This is a society that looks at faces, as we all know. Whether it's an interview or a blind date. Even when eating and shopping, the clerk may be more friendly because you are beautiful or handsome.
Brush Weibo can often see such a sentence, I wish you to be treated gently by the world. If it had been before, I would have found this sentence very useful. This is like a shot in the arm when you are frustrated. Now, what I like better is that I wish you treat the world gently. Yes, it is gentle with each other. Because it is a rare luck to be treated gently by this world. It is our kindness to treat the world gently.
In the fast-paced social environment, we gradually become impetuous and lose patience. Can't wait for the traffic in line, slow-paced plot, late lovers. In fact, waiting is not so terrible. What's terrible is our restless little devil. It's like when we are stuck in a traffic jam, seeing others successfully jump the queue and leave first, our hearts will begin to feel unwilling, and then we will follow suit. Many of these things mean that every time we feel unwilling and bullied, we must follow suit and take equal revenge? Does that mean that if one day we are bitten by a dog, we should immediately bite back? !
In the article on WeChat official account, the author wrote that most people will pursue the [recommendation letter]-beauty in front of them, while ignoring the [credit card]-kindness behind them. However, a beautiful letter of recommendation will depreciate, while a Zhang Shanliang credit card will appreciate. The soul is worthless, and people are worthless.
Beauty is innate and we can't change it. But whether to overdraw kindness or not is our own choice. In interpersonal communication, we can often see people taking advantage of others by virtue of their beauty and even doing things that challenge the moral bottom line. But behind these things, what can last for a long time? Start with face value and end with character. When we meet for the first time, beauty is a plus item, but in long-term communication, personality is the decisive item for the development of the relationship. Although this is a world of looking at faces, beautiful looks will fade away, just like vases. If it is broken, what is left?
Kindness is not an act. This is a way of life. I like this sentence at the end of the article.
More kindness, more gentleness and more patience.