A couple is a friend in times of need. If one party suffers setbacks in work or life, will they feel disgusted? He is a greedy, selfish, and unjust person.

I am a real-life case, with a debt of less than 400,000 yuan. Because I failed to open a factory, I was unlucky for three or four years in a row. In the end, I was in debt for 40 yuan. Her mother said to get a fake divorce first and transfer all the properties to them. , finally became real, not annoying. The child is one month old, two daughters, four thousand in child support. I still have a mortgage of 2,000 yuan, and all the debt belongs to me. Now I am told that I can’t live at home even if I get divorced. Damn it makes me want to kill someone just thinking about it. As the saying goes, look after your wife when you are poor, and look after your husband when you are rich. They are originally birds of the same forest, but when disaster strikes, they fly separately. I have been thinking about it for the past two months. I don’t want such a woman. She is just a child. For the rest of my life, I will only be responsible for myself and my children. I will work hard to pay off my debts and strive to get married this year. More than once, I had no idea who was a human or a ghost around me. Come on, debtors, don't get entangled in emotions, emotions are worthless in the face of interests.

This issue is indeed a very bloody issue in reality that tests human nature. Everyone has their own reasons and practices. No matter how you do it, it seems reasonable. The most important thing is to look at the depth of each other's feelings and the understanding of the matter itself.

First, the failure of marriage in modern society seems to be due to various excuses such as the so-called incompatibility of three views. In the final analysis, money or economic imbalance is the direct root cause of divorce and many conflicts. First of all, we need to look at the reason for the debt, such as investing in business and losing money; because you need to pay for medical treatment for your parents, or because your children have trouble, etc. These are normal expenses, or it is due to human nature. We have thought about it well, but if the expected goal is not achieved, then we should not leave. Instead, we should make a comeback together, and live as people, and move forward together. If the debt is due to pornography, gambling, drugs or bad habits, then let’s talk about it separately and it depends on you personally.

Second, the word "love" is what leads the life, and all activities revolve around this word. When a problem occurs, I think we should not just look at the result, but also the reason and the starting point. Rather than when a problem occurs, the first thing that comes to mind is the gain or loss of one's own interests, so what's the point of friendship? We carry it together and struggle together. There is nothing we can't overcome. Whose life is smooth sailing? In fact, men often need women's trust, unconditional support and understanding. Therefore, I will definitely not divorce, I will not even think about it, but I will bear it and face it together with her! Someone has everything!

It’s okay, I have an antique to pay off. I’ll give her a 5 million antique. After reducing the debt, she will give me an IOU of 4 million.

Growing old together is a beautiful thing in life. Divorce due to debt occurs from time to time, whose responsibility is it?

The contrast between the rich and the poor, the pursuit of success and material greed, all stimulate the desire to start a business and make a fortune.

After natural disasters and man-made disasters, victims are everywhere, people with debts and dishonesty are constantly emerging, material foundation is unstable, and marriages are inevitably affected.

Some people dislike the poor and love the rich, some are like golden cicadas who shed their shells, and some are strong men who cut off their wrists, but these few taels of broken silver can reveal all kinds of things in the world.

Don’t persuade others to be kind without others suffering. The debt collection methods in today’s world are far more advanced than those of Mr. Huang in the past. Sometimes divorce due to debt is undesirable.

Seeing this question, I want to answer it. I am now heavily in debt and at a low point in my life.

So far *** owes 427,000. ***Five credit cards, ***190,000 arrears, Pudong Development Bank 5,000, Everbright 54,000, Guangfa 54,000, Xingye 34,000, Bank of Communications 28,000, Zhongyuan 14,000 (these do not include the interest on some credit cards that I have paid in installments)

Online loan*** 237,000, Alipay loan 100,000, Huabei 20,000, online merchant loan 15,000, 360 IOU 80,000, money to spend 12,000, Meituan 5,000, Baitiao 5 thousand.

On the last day of December 20, my account was only 370,000. After a year of neglect, on the last day of December 21, my debt reached 450,000. When the accounts came out, I was immediately dumbfounded. I had an extra debt of 80,000 yuan a year, and I didn't do anything big. I can only say that it’s terrible to support loans with loans. I’m finally done with the days of tearing down the east wall to pay for the west wall.

Before everything was overdue, I did a lot of homework to know how to deal with collections and how to prioritize paying off my debts.

I owe so much, part of it is due to failed investments, part of it is due to being defrauded, part of it is due to the purchase of a house, and part of it is the interest earned on the donkey’s rolling. The more it rolls, the more it rolls. Liabilities generally consist of these parts.

After sorting out the accounts, my wife was also devastated. He thought that I owed up to 200,000 yuan, and it would take a few years to pay it off. But now that the amount is so huge, it is impossible to pay it off in a short time. I was really worried about whether I could pass his test. I felt like those days were the calm before the storm, when we would have a big fight or file for divorce. In fact, the relationship between us is not deep. He doesn't love me. The reason we didn't get divorced before was because we have children and the children are still young. He also tortured me for years. The worst-case scenario is divorce and I bear my own debts.

