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1. I was admitted to a very unsatisfactory major and felt very bad. It was really boring to advance and there was no way out. ah.

——The key to life is not to get a good deck of cards, but to play a good deck of bad cards.

2. I am about to graduate, but the hardship at the grassroots level, the poverty in academia, the battle of wits in the business world, and the political world... I don’t want to work anymore.

——You must participate in work. If it goes well, you will be very happy; if it is rough, you will become a philosopher; if you avoid it, you will be nothing.

3. I am very noble. When I see many people with vulgar tastes, I feel very angry and lonely.

——If you ask a male toad, what is beauty? It replied that beauty was its female toad. Do you want to argue with it?

4. I am very thoughtful and often think about many problems. Sometimes I even have trouble falling asleep. I'm very distressed, but I don't want to be full and have nothing to worry about all day long.

——A person who thinks too little may lose his dignity as a human being; a person who thinks too much may lose the joy of being a human being.

5. I have many dreams that are difficult to let go of, and life is very painful for them. Can it be liberated?

——Indeed, where there are dreams, there is inevitably pain. But, the place without dreams is the grave.

6. I am very strong. Some people say that I am very vain. I admit it in my heart, but I can’t change it because I don’t want others to look down on me.

——Humony is a beautiful piece of clothing that does not cover the body. When wearing it, apart from increasing one’s burden, what else does it do?

7. I have always achieved excellent results and ranked among the best. But I did very badly in the exam last semester and failed. I was afraid of losing my dominant position and felt very stressed.

——Competition is lifelong, winning or losing is temporary.

8. I really want to be a pure and upright person, but if others are not like this, shouldn’t I suffer?

——A clear conscience is a gentle pillow, which can make people sleep sweeter and more peacefully.

9. I am very dissatisfied with many things in social reality, but why are so many people saying good things?

——The Qin Emperor and the Han Dynasty were in their prime. But there is also a sentence like this in the Yuan opera: "Sad for the Qin and Han Dynasties, the people were in ruins, and the scholars let out a long sigh."

10. There is ambition, but there is a feeling that the ambition is great but the talent is lacking.

——Zhuangzi said: "If the accumulation of water is not thick, it will be unable to carry a large boat; if the accumulation of wind is not thick, it will be unable to carry a large wing."

11. How do you survive poverty and poverty, difficult life, and great pressure?

——The hammer can shatter glass and can also forge swords. Imagine that one day in the future, I will read Jia Dao's poem "The Swordsman" with great enthusiasm: "I have sharpened my sword for ten years, but I have never tried the frost blade. Today I show you the sword, for whom do you complain?"

12. Seeing the society In the hustle and bustle of the world, I wonder where is the pure land where I can find peace?

——If an individual cannot find peace in his heart, I am afraid that there will be no help anywhere.

13. I consider myself a pessimist. I often feel sad and many smiling faces appear superficial. However, after all, I have heard many people and read many books saying that we should "smile at life". To laugh or not to laugh?

——The key is to be optimistic and optimistic, not to laugh. If your hair is already gray, dyeing it black will not change your age. If you don't feel happy, why force a smile.

14. I feel that failure is terrible and I feel a lot of pressure.

——Who can always be successful? The shame of life does not lie in losing, but in being unable to lose; the glory of life does not lie in never falling, but in being able to rise again and again.

15. My family suffered a series of misfortunes, and I felt depressed, depressed, and very doomed. How to change your unfortunate fate?

——It is unlikely that an individual will change his destiny before he changes his attitude towards his destiny.

16. We often work hard, but it is inevitable that we will make mistakes. The results are not always satisfactory. We are really disappointed and sometimes even despair. Why are all efforts in vain?

——Barnyard grass may grow in the fields every year. What farmer complains about the futility of pulling out barnyard grass last year?

17. How to get rid of the feeling of abandonment?

——Read Tao Qian’s poem several times: “Relatives may still be sad, but others have also sung; what is the way to die? I support my body on the same mountain.”

18. My longing The university class is full of wisdom and shocking to the soul, just like a wonderful lecture. But now I'm disappointed, what can I learn?

