I heard from a colleague that she has a friend who drives an excavator and is married to a very beautiful wife. When she doesn’t go to work, she dresses up and goes shopping or playing cards every day. The husband is responsible for making money, but the money he earns is far from enough. She spends it. The family has a lot of credit cards and has paid off loans to buy a car and a house. The man is under a lot of pressure and dare not tell his wife in front of her that he is afraid that the woman will get divorced. She is only 30 years old and her head is bald, and she also found out that her wife was cheating on her. But the man loves his wife so much that he would rather be a cuckold than expose her. He also said that as long as she comes home, it will be fine. His colleagues have also advised him to find another Gu family to live a good life, but he just thinks that his current wife is beautiful and can’t bear to let go. I He said it was all his own doing.

In life, I feel that most ugly people are scheming. Beautiful people speak out when they are dissatisfied to their faces and will not be scheming behind their backs. Ugly people appear to be submissive on the surface, but are scheming behind their backs

There is an old saying in our rural areas: There is a good man but no good wife, so a bad man will marry a beautiful girl!

When more and more people propose marriage at a marriageable age, they decide their future wife based on their own and family conditions, find a good one that suits them, and live a happy life...

Many people think that beautiful people are scheming, difficult to communicate with, and difficult to get along with. Beautiful people may have a lot of choices and meet many people. Men are afraid that their looks and family background are not worthy of others, and their marriage may not last. Most of them don’t dare The only choice is to choose someone who looks generally kind. If you think you can live a stable life, you will be satisfied!

In fact: Men like to look down when choosing a mate: even if he is incompetent (except for youth and beauty), he must find a woman worse than himself, so that he can live a stable life without any pressure in his life. Women who make themselves comfortable and worry-free are the first choice!

Men understand the psychology of a beautiful woman. No matter how good she is, she must find a man who is better than her. She keeps looking for it, but to no avail. When she gets older, she will find a bad man. Most men don’t want to get married and don’t want to wait for a beautiful woman to come back... They still want to find someone who suits them and finish their life!

Conclusion: No matter what kind of person you meet in life, who you choose to be with is an arrangement of fate and destiny. It is best to be more tolerant, more understanding, more tolerant, and more accommodating. Love more, maybe life will be better, life will be happier and happier... [bixin][心][kiss][rose][rose][rose],

As a woman Although being kind and kind-hearted is a rare advantage, there is a saying that goes without the appearance, the inner part is the best. And as a hot-blooded man, how could I turn a blind eye to a beautiful girl? So I will not hesitate to choose a beautiful and scheming woman to be my wife.

Because I think being beautiful and scheming are both advantages. For me, being able to marry such a resourceful beauty in this life is simply a blessing earned in eight lifetimes. Some people may think, how can being scheming become an advantage? Let me explain to you, there are two types of scheming women.

The first is that you cannot use your mind correctly. This kind of beauty will only go out of her way to deal with her husband, and has no bottom line for a little money. She is the kind of stupid woman, such as the former Ma. Of course, there are only a few such women.

The second is to use your mind in the right place. There are more beauties like this, because they are beautiful, and having too many thoughts will not do any harm to them. The most important thing is that having such a scheming wife can help me make fewer mistakes on the road to prosperity, and success will be relatively easier. Because she thinks more comprehensively and can make correct judgments on sudden obstacles or existing risks. Remember, this is a state that ordinary women simply cannot reach. Therefore, everything has two sides. As long as the shortcomings can be used in the right place, then the shortcomings will become advantages.

Actually, this is all for later, and what I value most is beauty. Although beauty cannot be used as food, it is the nature of every man to like beautiful women. Isn’t there a saying that says a gentle lady is a good gentleman? Look, even gentlemen like beautiful women, let alone me.

Therefore, I feel that as long as she doesn't use her scheming on me, I can talk about anything. I can give her all the money I earn, and I won't care about it no matter how much it is spent. As for the fact that we can't go on together for other reasons in the future, let's talk about it when the time comes. At least I won't leave any regrets for myself.

When I saw this question, I was reminded of a couple in the popular American TV series "Female Women".

The heroine Taylor and her husband Eli have an open marriage. The heroine is average-looking, but very attractive. One day the heroine brought her beautiful girlfriend Jade, and her husband was instantly fascinated by Jade's beauty. The long time together has brought her husband closer to Jade, and alienated Taylor, the heroine who has always been sincerely good to him. As the plot develops, the husband discovers that Jade, who turns out to be beautiful and moving, is actually a very scheming woman, hiding the secret of her mistakes and not repenting. In the end, the husband returns to the heroine and lives a simple life.

Although TV series are different from life, the truths told in them are of great inspiration to us. There is a saying that "liking someone starts with their appearance, their talent, and their loyalty to their character." A beautiful woman can always attract a man's attention first, but a woman with bad intentions, just like "gold and jade on the outside, but bad on the inside" will not make a marriage happy, but will cause many problems. If an ugly woman can dress herself up, make herself decent, and be kind-hearted, she will make a marriage full of love.

To sum up, the key to choosing what kind of wife to live and what kind of life to live depends on whether you care more about appearance or character.

