Adolescence is a period that every child has to go through. During this period, children develop rapidly to full maturity both physically and psychologically. But in this process, children will especially want to be independent and don't want anyone to stop them. More importantly, adolescent children are students, because they can't bear the pressure of learning, and they will do a lot of things. Excessive behavior is treason in the eyes of adults. What if the child is rebellious?

The first is to avoid confrontation and change the way of communication. Blaming and preaching are the things that children of rebellious young people resist most. They are eager for independence and sensitivity, so don't compare. If you keep cursing like a child and force them to admit their mistakes, children will become more resistant. Suppress your emotions until you speak.

Second, understand, respect and trust children. Learning to respect and communicate rationally is the first step towards puberty. What you can give them is that your love is not your idea, but that they have their own ideas. In recent years, people are increasingly aware of the importance of "how to speak". Even parents need to learn how to "speak" when communicating with their children. The premise of communicating with children is to recognize their independence, understand them from their standpoint, respect them equally, and convince others by reasoning.

Third, let go moderately and improve tolerance for children. Teenagers are full of contradictions. They want to be independent, but they don't want to rely on it. Hope to communicate, but sensitive and closed. Therefore, they always do strange "stupid" things. For example, suddenly shut down, infatuated with idols, wearing strange clothes, feeling lost. At this time, acceptance and letting go are the key words of adolescent children. For questions without principles, shut up and try. Children need these explorations and trial and error to discover their true identity.

Fourth, pay more attention to children. Some children are rebellious because their parents often ignore them. They are eager to get their parents' concern, so they come up with a means of resistance to attract their parents, hoping that this will make them care about them. Such rebellion makes people feel distressed, and parents should pay more attention to their children at ordinary times.

Finally, give your child a goal. Adolescent rebellious children have a common problem, that is, they are confused and don't know the direction of life. At this time, parents are particularly important. Parents need to point out the direction for their children, give them a goal and guide them on the right path. Parents can sit down and talk to their children and guide them to find this goal. With goals, children will be motivated.