Junichi Watanabe listed a real example in the book, and all your friends may have had similar experiences.
Newcomer writers have just started to contribute, and it is common for them to be rejected because they are unknown. But how did Junichi Watanabe respond? Have a drink and get some sleep. The next day, I came back to life with blood, regrouped and continued to write with great enthusiasm.
Another new writer is just the opposite. This guy has a strong self-esteem and his rejection is a great blow. It took a long time to get out of the depressed state and slowly lost the desire and fighting spirit for creation. In the end, the mainstream media never found this writer. However, Junichi Watanabe gradually gained attention and eventually became a world-famous writer.
Finally, Junichi Watanabe concluded: Whether a person can succeed sometimes really depends not on talent, but on mentality! Beneficial passivity can help you not to be hurt by the outside world and weaken your fighting spirit. Those who have succeeded in all fields have a strong sense of boredom in their hearts.
Writer Feng Tang often used his nine-character mantra: Don't worry, don't be afraid, be shameless. In fact, it is also a manifestation of power insensitivity.
This attitude towards life is vividly reflected in Luo Yonghao. Lao Luo left New Oriental to establish an English training institution, then switched to making hammer mobile phones, and then made e-cigarettes across the border. Now he has started to bring goods for live broadcast, accompanied by all kinds of singing, slandering, mocking and even swearing! But Lao Luo was unmoved and said: Hard life needs no explanation! Respond to all those who question him.
Bill Gates famously said: No one will care about your feelings until you succeed.
Think about the early days when Degang Guo founded Deyun Society. Run by peers, banned by TV stations, betrayed by disciples. In the end, he didn't let Deyun Society stand out from the crowd!
These successful cases have all benefited from the hero's strong inner support, free from external interference, and made extraordinary achievements in their respective fields.
Some time ago, Zhang Ying, the founder of Jingwei China, sent an interesting Weibo. He said: the same train, why some people are infected, some people are safe and sound, there are distance factors, the key is the difference in personal immunity. People with poor immunity bear the brunt of this epidemic, whether it is infection or severe illness. The key to good health lies in how good your immunity is. Some people can chase dramas at home in pajamas and isolate themselves for three months. Someone was quarantined for a week and found that the credit card bill was not returned, and the mortgage car loan was in a hurry. This is everyone's financial immunity is different. Some people were criticized by the leaders in the morning and were happy in the afternoon. Some people are given a look by others, their hearts are broken and they feel sorry for themselves. This is the emotional immunity of different people.
After the epidemic, we should all think about how to improve our comprehensive immunity.
People with strong immunity are "counterfeiting" in Northeast dialect and "false truth" in our hometown dialect.
The ideal is full and the reality is skinny. Every day, we are hit by surging waves from all directions. I hope you and I can forge a pair of indestructible steel bars and live a tough life!