This is inappropriate. I had a similar experience. My girlfriend is three years older than me. We are colleagues. I don't like playing games, but she likes them very much. So far, I have just been in love with her for 26 days, and in these short dozens of days, I have involved money three times. It's not that I am reluctant to spend money for her, but that I can't accept her life.

The first time, that day, she told me that she had quarreled with her elder sister and wanted to borrow 1W from her elder sister. Because I wanted to chase after her and didn't want her to think I was stingy, I gave her 5000 rationally, and she didn't have to pay it back. This time, it left a bad impression on me. I think she is a mature woman with high emotional intelligence. I think she just wants to see what I'm doing. The second time, he revealed to me that his credit card was in arrears for two weeks.

Because playing games is maxed out, it is said that men are used to rely on, otherwise women will do everything and men will be useless, so I gave her 1W again, saying: we will pay back the rest of our wages slowly, and it will only take a few months. There are many difficulties we will face together in the future. As long as two people work together, there is no difficulty. The third time, the one I couldn't bear to part with, she didn't pay back the last time, but owed 1W5, totaling 2W5, and asked me to help her pay it all off.

She said that she cherished her love period and didn't want to make two people in love period live very carefully because of money. If I can't do what I want to do, I will ask for money at home, but I can't talk about her, so I can find reasons to cheat at home. And help her pay off all the money. This incident makes me very disgusted. I hate looking for things at home. It's not a big deal. Two people can solve it. Why should I make trouble for my family? It won't be paid off for months.

It's not that I don't help her return it. It is wrong for me to say that two people are paid to work together. She said that I didn't particularly love her, and I didn't particularly like her. She said that she likes others and knows what it is like to like someone. Said I was defensive and reserved about her, and then I said half jokingly that you were not with me because you wanted me to help you pay your debts.

However, this sentence became the fuse. Later, we communicated rationally and discussed things, but she said that my feelings with her were out of sync. Her relationship with me was 1 and 2 years, and what I did for her was 1 and 2 months. Then we broke up.