I am like a prisoner awaiting trial, waiting for him to quarrel with me, waiting for him to file for divorce. During those few days, I was depressed and had no energy. When I got everything ready, he made no move. A few days later, when I was in a daze on the sofa, he came over and said to me, don't worry, he is here! He is my biggest support. Debts must be repaid slowly, and people must not let their minds wander to the possibility that they will not be able to pay back their debts if they get sick. He firmly said that he would not divorce me. He didn't even quarrel with me, he didn't say a word to me, he just said his promise that he would work hard and pay back the money one after another.

This month's overdue payments have begun, and collection calls are being made frantically, with threats and fear, and I live in dire straits every day. This is what debtors have to go through.

Slowly endure it, sooner or later one day the debt will be repaid. Cheer for yourself and cheer for your partner who is in debt.

If one of the couple is in debt, will Will get divorced. As a farmer who was born in 1974, I first need to figure out how to owe foreign debts. If I choose to divorce for the sake of the elderly, children, and family debts, neither man nor woman will respect me. I personally think that. If it is a gambling debt, it is absolutely unforgivable to indulge in extramarital affairs and selfish desires. It is reasonable to let the spendthrift spouse go through a divorce.

Is this the right answer? Thank you

One of the husband and wife owes hundreds of thousands in debt and is unable to repay it. Will you choose divorce? If one spouse pays hundreds of thousands in debt and the other cannot repay it, the main reason is that the debt is not applicable to family life. If it is used for family life, it must be repaid by both husband and wife. If the debt he owes is not used for family life, then he will bear it himself. There is no problem of repayment by either spouse. Depending on how well the relationship between the two people is getting along, they may be responsible for repaying it. If the relationship is getting along well, they may be responsible for repaying it. If not, there is a possibility of divorce. If it were me, if I had money and the relationship between him and me was very good, then I would repay it for him. If the relationship was not good and we might get divorced at any time, then it would be impossible for me to repay this debt for him. , because he borrowed it for his own painting and it is of no use. In family life, I have no obligation to pay him back and may divorce him.

If one spouse has debts of hundreds of thousands and is unable to repay them, this is not an excuse for divorce.

If you use this excuse for divorce, the court will not grant a divorce.

Take a look at what type of debt you have. If it is a mortgage, there is no need to worry at all. The two of them should quickly find a way to make money and not get divorced because of hundreds of thousands of debts.

The key is whether you know what the other party borrowed the money for.

If it is a gambling debt, you must stop the other party from gambling.

If the other party continues to gamble, the only choice is divorce.

When you get divorced, you should also clearly distinguish the debts. Who borrowed it and who used it can just pay it back.

People are diverse, and everyone has a different attitude towards debt.

Many people don’t like debt, and even mortgage loans are unacceptable. They feel that debt affects their daily lives.

When some people go on a blind date, they do not allow the other party to have any debt at all, not even a mortgage.

Some people don’t feel much about debt. They want to make money quickly, live frugally, spend less, earn more, and pay off their debt as soon as possible.

Husband and wife are originally birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes.

From my point of view, couples should understand each other and help each other. If one party is unable to repay the debt, it depends on the circumstances under which they choose to divorce. Let me analyze it for everyone. It is purely a personal opinion. , everyone is welcome to spray.

1: If one spouse is in debt due to gambling

If one spouse is fond of gambling and owes high debts, the other spouse should provide support if they can quit the gambling habit. After all, everyone makes mistakes. Hundreds of thousands is not a lot, as long as you can endure hardships, do some small business or work, it will be enough in a few years. If the dog can't change its habit of eating shit, and if the mud can't support the wall, I suggest divorce and don't drag the other party down.

2: Debt due to business failure

If you are in debt due to business failure, you cannot get divorced. Business inherently has losses and profits. Who will have smooth sailing? After all, business is unpredictable. At this time, you should encourage the other party and get up from where you fell. Whose baby cries every day? If you are lucky, you can earn back hundreds of thousands in a month. If you choose to divorce because of failure, this is the lowest level for the other party. During the period of trough, you may do something that hurts yourself. Don’t you feel distressed?

Summary:

It is the first and most critical step for a couple to get along. As the saying goes, "Birds of a feather flock together, people flock together." Only those who have similar views and habits can Only then can we get along harmoniously and comfortably. No one is perfect. It is precisely because of this imperfection that we are unique. Therefore, the most important point for couples to get along is: learn to accept each other's shortcomings and deficiencies, and understand from the heart " Once you have accepted the excellence and shining points of the other party, you must accept the shortcomings and flaws of the other party." The essence of running-in is that the husband and wife do their best to accommodate the other party without losing themselves. Every quarrel and cold war between the husband and wife before, They are all the epitome of the differences in outlook and habits between you, so if you don't find a way to solve each of these small problems, they will eventually have a backlash and destroy your relationship.