Women who have no independent opinions are often less likely to be happy. They cannot take responsibility for their own lives. Although he looks well-behaved, he lacks true independence in his heart. Deep down, they are always afraid of being abandoned, so they hope to exchange their lack of opinion for a sense of security. Their favorite mantra is that it doesn’t matter, it doesn’t matter.

This kind of vague words cannot fully demonstrate one's own personality, nor can it allow others to better understand oneself. A woman once told me that she was completely obedient to her husband at home, but found that her husband disrespected her. At work, she didn’t have much idea, and she obeyed the leader in everything, but she still didn’t do her job satisfactorily.

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Cultivating opinions

1. Children’s wishes

A considerable number of parents are accustomed to making decisions for their children. Children's opinions are rarely solicited; once the children do not comply, they are heavily blamed. In fact, children have their own thoughts, and parents should pay attention to allowing their children to fully express their wishes at all times and give them the opportunity to think independently.

For example, if you take your child to the supermarket for shopping, you can ask him what he wants to buy; before bathing your child, you can ask him what preparations he should make; when you take your child out, you can ask him what kind of transportation he wants to take; When taking your child on a trip, you can ask him what he thinks he should prepare; etc.

2. Use inspiring words instead of commands

Listen patiently to every word your children say, encourage and guide them to express their thoughts freely, which not only reflects the parents' respect for their children, but also encourages them to express their thoughts freely. At the same time, it can also effectively cultivate children's autonomy. Parents can pay attention to the following aspects: