I think you should not rush into marriage after discovering this situation. You can have a frank chat with your boyfriend before making a decision. After all, marriage is a big deal. If you can't be honest before marriage, there will only be more and more conflicts in your married life. Marriage should be sacred and prudent. Problems discovered before marriage must be completely resolved before marriage. Once some previously unknown conflicts are discovered after marriage, they will definitely be intensified or even intensified, and in the end the gains outweigh the losses.

First of all, your boyfriend has hidden something from you, and this needs to be discussed clearly. As two people who are about to enter the marriage hall hand in hand, they should trust each other. The financial situation is the most frank. After all, two people have to live together after marriage. Each other's financial situation will seriously affect the quality of life of the two people after marriage. If the boyfriend owes money and conceals it, this is a problem. An undeniable act of deception shows that the person is not trustworthy.

In fact, an overdue credit card shows that the person has no plan and does not understand restraint. Credit card consumption is understandable. Many young people now choose this lifestyle of advanced consumption, but they must have a plan and consume within their control. The credit card limit is generally higher than your repayment ability. At this time, you need to pay attention to restraint, spend rationally within the scope of what you can afford, and need to repay it regularly, otherwise it will affect your personal credit score. A mature person will not This should be allowed to happen.

Finally, the boyfriend’s inability to repay is also a questionable matter. You discovered this incident accidentally, which shows that your boyfriend does not want to take the initiative to confess. A person whose credit card is overdue and unable to repay it, no matter what the reason is, is not worthy of being trusted at least at this time. The most important thing in a marriage is mutual trust. As an adult, if you cannot control your most basic consumer desires, or even bear the consequences, then such a person is definitely not worthy of your lifelong trust, so you need to carefully consider and suspend your plans to get married.