——We have eaten some sumptuous meals, and we have also eaten many daily meals, which of course taste more bland. What makes us grow into a strong body?

19. I have just entered my third year of college. I am worried that I will not be able to find a good job after graduation. I do not want to take the postgraduate entrance examination for my major. It is said that it is difficult to take the cross-major examination. The more I think about it, the less I know what to do.

——Most fruits taste bitter before they are ripe. Why try it so quickly?

20. I am always indecisive, worrying about gains and losses. I seem to be unable to take up or let go of anything, which is very annoying.

——The key is not about gains and losses. If you can gain without guilt and lose without regrets, then let it be the consequences of gains and losses.

21. I have suffered a series of misfortunes and am heartbroken. Why are you so unlucky?

——"Unfortunately" is a university that no one applies to, but it recruits students every year. Those who can graduate are strong.

22. How to face the pain of life?

——It is difficult for a heart that does not experience pain to be deeply kind. On the stage of life, you must learn to experience pain like an actor; in addition, you must also smile at your pain like a bystander.

23. It would be great if people never grow up. I miss the relaxation and joy of childhood very much.

——Yes, it would be great if the seedlings did not grow up. We could eat the charming green grass instead of cooking.

24. Some people say that women are cute only when they are pure, and reliable when they are mature. I'm confused, should I stay cute or pursue reliability?

——The two are not contradictory, right? How long can cuteness last if it’s unreliable? If not cute, so what is reliable?

25. Failed in studies, life is difficult, and the future is bleak. I was always in a melancholy mood and often secretly shed tears. How to survive?

——First find a place where no one is, look in the mirror, try to smile, then try to smile again, and then remind yourself: the days are long, crying is also life, smiling is also life, and smiling is also life. There is more hope than crying.

26. I was cheated and suffered heavy losses. I was once innocent and now I am disappointed with everything. Do I still want to live? How to survive?

——First think about the upbringing of my parents, and then remind myself: Now fate forces me to become a hero, I must have the courage to survive: 1. There is only one true heroism in the world, that Even after knowing the truth of life, you still love life. 2. No matter how many difficulties and ups and downs we have experienced, no matter how much despair and disillusionment we have experienced, a person's life must be a hymn to life.

27. The expectations of your loved ones and your own beliefs are that you can only succeed and not fail. I feel very competitive pressure, very tired from life, and very nervous almost every day.

——According to a certain standard, mediocre people make up the vast majority, including most of our parents. Are they all losers? Why is it that possessing resources, wealth, status, and fame are considered success, but having a kind heart, a beautiful personality, and family happiness are not success?

28. Many people around me are full of admiration for practical knowledge and skills. I'm confused, are skills everything in this world?

——Someone once commented that the French politician Talleyrand “can do anything, even do good.

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29. My parents care about me very much and are always afraid that I will suffer and suffer, so they arranged a good life and future for me. I feel a little uncomfortable, but I am still worried about it. Just sit back and enjoy the results.

——What others arrange for you can be called enjoyment; what you get through your own hard work is called happiness.

30. After I went to college, I found that I was unknown. , has a complex mentality that is both arrogant and humble, and desperately wants to stand out and be famous in the future, but now, there is no hope, and he feels very boring, just hanging around all day long.

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31. The world is changing too fast, e-mail, e-business, e-love... I come from a rural area, my computer skills are very low, and I am very worried about what will happen in the future. Will you not be able to keep up with society and be dropped by e?

——No matter what e is, e is just an attributive, and the subject is still mail, business, love...

32. Far from home How can I make friends when I feel lonely with my relatives?

- The first way to make friends is to be friends yourself

33. At the beginning, our classmates in the dormitory had a good relationship. , I am very happy. Now it has gradually faded away, everyone is busy, and there is no longer that kind of family atmosphere. I am very disappointed. Almost, we all grew up together. Later, the old duck wants to go into the water, please comfort the sad chicken.

34. I am afraid of arguing with others, afraid of people’s unpredictability, and dare not open up to me. What should we do when we interact with each other but feel lonely?

