful women, and everyone arrived early to be in high spirits. Under the auspices of Zhou Wei, president of the Kashgar Early Reading Club, the event started on time.

1. Break the ice: Introduce yourself, please feel free to label yourself!

Yang Shuo: I am a veteran of the reading club. I have so many interests and hobbies that I would probably spend a whole day talking about them in detail! I love reading, which is a hobby shared by everyone. I am very happy to gather here with my friends who love reading. I like sports, fitness, music, movies, and travel.

Xu Juan: Vice president of the reading club, she likes cooking food and has developed it into a side job. If you like running, it’s something you can’t do without doing it. Like music and travel.

Gong Xue, this is my first time to participate in this event. I am a loyal fan of teachers Zhou Wei and Yang Shuo. I met them in the gym and came to participate after knowing about this event.

Wang Yan: I am Yang Shuo’s sister. I hope to make more friends and make my life colorful. Zhou Zhenzhen, I like writing, reading, sports, eating, drinking and having fun. I hope to make progress, share and enjoy life together in this good atmosphere with everyone in the future.

Zhang Xinyuan, I like sports and I am currently reading Chinese classics.

Yang Xue: I also got to know the reading club through a running group. I have always wanted to go for a run, but there is no way to go. Now I work out at home for half an hour every morning and evening, and read for half an hour. People who love sports have a very good complexion and good energy. I like to eat lightly and have a sense of cleansing. Today we are going to talk about the secret, it is this magnetic field that attracts everyone together.

Dong Yan: This is the first time I heard about this reading club. I feel life is a bit boring recently and want to bring myself to a new level, so I want to come and see more, learn more, and make more friends. .

Zhang Xiaomei, I prefer reading Zhouyi and Mencius. It would be better if we could have a Sinology Society or a Chinese Studies Society in Kashgar. I also hope that everyone will come wearing Hanfu to participate. Because my uncle is a Chinese medicine practitioner, I have been influenced by this practice since I was a child.

Huang Wanyun: I learned about our reading club because I recently met a senior brother at the driving school, and he took me to participate in group running activities. I like reading, playing the violin, and it's nice to meet you all.

Zhang Ting: I am pregnant now. I learned about this book club from WeChat Moments and wanted to come and get to know everyone and this group. I brought my cousin Zhou Duo, who is in her first year of high school.

Chen Congying: I am not yet 15 years old, but I will soon. I am a struggling student in the third grade of junior high school. I don’t like sports very much. I like travel movies and animation. I usually watch TV and movies at home.

Wen Shan: I also like Hanfu. I hope to make more friends here and find like-minded friends.

Wang Guifeng: I am very happy to meet such beautiful, knowledgeable and meaningful women like you. I like running, singing and reading.

Hu Jianlin: I used to like playing games, eating, drinking, having fun, and working out. Recently, I became obsessed with spending time with my child, so I gave up everything and became obsessed with loving him and being loved by him. As long as I'm in the room, I have to be with her. So my biggest hobby right now is babysitting.

Lv Yuan: I am an old member. I like to read, eat, drink and have fun. My higher goal is to make money. I also couldn't let go of my child. My parents helped take care of her before, so I always felt that I owed my child a lot. After she went to kindergarten, I took her back and took care of her myself. Recently I have been studying education and parenting. I participated in the reading check-in last month and read four books. Recently I am reading "Laughing Out Loud on the Hard Days" and "The Minimalist Life". I found that I am not good at organizing, and I really hope to learn something in this area through communication with everyone.

Zhou Wei: My labels include: mother, recently resigned civil servant, entrepreneur.

My hobbies are sports, nutrition, and languages. I am very happy to meet you all through the reading club platform and sit here with you. Our reading serves our lives. When we encounter problems, we go to books to find answers. Just like when we encounter problems in life or work, we will ask our elders for advice. Reading is also an easier way for us to solve doubts.

The most recent book I read is "Exercise Physiology". It is no longer a pleasure, I read it because I need it. I am also reading "Whale Riding", swimming in the sea of ??books with my children, and enjoying a journey together. I hope that one day he will give me feedback like a little whale.

Zhou Wei concluded: Our lives will undergo various changes. We can meet more people and learn more experiences through this platform to enrich our own lives. From everyone’s introductions, I thought there are many things we can do together in the future: such as exchanging and borrowing books; flea markets for picture books or toys, and donating the ones that no one buys to the Little Hands Volunteer Association; exchange activities for parent-child education, etc. . Next, let Yang Xue share with us her gains and inspirations from reading the "Secret" series of books.

2. Sharing: Gains and inspirations from reading the "Secret" series of books

Yang Xue: The secret is the well-known law of attraction, and this secret continues in everyone's lives. Your joys and sorrows, your pain and sorrow are all attracted by yourself.

Six years ago, I was working in engineering and had just fallen out of love. I wanted a man who could wait for me at home, cook for me, and love me. Then my husband showed up. I gradually discovered that the friends around me were all attracted by myself. Just like if you encounter a red light and are very unhappy, there may be red lights along the way. Because your irritable emotions are radiated to the universe, the feedback the universe gives you is all red lights. Let us tell the universe what we want, and if you communicate to the universe that you want money, you will get richer and richer.

In this moment, you can choose to be happy or unhappy. If you choose to be happy, the universe will make you happy. Get out of your current environment, get out of your life, and think about what you really want. This is a very magical thing. If you are unhappy, the message of complaint in your heart is sent to the universe, which will attract a lot of unhappy emotions.

If you want your life to change, you should first think of this picture in your mind, focus on this picture, and you will truly see this picture and realize this picture. This is the dream version. You can now write down a few things you want, imagine them randomly, use pictures to show them, pay attention to these things every day, and never think in your heart that you can't achieve them, because they will come true one day.

