You thought it was love, but in the end it was just a game.
01 When I first fell in love, I was completely obsessed with him
Women often easily fall into seemingly beautiful love.
There is a security guard in our community named Xiao Bin. He usually likes to go to the mahjong parlor in the community to play cards and chat. Neighbors also gradually understood that this ordinary man had many "extraordinary" experiences behind him!
He comes from a rural family in a remote mountainous area in Hunan and has an older sister. After graduating from junior high school, his two siblings came to Changsha to work. The elder sister has strong business ability, but the younger brother does not seek advancement and has a low income.
Perhaps, the income is not enough, and the appearance is enough to make up for it.
With thick eyebrows and big eyes, Xiao Bin’s appearance level is obviously higher than his income level. In fact, he is a man who can't control his loneliness. With his skillful flirting skills, he has written a rich love history!
A few years ago, he successfully pursued Xiaoyan, a simple girl from the countryside. Xiaoyan works as a cashier in a small supermarket, and her income is not high.
The same family background and the same social class may also be the reason why the two of them are together.
A girl is new to society and has never been in love. Once Xiaobin says a few sweet words to her, she becomes extremely intoxicated.
In this case, Xiaoyan knew that Xiaobin had a family, but she still fell hopelessly in love with this extremely poor married man.
Not long after, they lived together in a rental house of more than ten square meters (actually a small hut), and the rent was only 200 yuan. Even if the space is small, Xiaoyan doesn't mind it at all and enjoys the little life of being together day and night.
She never expected that that seemingly beautiful time would completely change her and destroy her.
02 Pregnancy out of wedlock, wrong step and wrong step
Sometimes, you think it is love; in fact, it is just wishful self-sacrifice.
Many people reminded Xiaoyan that the two of them were living together illegally and that the other party had a family and a house, so it was really not worth it.
Falling in love, she ignored what others said and just followed Xiaobin to endure hardships.
Of course, Xiao Bin is also very good at coaxing: My wife and I are just matchmakers ordered by our parents, not free love, and we have been separated for two years. We have no feelings for a long time. As long as you are willing to marry Me, I can divorce her at any time!
As the saying goes, a man’s mouth is a liar. However, the simple Xiaoyan still believed it deeply.
At that time, she had only one thought, that is, she loved him and she wanted to marry him!
Even if she is accused by thousands of people, she still feels that she has the backing of upright love.
She thought: What Xu Guangping did to Lu Xun, Zhang Ailing did to Hu Lancheng, and Qiong Yao did to Ping Xintao, didn’t they all fall in love with a married man and intervene in other people’s families? To make the one they love happy, I That’s right!
So, she decided to give everything to him. Soon, she became pregnant.
The arrival of her child brings her mixed joy and sorrow. She is happy that she can finally give birth to a child for her favorite, but sad that her boyfriend has not yet divorced because he has a smart and capable wife behind him.
Xiaobin’s wife is called Xiaoya, and she went to Shanghai to work not long after her marriage. Because of her strong earning power, their daughter has been raised by Xiaoya, so she is deeply loved by her parents-in-law.
Seeing her husband blatantly cheating on her while living together, and even having a secret pregnancy, Xiaoya naturally sneered and hated her. She didn't want to fulfill this unscrupulous couple, so she promised a divorce. , but has been reluctant to divorce in action.
In desperation, Xiaobin persuaded Xiaoyan to abort the child, telling her: I earn two thousand a month and cannot afford to raise a child. She deliberately delayed the divorce so that our baby would not be able to register!
Xiaoyan said stubbornly: No, I want to stay with you forever. Let’s give birth to the child and take it one step at a time!
Immediately, Xiaobin also acquiesced to her idea.
Anyway, it's up to him to decide whether he will be responsible or not.
In this way, Xiaoyan embarked on the wrong path of becoming pregnant out of wedlock, and will probably face even more terrible suffering as a woman.
03 After giving birth to a disabled child, he became a street rat
Xiaoyan’s pregnancy was her most painful time!
She lived in a dark and humid rental house with little light all day long, which more or less affected the development of her fetus. Coupled with the poverty of life, she wanted to join her relatives, but she was kicked out.
