Yesterday, I found that my loan was lent out for 1, yuan. I guessed it was my husband! Because it's not the first time! Borrow the auditing mechanism. I gave feedback to their platform last time. The result is still the same! You can lend money without face recognition!
I asked him where the money went. He said that speculating in gold was a loss! I was furious. Scold him loudly, and he turned and ran out of the door. I chased after him and didn't even stop him with my body in front of the car! The other two colleagues pulled the door, but it didn't work. He's still gone, and his back is as if he'll never look back ...
When a man is cruel, he's really comparable to a jackal and a tiger leopard! Later, two male colleagues drove to chase them.
My son has been crying and shouting at home: "Dad, come back! I want my father to come back ... ",I almost can't breathe in pain! I even think selfishly, forget it if he dies, so that this disaster can be ended. But I was very scared, and I was really afraid to get cold in my heart ...
Later, my colleague sent me a message saying that I had caught up. But I almost had a car accident, and I will really say goodbye later! I hate and am angry in my heart. How can this man be so timid? He's down and out like this. I helped him support a family, but he still has to work!
I want to die too! Take the children with you! However, it is really unbearable to look at children who have not experienced the world. They haven't seen the world well, and they haven't lived well!
Being in debt and dying is the most irrational and irresponsible thing to do ...
What should you do when you suddenly know that your husband owes more than 1 million foreign debts behind your back? @ 京京京京京
My lover's words will answer your question. I hope you don't follow in my footsteps! Otherwise, it is really possible that people and money will be empty!
I know that my husband was in debt in 219. The debt broke out in an all-round way, and the dunning phone hit my mobile phone, so the paper can't wrap it up! Ask him how he owed the money, and he said that he lost money by speculating in stocks and gold! He confessed that he owed 68, yuan.
my family contributed 35, yuan to him, and I borrowed 2, yuan from the bank to help him pay his debts. The rest is planned to be paid back slowly ...
However, two months later, he said that he still owed 8, yuan! There is no way to sell the house this time. I returned my daughter's education insurance for 1 years! Pay his debts! However, everything is not over yet.
at the beginning of this year, we sorted out debts and sorted out another one million yuan. Really, it's like a bottomless pit
what should you do when you suddenly know that your husband owes more than 1 million foreign debts behind your back? @ 京京京京
I tell you with my painful lesson: "Don't pay his debts blindly!" Two years later, I saw clearly what I really should do.
When you know that he is in debt, the wisest choice is to divorce him. Divorced, share half of his debts! In the future, the debt he created again has nothing to do with me!
What I regret most is that I struggled for the so-called marital friendship, morality and ethics! If it is for the sake of your family and children, the wisest thing to do is divorce! If you don't want your child to lack fatherly love, you can divorce and not leave home!
after divorce, don't pay your debts blindly! Because you owe so much money, no matter how hard you work, you can only pay back the interest. Children will be dragged down!
it's best to plan the debt repayment plan first! Prioritize. Don't suffer when necessary, you can choose to stop paying the principal. Pay your debts blindly, and you will find that you only pay interest! The principal has not been paid back, and the debt will roll more and more!
If you suddenly find that your husband owes more than 1 million yuan, you should do this:
First, find out why he owes money!
what is he in debt for? If it is online gambling, you can refuse to help him. The law also stipulates that the spouse has no obligation to help pay off such debts without knowing it. Better get divorced!
second, find out the debt situation!
if you hide the debt maliciously like my husband, it is impossible to pay it off!
Third, don't pay your debts blindly!
as a result of blindly paying off debts, people and money may be lost. My husband has probably suffered from depression!
fourth, don't shirk your responsibilities!
it's only natural to pay back debts. The premise is to live first. There is hope when you are alive! If you are in debt, try to make a living first and take care of your children!
to sum up: it took me two years to recognize this reality. I hope it helps you. If you have something specific to ask me, you can ask me alone. I try my best to share my experience.
come on! Stranger! For the sake of our family, we have to endure it!
I was very sad when I wrote this article. It's like uncovering your own scars again! In China, there are many wives who have been cheated by their husbands like me! I hope that everyone can be strong! Try to live first, and then find a way to pay your debts!