After the book "The Secret" became a best-seller, many people were affected. No matter what we do, we must focus on good and happy things. Growth is more important than success. As long as you grow, success will come naturally. You will be happy only if you do your work happily in an atmosphere of joy and happiness. If you just complain and be irritated and do it, you will never develop and you will never be happy.

Our future journey lies in every moment. As long as we live every moment well, you will definitely have a bright future. I am also starting a business myself, and I have experienced many ups and downs on this road. The greatest cultivation in life is self-cultivation. I often meditate. I find that people's lives are different, and I will live a better life. I focus on the things I want and I get them.

I used to be very busy and wanted to make money. This was a bad message to the universe. There was a time when I was troubled by debt. When I didn't pay attention to money or this matter, I paid off my credit card without knowing it. If you expect to take it, you must first let it go.

Things around you are spiritual and will bring you good or bad magnetic fields. I wear a gratitude stone. Although it is not a very expensive stone, I cherish it very much. I touch this stone every day before going to bed to thank the people and things in my life. The more you give thanks, the more you will receive.

Zhou Zhenzhen: The first time I read this book was in 2009. Many people feel that they are lucky when they encounter good things, and feel that they are unlucky when they encounter bad things. Just now Yang Xue said that when we don’t want something, it will come. One thing I would like to add is: we have both conscious and subconscious minds. We need to let them communicate and have a deep dialogue, and don't let them fight with each other. For example, in our marriage and love life, you like this boy, but you have set a lot of frameworks. This shows that you subconsciously don't like this boy, and your thoughts will make you do some actions unknowingly to push him away.

You have to talk to the universe very carefully and place orders with the universe very specifically. Tell the universe what you want very clearly and in detail. For example, if you want a house, you have to think about the layout you want, and your consciousness will attract such a house. One day you will actually find this house and you will say, this is what I want. Character determines destiny, actions affect your character, and your actions are led by your thinking. The difference between people lies in the mind, and the mind has to rise to your thinking. Values ??also determine people's thinking and personality.

Hu Jianlin: I thought of something about myself. Regarding the question of whether to have a second child, after I gave birth to my first baby, I was determined not to have another baby. I felt that it was so hard to give birth to a child, so the man should do the sterilization. I consider myself to be on the moral high ground. The two of them kept screwing each other. Until one day I finally figured out that it was my own business not to want a child, and I should not ask him to have a sterilization. You can't do things to death at once. I had always had irregular menstruation before, but since I wanted to prescribe this, my menstruation has become normal. I really experienced such a magical thing. When encountering something, first clarify whose business it is, and don’t ask others for your own ideas.

Yang Shuo: People who have not read the book "The Secret" will think that what we are talking about is a bit idealistic. I studied science from high school to college. At that time, when I didn’t have much insight into life, I would feel a little idealistic when I read it. As I grew up, I discovered that it was related to science. Li Xinpin’s book mentions quantum mechanics. For example, when we look at a microscope, we can see the movement of molecules. When we see the movement of particles under a high-density microscope, the observer’s thinking will affect the particles. The movement of the person being observed will, in turn, affect the thinking of the observer. Everything comes from life. If it can be connected to your life in the end and you can benefit, that is the most important thing.

"Secret" actually talks about the secret of making your wishes come true. But why are so many people still dissatisfied with life after reading The Secret? Everyone has dreams. How to realize your dreams? All your actions must serve this dream. If you just think about it and don’t take action, your dream will not come true.

For example, I am starting a business now. The things I do every day and the things I pay attention to are all moving in this direction. I encountered many difficulties that I originally thought could not be solved, but because my whole body and mind were at work, every move I made was focused on promoting the progress of the matter. A turning point would occur, or with personal help, this difficult situation would be overcome. The thing came true.

Zhou Tingzhen: Yang Shuo said that the actions of the observed will also affect the actions of the observer. Influence each other, there is a saying that other people's attitude towards you is your own attitude. Before we place an order with the universe, we must achieve a high degree of unity between our subconscious mind and our conscious mind. You must place concrete, practical orders and do them every day. The accumulation of quantitative changes will lead to qualitative changes. If you do it for a while and you let go, the signal received by the universe will be very weak. Actions must be taken bit by bit, persevere, and serve your dreams and work hard.

I have always known myself that even if I have financial resources, I will not buy a big house. I definitely want a bachelor apartment.

Shangri-La Community is the first community in Kashgar to have a single apartment. The rough house had just been built at that time. As soon as I entered, I knew that this was what I had always wanted. When I stood in the rough house, I thought about how it would look after it was decorated. When the energy is high, everything goes smoothly. When the energy is low, you don't know what you want to do. Clear your mind and ask yourself what you really want.

From now on, my focus will be on a lofty and down-to-earth goal, which is wealth accumulation. I want (omit two words here), this is my dream. My life really started after I turned thirty. Many people enter an ordinary life after the age of thirty, but I don’t take the ordinary path. My family is very open and my parents let me make my own decisions.

Regarding my dream, I will give myself several years to slowly accumulate until I can realize this wish. When you want something, you have to believe that you already have it and let yourself live in this atmosphere.

Yang Shuo: Everyone has talked about making money, which is great. Wang Xiao, the founder of Zaozao, once said: The money you earn is the applause given to you by the society.

Yang Xue: There is one more thing I want to say, which is: explore everything inward. I participated in a training in 2006, and the teacher asked us to do a dream version, part of which was for public welfare. Then the law of attraction came into play, and in 2006 I met many charity organizations.

3. Sharing: Time management - the secret of getting up early?

4. Free discussion and group photo