Her parents disowned her, disliked her for not loving herself, interfering in other people's marriages, and getting pregnant!
Xiaobin’s parents looked down upon her even more. Her father ordered:
You can’t step into our house during my lifetime. Don’t dirty the lintel of our house or dirty our home. reputation!
Xiaoyan has become a street rat with nowhere to stay. She can only rely on Xiaobin and wait for the arrival of her child.
However, fate played a big joke on her. It is most likely due to frequent malnutrition and poor environment during pregnancy. The baby's throat will be disabled after birth, and he may become mute in the future. The surgery would cost one hundred thousand, so it was obvious that they had to give up.
In order to raise a baby, Xiaobin asked someone to find a better job, working as a security guard in a hospital, with a monthly salary of more than 3,000 yuan. And decided to rent a larger room with a kitchen, and the rent was 1,200 yuan a month.
Although his salary was higher, after deducting the rent and living expenses for three people, it was basically negative every month, so he chose to cash out with a credit card. In the end, he owed as much as 100,000 yuan in debt, and his life was no longer sustainable.
The former oath of love was brought back to reality by money, rice, oil and salt. Her heart was broken bit by bit, and the reappearance of Xiaobin's father became the fatal blow to her departure.
When the baby was two years old, Xiaobin's father came to the provincial capital for medical treatment and stopped by for dinner. But when he mentioned his rice bowl, he got angry: "You are rich when you cook so many dishes!" You see Xiaoya is very good at running a family, are you half as good as someone else...
Xiaoyan is extremely aggrieved. After so many years of enduring humiliation and paying without regrets, not only is she not recognized, but she is rewarded It means not being treated well and not being respected.
The only way forward is poverty, and there will be no end to her frustration! She wiped away her tears and began to retort:
My son is angry at me when he has no ability. It was your son who seduced me back then. He is so poor and yet he puts money on his face. Okay, I'll leave and never do it again. Come back...
This time, Xiaoyan really left and never came back.
She took the child back to her hometown alone. After all, so much time has passed, and her family has gradually accepted them!
Xiao Bin thought about going to find them, but when he remembered that it was a disabled child, he gave up.
You see, people’s hearts are very realistic and cold.
04 Love is not everything, let’s be more realistic
For a man like Xiaobin, his first wife Xiaoya has indeed had enough. The two people have been separated in two places for many years, and their relationship as husband and wife has been broken off.
The smart Xiaoya saw Xiaoyan leaving completely, and when she saw Xiaoyan's fate, she actually raised a proud smile on her lips.
So, she thought, the mistress got her comeuppance, and it was time for her to escape unscathed. She no longer delayed the divorce and quickly obtained the divorce certificate from Xiaobin.
Xiao Bin was originally the husband of two women and the father of two children, but now he is single.
Everyone knows Xiao Bin, he is a "poor lothario" who cannot live without a woman. He must continue to go back to his old business, using his appearance and smooth words to hunt for women everywhere.
In less than a year, he dated three or four more women, including salespeople, property management staff, and the most surprising thing is that one was a graduate student from 985 University...
But in the end they all parted ways. Probably, those women who were deceived found that this man was unreliable.
Not long ago, I heard that he had remarried, and the other party was also divorced.
Our jaws were almost dropped. Why did this impoverished man who abandoned his wife and children still have someone to take over?
Perhaps this is the bloody theater of real life. We outsiders really can’t tell or explain it.
The most tragic person in this plot is undoubtedly Xiaoyan. She is self-inflicted and self-destructive and does not even deserve sympathy.
She desperately interferes in other people's marriages, and it is impossible not to be despised and spurned by others.
Because she insisted on going her own way and obsessed with a person who could not give her a status, she finally brought a lot of trouble to her children, which was enough for her to regret for the rest of her life.
So, what I want to say is, girl, you must not be blinded by love.
Love can bloom beautiful flowers or bear poisonous fruits.
Love only wants Normandy, but life does not believe in tears.
Love is not everything. There is nothing wrong with being realistic.