——Water has no beauty, but the waves are like ripples; rocks have no fire, but they strike each other and emit light.

35. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years, but recently he no longer cares about me, but often excuses himself from being with me. I am worried, what should I do if he gets tired of me? p>

——If you can say to him in your heart: "I look forward to being with you, but I can live well without you. "You will definitely be more attractive.

36. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. The relationship with another good friend is also difficult to sustain. Although the man is in tears, I feel very sad inside. Loneliness.

- Birds of the same kind cannot fly together. Let each of us have a piece of the sky, and then give yourself a belief: there must be neighbors if you are not alone.

37. I am an introvert. There is a roommate who is very domineering and always makes fun of me. I don’t want to have a confrontation with him in public, but I don’t want to tolerate it forever. What should I do?

Find an appropriate opportunity to write a letter. The note reminded him: Joking can't hurt enemies, but it can hurt friends, including roommates.

38. I originally wanted to run for a position in the student union, but I saw some people were trying to build relationships and gangs. I feel a bit cold, should I advance or retreat?

- Go to the Pearl River and think about the Tang poem "Your body and reputation will be destroyed, and the river will not flow forever" before deciding.

39. Seeing that some competitors are unscrupulous, I feel embarrassed to advance and reluctant to retreat.

——What I can win is more valuable than a pure heart and a pair of clean hands. Precious and better?

40. I love face and want everyone to have a good impression of me, so I live cautiously. However, there are still people who don’t like me.

——How can I live up to my expectations?

41. In college, although I worked hard, I was still very ordinary. I didn’t stand out in any aspect, and I envied those who criticized me. The classmates who are surprised by Fengyun are quite disappointed with themselves.

——Beautiful flowers may not bear sweet fruits, such as peonies and peonies; flowers bearing sweet fruits may not be beautiful and dazzling, such as jujube flowers.

42. I firmly believe that people who make mistakes should be severely punished and sanctioned. But sometimes, the reality makes me very angry.

Why not?

——Don’t be too harsh when attacking people’s faults, but think about how well they can tolerate it; don’t be too lofty when teaching people good deeds, but make sure they can follow them.

43. I pursue perfection and like the best, but I find it difficult to get along with others. Why?

——Everything has its limits, and going too far is never enough. "A Dream of Red Mansions" says that Miao Yu "is the more jealous when you are too high, and the same is the same when you are too clean", which can be used as a lesson.

44. I had a quarrel with a friend who I talked to about almost everything. She knows a lot of my secrets and I'm worried. What should I do?

——It can be regarded as a lesson. The ancients said: When you are happy, you must express your true feelings, but when you are unhappy, you must guard against venting; when you are angry, you must express your sadness, and when you are in good times, you should feel ashamed. Westerners say that it is best to maintain a "porcupine distance" when getting along with others. It is said that porcupines are covered with thorns. When the weather is cold, they want to get close to each other to use their body heat to keep out the cold, but they cannot get too close, so the porcupines get as close as possible without being able to prick the other.

45. A dear and respectable friend did something very bad recently. I was shocked, heartbroken, and suspicious of both him and myself.

——In places with strong light, the shadows are darker.

46. I don’t know how to express myself well. Be boastful, others will call you crazy; be humble, but you will be afraid of being regarded as "just soso".

——Don’t say how good you are, others will generally not believe it; don’t say how bad you are, others will generally believe it. More profoundly, parrots can speak and are inseparable from animals; peaches and plums cannot speak, and they are in trouble.

47. I am immersed in reading, have few friends, and am not familiar with the world. Some people say that I am a nerd, but I am not convinced. I consider myself not a nerd, but I am also very contradictory: I really don’t want to be worldly, but I seem to have to be worldly?

——Wu Congxian of the Ming Dynasty lamented: "If the world is familiar, it is easy for people to flow; if the world is sparse, it is easy for friendship to be blocked. What's more, it is difficult to survive!" Knowing this dilemma may make the conflicting mind calm. Some.

