Nowadays, young people’s pressure comes from comparison and anxiety comes from inferiority. Can only money solve it? Can money solve the pressure and anxiety caused by comparison among young people? First, how do young people’s pressure, anxiety and even low self-esteem arise today? Due to the intensification of market competition, industry competition, social competition, and workplace competition, especially in the current economic situation where the economy is facing many development difficulties, it is difficult for today's young people to face employment and re-employment, entrepreneurship and re-entrepreneurship, and a stable life and family life. Children's education and other aspects have brought new pressure and anxiety. In terms of employment, newly graduated college students face the pressure and anxiety of whether the employer's needs are consistent with their personal career choices and interests. Do the children of your relatives and friends often encounter similar problems? For example: Some college students want to work as civil servants in administrative units or enter public institutions.
Because these units have stable jobs and financial support, and their incomes are guaranteed during droughts and floods. However, they were excluded due to the small number of establishment places. Some college students want to work in central enterprises and large state-owned enterprises as management. However, due to the small number of recruiting units and personnel every year, it is difficult for most college students to fulfill their wishes.
I have an acquaintance who is now an undergraduate graduate of Chang'an University in Xi'an. He usually has excellent academic performance and has published many long articles in the "Journal of Chang'an University". Currently, we are faced with the question of whether to continue taking the postgraduate entrance examination? Or to get a job after graduation and then take the postgraduate entrance examination? After graduation, do you plan to work in the propaganda department of a central enterprise or as a teacher in a school? Then you engaged in literary creation while working to realize your dream of being a writer? Now you are a member of the Provincial Youth Writers Association? I have just finished taking the last course, which temporarily relieved the mental pressure on study. But now we are faced with the anxiety caused by the recent choices and decisions about our future development plans and paths? Furthermore, some private enterprises, private enterprises, individual enterprises, and family enterprises recruit talents, but college students often refuse to go because they feel that they are "small", have many things to do, are informal, are burdened, frustrated, and uncomfortable at work. Being temporarily unemployed and unemployed without good opportunities brings stress and anxiety.
The above is the employment pressure and anxiety that young people such as newly graduated college students face first after entering the society. For some young people in society today, due to the impact of the COVID-19 epidemic, many small and micro businesses and shopping mall stores have closed, resulting in some young people being unemployed for half a year and unable to find a suitable job, which has increased the pressure on their lives. Coupled with children's education, there is pressure and anxiety in terms of finances and education methods.
Young people in the workplace are also faced with ideological pressure at work, especially the worries, anxieties and anxieties about how to deal with interpersonal relationships between superiors and subordinates and between colleagues? Young people often love to compare consciously or unconsciously, such as comparing with old and new classmates, fellow villagers, and colleagues: comparing with those who are not as good as themselves will make them feel more psychologically comfortable; comparing with those who are worse than themselves will naturally cause ideological pressure. , low self-esteem and anxiety? Second, can money solve the stress and anxiety caused by the difficulties of life among young people? What are the three types of stress and anxiety caused by young people's life? The first situation is: young private owners who have gone bankrupt in the industrial chain due to the real estate purchase restriction policy.
In the circle of friends I am familiar with, I have heard and witnessed that these young private owners have had a smooth life in the business, triumphed all the way, and lived a free and unrestrained life.
But after the country introduced a real estate purchase restriction policy. The building materials, decoration, decoration, transportation and other industries in the industrial chain are facing serious difficulties and are under great debt pressure after bankruptcy. They owe many bank loans, many private loans, many bank credit cards, large overdrafts, real estate withheld by banks, and debt interest payments. big. Now it is difficult to find profitable industries and projects. Expenses are high, sources of money are few, and one cannot make ends meet. The lack of money has caused increased stress and anxiety in the lives of these young people. Money can indeed play an immediate role in eliminating their mental stress and anxiety. The second situation is: young migrant workers who have gone to work in the city and settled down in the city.
This group of young people accounts for a relatively large proportion. According to statistics from relevant departments: as of the end of 2008, the total number of migrant workers nationwide was 225.42 million.
Although they have moved to the city, their household registration remains in their hometown in the countryside.
Although there are people in my hometown, they are all members of the "99", "38" and "61" units. Although my hometown has land, the output rate is low and the income is small. It cannot subsidize consumer spending in cities. When they buy a house in the city, they mostly pay a down payment, get a mortgage, and pay bank interest every month. The economic situation has declined in the past two years, the employment and re-employment situation is severe, wage income has decreased, and rising prices have brought about an increase in living expenses. This brings about ideological pressure and anxiety in life. Money can indeed solve the life pressure, ideological pressure and psychological anxiety of these people. The third situation is: ordinary young people among urban residents?
Some ordinary young people I met among urban residents have low academic qualifications and have no money, courage, skills, or talent to start a business. They have no choice but to find employment in industries with lower technical content, higher labor intensity and lower wages. The outbreak of the COVID-19 this year has had a great impact on employment and re-employment, making work and income uncertain and unstable. It has brought pressure to family life and personal thoughts, and psychological anxiety has also increased. Money can also greatly reduce the life pressure, ideological pressure, and resulting psychological anxiety of ordinary young people among these urban residents. Third, money cannot solve the pressure, anxiety and low self-esteem of young people caused by their personal mentality, temperament, abilities and narrow thinking. Money can’t solve the stress, anxiety and low self-esteem caused by young people’s work and career pursuits? For example: Wang Sicong, a representative of modern young people, is the chairman of Beijing Pusi Investment Co., Ltd. In 2016, a new edition of "Four Young Masters in Beijing" was released, and the 28-year-old topped the list. It should be said that Wang Sicong is the richest young man among contemporary young people, right? Doesn't he have the pressure and mental anxiety of comparison? Apparently not. Another proportion: Jack Ma, the idol of young people, was named the richest man by the "Forbes China Rich List" from 2018 to 2020; in 2019, he was named the richest man by the "Forbes World Rich List". It should be said that Jack Ma is the richest among young people, right? Does it mean that he has no pressure and anxiety? So, as the questioner said: the pressure on young people nowadays comes from comparison. Anxiety comes from low self-esteem. But it doesn’t come entirely from comparison. Although money can solve the pressure caused by life and economy among today's young people. But it cannot solve the pressure caused by comparison and career pursuit among young people today!
Can’t money solve the anxiety caused by inferiority in psychological quality? Do you agree with me? Everyone is welcome to participate in the discussion?