It's not easy to say I love you to her! It's easy to fall in love, and many problems are out of consideration, without much concern; However, when it comes to marriage, the reality is in front of us. You have worked hard, and it is not easy to be a parent. Now you need a lover, wife and daughter-in-law to settle down! What a beautiful word-home, home. You work hard for a safe harbor. Although you still have to solve the foreign debt, the most material conditions are basically stable. Pay it back slowly later! In fact, it's okay for you to take your time. Do you have to let her pay it back for you? Or as long as she says that she will work hard with you to return such sweet words, and wants to hear her determination to work hard with you, can she make you feel that she really loves you? If you don't pay it back, it doesn't matter whether you help or not. Let's see what you want. Now the basic situation is here. If you are not married, you can consider that the foreign debt will be paid off one day, just how long; Even without her help, it will be paid off one day. The question is whether she wants to be with you. There's nothing you can do now, and it's not certain whether you will have it in the future. But taking care of her and protecting her heart is just around the corner. Whether you want to have this heart depends on your girlfriend's own giving up and getting it. Now that this has been clarified, will she stand by and watch if there are problems and obstacles in her future life? Want to get married, think clearly about what you want and need! Just know what your family expects of you and ask yourself! However, seeing that your conditions are good, you will certainly succeed. Come on! In short, love is not forced, marriage is not forced, voluntariness is the key, and life will be happy!