First of all, it is scheming. It depends on how you use it, externally or internally. If you are extremely cowardly externally and arrogant internally, then don’t use it. There is also whether there is a bottom line for being scheming. It is still okay to have a suitable scale, but it is not necessary if there is no bottom line.

Secondly, don’t think that being kind-hearted and honest means good. There must be a standard. Being good without a bottom line can also bring huge disasters to the family. If you are stupid and stupid and can't understand what to say and what to do, you will be demolished anytime and anywhere. You can't understand the explicit and implicit words. Even if you go home and educate her, you can't figure it out. Then you will collapse. Sometimes she will help outsiders sell you and herself and happily count the money. Do you think you will go crazy?

Finally, if the above is not enough to make you collapse, then I will give you a comprehensive, honest and scheming complex. When she needs her brain, she will be scheming, and when she needs her heart, she will be scheming. Be honest. When others bully her family members, she is honest and won't help you at all. But when others start to trick her family members, her scheming comes to mind and she talks to them heart-to-heart in various ways. When she needed to pay attention: "Don't ask me, I don't know." Well, everyone had discussed it and made up their minds. When she didn't need to speak, she came again: "No, you must Listen to me. "Every time, he makes a bad idea in the end, makes things worse, and shirks the responsibility in the end: "I don't know, I don't know anything."

I am a woman, in reality. The vast majority of men will choose the beautiful one, the one who is attractive at first glance, because men don’t know how the two of them live before marriage, and they don’t know whether the future relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will affect their lives, and they don’t know how beautiful women are. How your wife behaves outside the home sometimes has a big impact on your work. If a woman doesn't live together for a long time before marriage, she won't do anything extraordinary and will make the man happy. When people really live their lives after marriage, all kinds of conflicts come one after another, including quarrels, fights, and even divorce. Therefore, it is said that men only find ugly snacks when looking for a wife after experiencing setbacks and are exhausted physically and mentally. Kind people are good, except for those who are particularly capable and can make money.

"Pretty women are more lovely"

Let me choose a beautiful woman who is scheming.

A scheming woman is not a stone-hearted woman. It is the experience summed up in society. Only after experiencing the betrayal of many scumbag men can such a person appear.

I believe that such a woman will change herself if she meets a good man. It is impossible to travel all the way to the southeast!

It is this impetuous society that makes women change themselves.

If you are not scheming, you will be treated as a plaything by the scumbag men in society.

Only the scheming will protect themselves and take care of themselves!

An ugly girl’s kindness is not true kindness. Stories such as the invincibility of ugly girls and the imitation of ugly girls are even more fascinating.

Ugly women do more terrible things. Even more surprising!

If you stay with an ugly girl every day, your life will be shortened by twenty years.

Being happy with a beautiful woman every day will add twenty years to your life. That's the difference.

How frightening it is to sleep with a huggable, toothy, drooling, kind-hearted woman with big eyes and small eyes. No matter how kind-hearted an ugly girl is. Cuddled up at night and scared.

Everyone has a love for beauty. Ugliness is hateful to everyone.

However, there is no certain standard for beauty and ugliness. A looks ugly to person C, but beautiful to person B. Therefore, beautiful people are also ugly, and ugly people are also beautiful. However, there is a combination of the beautiful with the beautiful, a combination of the beautiful with the ugly, and a combination of the ugly with the ugly.

As for the theory of "scheming", everyone has scheming, and it can be divided into good and bad. This theory is neither good nor bad, so how can we discuss it? However, beautiful appearance can often cover up inner shortcomings. Even if I know that this beautiful woman has some problems with her mind, I will still choose her, because mind can be transformed and changed, but appearance cannot be destroyed and reshaped. Having beauty should be a part of life. happiness and enjoyment.

Regarding the choice between beauty and ugliness, the wise have different opinions and the benevolent have different opinions. There is another situation that is also explained, that is, the relationship between the chooser's own conditions and the choice is also very important. If I were a rich and handsome man, I would choose a beautiful woman, even if she has a lot of scheming intentions; if I was a man with average appearance and money, I would choose a kind-hearted ordinary woman who is neither ugly nor beautiful; if I was a very ugly beggar , then I will choose a very ugly woman who doesn’t care about her heart.

1. The importance of scheming depends on who is being scheming!

2. Being kind-hearted depends on who you are kind-hearted to.

3. Sometimes, there are people who are kind to outsiders and kind to their family members.

4. Being scheming is also a sign of maturity.

When measuring a girl, you mainly need to see how the other person can relate to you, how you stand in her heart, and whether she is devoted to her feelings.

Kindness and scheming are actually superficial. Take scheming as an example. In ordinary relationships, everyone has their own way. How can there be scheming? When there is a competitive relationship between family or colleagues, everyone will Everyone has the right to fight for it.

The key is whether two people can be of the same mind, have the same goal and the spirit of mutual support.

Being kind-hearted mainly means being kind to yourself.

Even if she is a bad woman, she will treat him sincerely when she truly falls in love with him.

It mainly depends on the feelings between two people.