Many people will find out why they encounter so many weirdos after joining the work. I don’t think it’s because there are more weird things after you join the workforce, but because after you work, you can’t avoid those weird things, so you feel that there are more weird things.

What is it like to have a weird colleague? It depends on how weird this colleague is. If his weirdness doesn't affect me, it has nothing to do with me. I'm just a spectator, so I don't have any big feelings. I just sigh with emotion after work and life, how can there be such a person in life!

If his weirdness has an impact on my work and life, it depends on what kind of impact it has. If it's a good influence, then having a weird colleague is still pretty good. For example, Li Huizhen in the TV series "Beautiful Li Huizhen" is considered weird by many people, but it would be a good experience to have such a person as a colleague.

If it has a bad impact on my work or even my life, then it must be that I don’t like the existence of this weird colleague. For example, in the unit where I worked before, there was a female colleague. She was in charge of everything and everyone. She was also very willing to ask me about other people's affairs, especially after get off work, she would ask about work and other people. I think she is very weird, and I have no choice but to cooperate with her weirdness.

At that time, our day's work was also very heavy. We had to answer many customer calls every day, and we often didn't even want to say anything after get off work. But for some unknown reason, my colleague likes to call me, especially after get off work. Because her phone number is free and you can call her at any time. But even if I answer the phone for free, I don’t want to talk on the phone anymore.

Every time she calls me, she will ask me, does so-and-so have a partner? Why is that so-and-so looking so weird today! Did that so-and-so really break up with her boyfriend? Sometimes, I am very tired and don’t want to talk. I asked her, aren't you tired of talking on the phone? I was so tired from the day that I didn’t even want to talk. But she couldn't hear my voice-over and kept saying, "Then don't I care about my colleagues?"

The key is such a private matter, how do I know? Of course, sometimes I would tell her, hey, who knows, what’s the point of discussing this. Then she said again, I'm not going to be nice to you, so I just want to talk to you and let's talk. God, I think you'd better not be with me and go with someone else. So during that time, I was almost driven crazy by such colleagues. I wanted to go home and turn off my phone for fear of being harassed.

I think many people will encounter this kind of gossip queen at work. Although I am usually very gossipy, but compared with her, I pale in comparison.