You don't have to be humble, let alone look at other people's faces.

You are you, and you don't need to punish yourself with other people's eyes.

People should not be too stupid, and you can pretend not to hear if you don't like it.

Life is not to please others, but to learn to treat you coldly when others look down on you.

1 Don't lose your value and live in other people's eyes

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In The First Half of My Life, Zijun, a rich wife, goes out with a nanny, and eats Yangcheng Lake when eating crabs. She sees Chen Junsheng choosing necklaces with her colleagues.

I went to ask questions without scruple, and when I saw my colleague wearing that necklace in the company, I even broke it without regard for face.

After Chen Junsheng cheated, she was down and out, with no money and no place to live. She was derailed from society for several years and could do nothing.

mistress directly asked zijun to move out of Chen Junsheng's house, and zijun asked for 6, yuan.

After the divorce, Zijun was not only looked down upon by Chen Junsheng, but Xiao San was hitting a person when he was down. It was impossible for 6, yuan. This was robbery, at most, it was 2, yuan, and he asked to negotiate with Zijun.

zijun was naturally afraid of mistress's invitation, but she was not stupid. After hanging up, she immediately turned to Tang Jing He Han for help.

mistress Xiao's move towards zijun was an accident. I didn't expect that the poor rich wife, who really looked down upon her, would actually have this skill.

insisting on 6, yuan, every penny, ten minutes of conversation, made Xiao San feel at a loss.

backbone is earned by yourself, not by others.

No one is superior and no one is inferior. As long as you are willing to live on the water, no one can push you to the bottom.

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For those who look down on you, you should either stay away from or attack

No common cause, no common goal

Try your best to squeeze into different circles. If others feel uncomfortable, you will feel even worse.

it's very tiring to be a snob and act according to people's faces.

In Nothing But Thirty, in order to save the company, Gu Jia desperately squeezed into the circle of Fu Tai, making cakes to please Fu Tai, and kneeling down to put shoes on Fu Tai.

The first time she participated in Futai activities, she chose a Chanel bag that she thought she could handle. After the party, she was satisfied and thought she had successfully squeezed into the circle.

unexpectedly, she was cut in the photo.

resentful as she is, she is helpless. She is not from Hermes circle.

after that, she didn't give up, but rather maxed out her credit card and asked her friend Nini to look for Hermè s bags with rare leather.

Once again, she participated in the gathering of Fu Tai, and succeeded in winning back face, being praised and touted, and appearing in the circle of friends.

Although the circle of Fu Tai is false, Gu Jia has gained a firm foothold, which not only solves the crisis of the company, but also is loved by people.

This time, she won completely, and she was impressed by those who once looked down on her.

at last, Mrs. Li calculated her, and 3 million yuan was wasted, which made her see the darkness of the circle of Fu Tai clearly.

I decided to part ways with my wife's circle, instead of settling for perfection, and humbly please that group of ignorant people.

Because Gu Jia clearly understands that people in the wife's circle look down on this and that, but they live with their husband's surname, live in the value radius of their husband, and then dig up a sense of superiority, and get together to show off and compare, the more glamorous and sad it is.

From then on, when I saw the importer Mrs. Wang again, I learned that all the other rich wives were down and out, but Mrs. Wang kept praising Gu Jia.

when you meet someone who looks down on you, the best way to deal with it is to treat it coldly, stay away from negative energy and be yourself.

You will live better and be more yourself if you leave those who look down on you.

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Please live more expensively for the rest of your life

As long as you are not contemptuous and servile, no one can judge you.

To live in this world is not to look at other people's eyes, but to do what you want.

instead of trying to please others, it is better to spend your mind on yourself.

people who look down on you are always snobbish, no matter how humble you are, they are still useless.

for the rest of your life, please live a noble life, don't wronged yourself and make others happy.

you are not a doll, so you don't need to be teased by others.

Listen, the last word is to stay away from these people, or to fight back and live yourself.