If a woman can keep the house clean at home, her husband will feel comfortable. Women are very capable outside and will help share the burden of the family and husband. It can be seen that women are very important in how a family is run. Although it is said that men are the masters of outside and women are the masters of domestic affairs, we have to admit that women determine the quality of life of a family, because they rely on women for food and clothing.
A good wife is the best Feng Shui in the family. If there is no good wife, then the family will not prosper. When you have such a good wife by your side, your wife is the best Feng Shui. She can live a good life for herself and the whole family. If you meet such a wife, you will probably live an unhappy life because of her wife's characteristics of being a loser.
Remind men that these characteristics in women are very important. Women with some characteristics are very bad at husbands and will definitely not be able to marry!
First, women with incorrect views
Children regard their mother as their first teacher, so women are so important. As a mother, the first person to be affected is It will be children. A woman who has a correct outlook on life will naturally educate children who are conscientious and obedient. However, if a woman has an incorrect outlook on life, the children she educates will naturally not be able to stand out.
Second, arrogant and domineering, always negative and sentimental
There are naturally many conflicts in marriage and life, and when there are many conflicts, women and men have different tolerances. If a Women will only be arrogant, domineering and unreasonable, and men will naturally be disgusted if they are more modest. If a woman is unruly and willful, does things irrationally, and often has negative emotions, then the family will not be very happy.
Liu Juan and Mingyu met through their parents. Because their parents knew each other well, the two got married after less than a year together. After getting married, Mingyu discovered that Liu Juan was a woman with a very aggressive personality. No matter what happened, she was always playful and very indulgent. She caused a lot of trouble for her husband.
At work, because Mingyu was the department manager, Liu Juan always felt that she was superior to others, even though she was just a secretary, she always scolded others. Moreover, Liu Juan was always careless when working, so Mingyu had no choice but to let her resign and stay at home.
When Mingyu encounters any trouble in the company and needs support, Liu Juan will only sigh and never take the initiative to help him find a solution. She is also extremely emotional. Being extremely emotional is not a particularly good thing. It will affect the atmosphere of the family and the character of the child. After the child resigned because of Liu Juan, she will take care of the child by herself. Mingyu was too busy to take care of the child, so Liu Juan completely spoiled the child. The child was very delicate, and as a father, Mingyu himself could not stand it.
Third, indolence
I believe that every man does not like to find a particularly lazy woman. If a woman is lazy and does not do housework, her home will be like a garbage dump, and A diligent woman who always keeps her home tidy. A man's mood must be different when he returns to a tidy home and a messy home?
When Zheng Hui was in love with Wen Qiang, Zheng Hui said, "I can't cook and I'm lazy." But because of her good looks, Wen Qiang didn't mind her at all. "It's a small problem." , devoted to her.
In fact, some beautiful women are not suitable for marriage, but Wen Qiang does not understand this truth. After marrying Zheng Hui, Wen Qiang still felt that he had gotten a big bargain. Until now, he Only then did I realize how stupid my original decision was.
Zheng Hui doesn’t do any housework at home, and she doesn’t know how to cook. She only knows how to eat takeout. Every time Wen Jianqiang goes to work, he has to order takeout for his wife in advance. If it doesn’t suit her appetite, Zheng Hui also Will lose temper. Wen Qiang is very tired from work every day. When he returns home, he has a wife who is waiting to be fed. This feeling makes Wen Qiang completely unable to appreciate the warmth of home.
I personally think that women can not cook, but they cannot not do it. There are many housework that women can not do, but they cannot not do it, let alone be lazy. The appearance of a family reflects the characteristics of the people in the family. Therefore, when marrying a wife, you cannot only marry someone who is beautiful and has a good figure. Although it looks good, it is a useless vase. When you get home, you will find that what you need is a hard-working woman, not a vase that can only be displayed to show others that it is not suitable for you.
Fourth, a woman with vanity cannot marry
Having vanity is not a good thing for a woman. Vanity women tend to pursue material things too much and tend to Make mistakes. For a family, a wife must have a positive view of money, otherwise the family's expenses will definitely overwhelm the man.
After Li Na and Wang Zhen got married, Liu Juan especially liked to spend money in advance. She applied for a lot of credit cards. She would go shopping every month and buy a lot of things, including some clothes. Throw it away after one or two times. Li Na earns 10,000 yuan a month. In addition to paying off the mortgage, she spends at least 8,000 yuan. Not only does she have no money left over every month, but she also spends it on her husband.
The fact that Li Na pursues material things far more than herself gives Wang Zhen a headache. He has been unable to make ends meet and has saved less than 50,000 yuan after ten years of marriage. Not to mention buying a house for his son and supporting himself in the future. No money at all.
Fifth, a woman who does not respect the elderly cannot be married
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is always a very sensitive topic in marriage. If a woman asks that she does not want to serve the elderly when she gets married, such a woman Definitely not able to marry.
I personally think that women should be kind-hearted. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, no matter what, is not something without a right answer. We can obviously do it well, so we should do our best. After all, the elderly are elderly, so don't make things too difficult for them. We still have basic moral standards of conduct.
The woman in a family is really important. If the hostess of a family has these characteristics, then the family will definitely not be happy. Good Feng Shui is brought by good women. Good women Even with good Feng Shui, a woman who ruins her husband will never make a family happy.