48. I once believed that "good will be rewarded with good and evil will be rewarded with evil." But reality tells me that virtuous people may not be blessed, and unjust people may not suffer disaster. It's really like "raising your head and asking the sky, the sky is blue".

——Sorrow, anger and helplessness are human nature. But we might as well think about it calmly. Since we admit that fame and fortune cannot buy virtue, why should we ask for rewards such as fame and fortune from virtue?

49. I am about to graduate and enter the society. During my internship, I learned that no matter in politics, business, or journalism, there are many times when you can't help yourself, and some of them are even ugly. Is it possible for me, a young and vigorous person, to be alone? Is being complicit in the evil deeds the same as aiding the evildoers?

——If you go to a place with many wolves, you might as well remember this sentence: "In order to avoid being eaten by wolves, you have to howl with the wolves." If you go to a place with many people, remember another sentence: One sentence: "Virtue may not make the face beautiful, but evil will definitely make the face ugly."

50. Since I entered college, I have more classmates, but I seem to be more lonely.

——It is not necessarily a good thing for a person to feel lonely when he is a minor, or not to feel lonely when he is an adult.

51. I can talk to people very well online, but how can I do it so freely in real life?

——There are two methods for reference: first, do not treat the other party in reality as a living person; second, do not use the Internet as a refuge.

52. The classmates in the same dormitory are undisciplined, mean and selfish, and difficult to get along with. I feel very uncomfortable. Can I change my dormitory?

——Life is like taking a bus. After buying a ticket and getting on the bus, it’s hard to know what kind of traveling companions you will meet. Should you change buses?

53. The boys in our class are very bad. During a class outing to climb mountains, the girls were carrying things on the way. During the lunch picnic, they occupied the shady place and we were very sunburned! Are all boys still children?

——The cow eats straw and the duck eats grain. Each has its own blessing. Why worry about him? Just don’t play with him next time.

54. I have always been independent in personality, but I often feel lonely and desolate.

Are you destined to have no partner in this life?

——When you sit alone, you still have the sky to support you, and when you go wild, you still have the moon to accompany you. How can you say you have no company?

55. I am a very grateful person and always think about repayment. I always keep it in my heart when I owe others favors. Some acquaintances say that I am too outsider and I don’t know what to do.

——Repaying kindness is the glory of human nature, but the method and object of repayment may not be so rigid. You have eaten a lot of eggs laid by chickens and drank a lot of milk produced by cows. How have you repaid them?

56. In some organizational activities, I heard a lot of obvious lies and clichés. Those people seem to be quite happy with it. Shouldn’t they tell the truth?

——You don’t have to tell the truth, but what you say should be the truth. If you accidentally attract people's attention, stay away from places where lies are common. The earth is abundant and the world is not lonely.

57. It is said that beautiful faces are most popular when looking for a job or falling in love. I just hate my parents for not giving me a pretty face.

——A beautiful face is just a letter of recommendation, and a beautiful heart is a credit card.

58. I believe that the greatest happiness and highest goal in life lies in perfect love. But I’m not sure about it. Many people of the opposite sex in this era are unreliable.

——Life with love is happy, but life with love is dangerous.

59. I yearn for the romantic adventure of love at first sight, and do not want to accept the mediocrity of following the rules. Some people say my ideas are dangerous, right?

——There are two questions to consider: First, how much nutrition can instant noodles that can be soaked in three minutes have? Secondly, there are only a few people in the world who make a living from winning the lottery.

60. I have a deep affection for him, but he seems to be distant from me. I am very unwilling to pay, but there is no reward for my efforts?

——First of all, love may not be the reason for being loved; secondly, you don’t want to force yourself on him, right?

61. I no longer love him, but I can’t say goodbye. I couldn't bear to make him sad, but I was very tired and helpless.

——When you no longer love, saying "no" is the most beloved thing. When you can't give him happiness, please give him freedom.

62. After breaking up with my lover, I felt that my life was gloomy and I had no interest in doing anything.

——In spite of the pain, you should also think of it: the sun shines brilliantly because of its own great inner passion, rather than reflecting external light