With the improvement of living standards, there are gradually more ways to "confinement".

Some people choose the traditional confinement at home and ask their mother or mother-in-law to come and help. Some people pay for more professional confinement nanny to take care of them at home. Those with better conditions can move in directly. Confinement center.

As we all know, confinement center is the most comfortable option and is very popular among young women. However, compared with ordinary confinement care, it also costs the most.

If the economic conditions are average, then the dilemma for mothers is whether to "bite the bullet and go to the confinement center" or "make do with lying down at home".

Not long ago, a mother-in-law posted on the Internet. Her experience and choices triggered heated discussions among netizens.

Li Yan is a new mother. After marriage, Li Yan lives with her parents-in-law in a third-tier city.

In the second year of marriage, Li Yan became pregnant. The whole family was looking forward to the arrival of the new life. Her mother-in-law even prepared her daughter-in-law's birth supplies early.

Thinking of postpartum confinement, Li Yan discussed with her husband that she wanted to go to a confinement center. For this reason, she went to learn about it in advance.

The cheapest package in an ideal confinement center is RMB 38,000, and the most cost-effective package is RMB 50,000. Li Yan likes the RMB 50,000 package and wants to live in the confinement center directly after being discharged from the hospital. center.

But her husband did not support Li Yan’s idea because neither of them came from a wealthy family, and the couple’s combined annual income was only a little more than 100,000.

Later, when it comes to buying a house and raising children, spending 50,000 yuan a month is a bit extravagant. Besides, many pregnant women confine themselves at home and are in good health.

Due to the confinement period, Li Yan and her husband had some unpleasant quarrels. Giving birth may only happen once in a lifetime, so didn’t she deserve to go to a confinement center?

After that, Li Yan began to call her parents’ family to complain, but unexpectedly, everyone seemed to think that she should confine herself at home.

One of the cousins ????from her natal family put it more straightforwardly: My annual salary is more than 200,000, and I hire a confinement nanny at home during the confinement period. There are many places for you to spend money later. If you feel comfortable for a while, you will have nothing to worry about later. It requires hardship.

Her cousin’s words made Li Yan collapse. She posted her experience online. Unexpectedly, some netizens’ answers were also very “realistic”:

“My colleague’s wife went there. Private hospitals and confinement centers cost 90,000, and they were paid with credit cards, but their monthly income is 20,000. Confinement centers are good, but only if you have the conditions."

"This is how it will be for the rest of your life. Once, if the quality of the confinement center is good, you can take good care of your body and worry less about trivial matters. I think the money is well spent."

"I didn't choose the confinement center, I hired 42. Tian’s confinement nanny is almost 30,000 yuan, and the money is provided by my husband’s family. If I spend my own money, I will definitely not be willing to bear it.”

“Although the woman is good to me, the poster did not buy the house. You have a child to raise, and the couple’s annual income is only 100,000 yuan. With all due respect, if you don’t have any support at home, you really don’t deserve to live in a confinement center with 50,000 yuan. If you become a queen and then become a Cinderella, your mentality will be even more broken.”

① Financially affordable

Although the publicity and experience of confinement centers make many pregnant mothers yearn for it, if the financial burden is overburdened and there is no family support around them, Then this kind of overdraft consumption will only bring greater pressure to subsequent life.

Therefore, confinement is certainly comfortable, but the prerequisite is certain financial conditions.

② Obtain support from family members

For many older generations, they would rather take care of mothers at home than spend money on confinement centers. Therefore, for daughters, My daughter-in-law is very resistant to the new type of confinement.

At this time, the mother needs to have good communication with her family. Only with the support of her family can she have a good mood during confinement. Otherwise, the conflicts caused by confinement will gradually spread. to the trivial matters of life in the future.

As we all know, confinement is very important for women’s physical recovery, and many new mothers also hope to enjoy only the best quality confinement services.

But confinement is not about comparison. Whether it is a confinement center, hiring a confinement nanny, or letting family members take care of you, the most important thing is to choose the method that suits you.