The TV series "Thirty Only" I once watched changed my life values ??a lot, and I was very touched.

Many subtle things and changes happen to women between the ages of twenty and thirty, such as appearance, work, body, and family.

I often hear it said in books: Before the age of twenty, everything you have is given by your parents. Before the age of thirty, you have to rely on yourself to give it to yourself and rely on money to accumulate. You will not understand until you grow up. The truth in the book is that all our famous quotes are the imprints of experiences left by the ancients.

In the blink of an eye, I turned twenty-eight. In 1993, I was only two years away from turning thirty. I had no marriage partner, I had no money to save, and my job was still unstable. At this moment, I am sitting in a rental house of less than 30 square meters, holding my mobile phone, recording the emotions that life has brought to me, unable to sleep late at night.

Yesterday was Army Day. I wish the Chinese soldiers of the motherland a happy Army Day! I really want to say to my brother, happy Army Day! But the words never came out. Something happened today that made me very angry and aggrieved. I have been working in Nanning for custom furniture for two months and nineteen days. I have made 110,000 yuan in the company. Although it is not much, it is a sign of my work ability. I think back to the day when I received my salary and pay slip for the first month. It was a hot afternoon. Because I was ignorant about salary, I asked my old employee and colleague Lili. It turned out that I was a little unlucky and lit the fuse because the difference in salary was 200. The four old employees of Yuan Dynasty all have grievances. I don’t know whether they love or hate their talkativeness. Even now they don’t dare to ask their colleagues. Looking back to now, it has started to fluctuate again for 2 months. I really want to slap myself in the face, but as a newbie who has just entered the workplace, how can I understand that these company regulations prohibit negotiation of basic salary? The human resources department had made it clear last time, but what shouldn't have happened finally happened.

? The personnel department told me that because I leaked the company’s basic salary, the general manager and the general manager’s office were implicated. Where did the personnel department go? When I heard the news, I didn’t know what to say. My eyes were wet with helplessness and grievance. Fortunately, no one saw my embarrassment and grievance at that time, so they gently rubbed their eyes and pretended to run to the toilet to avoid the bad mood. For a moment, I felt as if it was all my fault. I couldn’t understand that Xiaobai was always bullied like this. He was so helpless and helpless. I typed desperately to explain. At that time, the personnel told me that no one was at fault now. In the past, This didn't happen. It's your fault that you leaked your base salary. Tears welled up in the corners of his eyes again. The newcomer Xiaobai really had nothing to say. He could either wait for dismissal without reason or continue to work in the company.

I heard that there were many options at this time. I was a little disappointed, aggrieved, and sad. I worked so hard, but in the end it might be all in vain. Haha, I looked grim. The so-called workplace can't help but make me feel disappointed. My friend also said that it depends on how the leaders communicate before deciding. Otherwise, the salary and salary will be good if I am transferred to another department. I replied that anyway, it is the same everywhere to make money. As long as you remember the original intention, The words were intentional.

Later I said, if it doesn’t work out, I will go back to my hometown. The personnel told me not to think too much about the retreat, but it would make me unable to do well. I said: People always have to make two choices for themselves, in case they fall. There was still a choice; we didn’t talk much after that, and I felt so depressed that I wanted to cry out my grievances. I wasn't in a good mood that afternoon, and I noticed something was wrong with the way the store manager looked at me. Maybe she was also thinking about my stay! We glanced at each other for a few times and seemed to understand something. After a while, a family came into the store. I received the reception and learned about the product explanation. During the 10 minutes of conversation, some intentions were left on WeChat for follow-up. Fortunately, the negative emotions were not affected. My play. This is how people grow up with strength, freedom and tears, and more importantly, unwillingness. Think about yourself as a person who is almost thirty years old, and your work is still in a mess. You feel that you are old, you can't stand setbacks, you are very sensitive, and you love to shed tears. , maybe this is because of a lack of security. But I can only rely on myself on this road. From the moment I stepped on the high-speed train, I vowed to work hard, do it well and do it well. I will never give up before returning to my hometown. I hope my efforts will not be in vain.

I remember that I still have 31 credit card installments that have not been paid off yet. Do I have to remember to pay off the debt before I turn 30 and have my own savings? There will be a summary on the eve of 18.55 to summarize last month’s activities. This month there will be an assessment and elimination system of 80,000 people. In fact, it is nothing. I know that I can complete it. I may not be worried about this and the results of the discussions in the past few days. Well, should I increase the salary of the old employee or fire me? Panic, fear, fear is not dismissal, and it is an unfair treatment. I feel like I have experienced a lot at the age of twenty-eight. Late at night, I still hear the sound of barbecues, beer, and people talking in the urban village, Nanning, a city with nightlife; I instantly don’t know where I will go in the future.

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