If both parties are married for the second time and have their own children, there is no need for the man to pay his salary!
First of all, for this second-married family, the future variables are bound to change, and no one can guarantee that two people can stay together for life, especially this second-married couple, who have no children in common, and have no interests in common. It is impossible for two people to work hard together, what's more, why should a man hand over his salary card? Can't men manage their own money well?
In a second-marriage family, if a woman deliberately asks a man to pay his salary, he'd better end the marriage, otherwise, the result of the man will be miserable!
There are indeed many second-marriage families, and women demand to be in charge of money. However, most of these second-marriage couples have no good results, especially men, who will eventually end up with both money and people.
A man must remember that only money is a man's confidence, especially in a second-marriage family. If a man loses his financial power, he will not get the respect he deserves. Therefore, a man would rather not have this woman than let her go!
The second marriage is really difficult. I am married for the second time. The other party brings a girl and I bring a boy. When I first got married, my son was introverted and cautious, and my daughter was spoiled by my grandmother since childhood, so getting along with children made me wonder if remarriage was correct. Communicate with my husband many times to reach an agreement on children's education, and slowly get used to it (if everyone is partial to each other, life can't go on)
As for salary, at first, everyone has bad feelings and is cautious when spending money, but two people must earn more and one earns less. If a family pays its own expenses, it is meaningless to remarry. In the early stage, my husband was the master, but by the end of the year, there was almost no money left at home. Two people have different consumption concepts. He earns more and spends more, but there are many things in two families, so he can't live on without saving money. Finally, he asked me to be in charge of money. Although it is very difficult, I have never delayed the tuition and living expenses of two children and the hospitalization expenses of both elderly people. I also spent several years buying a house and a car. My request is simple: no matter how high or low your salary is, such a marriage will make the man feel alive and responsible.
Anyway, remarried families should pay more and be more tolerant than ordinary families, so as to be harmonious.
let's talk about this topic again today, because I have never understood: what is the significance of paying wages? I have always wondered that both of them are married, suffering and * * *. Is it necessary to live AA and pay for something every time? I always wondered if I had a fake marriage.
after I moved in with my wife, I was too lazy to take care of the current accounts. Even the customers paid for her.
I used to use five credit cards. Later, when she was in charge, she disliked the trouble, saying that she was afraid every month. I remember that once when she went back to her hometown, she forgot to repay the credit card. It seemed that more than 1 was deducted or something. Later, she suggested that I cancel three cards and only use two.
in terms of accounts, I am really a fool, so I really don't want to care about this problem. After marriage, bank cards, Alipay, credit cards, etc., all given to her, passwords, accounts, even mobile phones, computers, WeChat, QQ, e-mail, etc., she wants to board and watch. I feel that life is very easy.
Even in 214, when I was working in Wechat business, 9% of the agents were women. Sometimes, when I went out to drink all night, when I got home, she didn't see anything unhappy except reminding me to drink less.
I left our mobile phones at home, and she didn't bother to look at them. I spend all kinds of money outside, and I swipe my credit card. She has to pay back on time. She doesn't need to ask me what she wants to spend or sell, because she has the money, she can spend it if she wants, and she decides how much to spend or how little to spend. I think we are relaxed. Why do you always hear what you say about paying your salary card?
Two strangers have formed a family, and they are concerned and attached to each other. When they have children and families, they have to share each other. You spend your money, I spend mine, and you have to apply for special funds to buy things at home. The passwords should be set in half. I don't think this is a marriage.
In fact, the reason why so many divorces occur is that they are not honest with each other, but they want to marry each other when they are obviously pretending to be someone else. Some people obviously have wives, but they still want to make love to each other. They don't care about each other and don't want to be responsible. On the surface, they sleep together, but they are worried about the window. Such people, even if they don't get married, are childhood friends. Even if you give them all, the person who sleeps with you day and night is still someone else's.
So, marriage doesn't matter how many times you get married or how much you pay. But are you really willing to give up more for each other?
Marriage is also a journey. If you can abandon the flowers and plants you meet along the way, and you are not moved by them, you can be practical.
Life is only a few decades. If we take 2 years as the boundary, how many 2 years are left for us if we remove the teenagers who are ignorant and unable to do things in the first 2 years and then remove the 2 years who are old and unable to do things?
young man, don't think about this today, think about that tomorrow. To say the least, if one day something happens to you and you encounter difficulties, those flowers and plants will disappear to the ends of the earth early, and the hardworking fool will always accompany you, won't he?
since you are in love, you can rest assured to love and live in a down-to-earth manner.
generally not.
There are many second-married families around, most of which are AA. Some are licensed, and some are living together. Those who get the certificate often break up because of various economic problems, especially the problem that the two sides can't handle the children well. However, because there is a marriage certificate, it is often necessary to go to court to deal with property disputes.
Some men and women are about 1 years old, and some of them put their wages in the charge of the woman because of their lust for youth or beauty.
But as we get older, there are more and more disharmonies between the two sides. There is a big age gap between men and women. With the aging of men, the life of husband and wife is often not harmonious, and the woman will feel unhappy and even uncomfortable. Coupled with menopausal syndrome, this marriage is often in jeopardy.
Because the salary has been paid to the woman for many years, the man is not willing to lose both money and human resources, so he always threatens to ask the woman to return the money to himself before letting the woman go, but the woman is reluctant to get the salary for many years and can only make do with it. This kind of marriage can only be in strange bedfellows, and even if conditions permit, most couples will choose to divide their houses.
So in such a marriage, with the further growth of both parties' age, the man is already much older. If there is a disease and disaster, it is a little unimaginable. On the contrary, those who don't get the certificate mainly rely on feelings to maintain the relationship between the two sides. If they feel unhappy together, they can simply choose to break up, and basically they won't involve too many economic entanglements.
Actually, it's the second marriage. Everyone should see through it a lot. It's hard to keep a marriage together with a marriage certificate or children. Only when the two sides get along with each other, their values are basically the same, they are self-effacing, financially mutually beneficial and take care of each other can they really go on.
if both parties are married for the second time, will the man still pay his salary? If you meet a good man, you will pay. If you meet a selfish man, you will not pay!
what a fart! Men only have the obligation to honor their parents and raise their blood-related children. What are the other relationships? Husband and wife themselves are people they know later, and they are not irreplaceable!
Not necessarily. Let's see if you have any oral or other agreements before. Every second marriage family is different, and personal living habits are different. This aspect mainly depends on the woman. If the second-married girl is very peaceful and open-minded about everything, she never haggles over every ounce, and she doesn't like to take care of other people's affairs. At the same time, she is considerate, has a stable economic income, and understands some situations that her second-married husband needs to spend money. Therefore, this second-married girl may not care about the salary and money of the second-married man at all. If this is the case, then everyone will spend their own money.
However, now is a society dominated by women, and there are more men than women, which makes women a rare human being. It is not easy for an adult man to find a wife, especially if he is divorced. If this second-married man finds this second-married wife, and this woman used to be a habit of being in charge of money and things, and now she is married, but her "habit" behavior is not easy to change. In this case, she must ask the second-married man to hand over his salary card, otherwise, life will definitely be hard. No matter what the problem is, the situation of each family is different. It depends on what second wife you have found. In a word, it depends on your life.
You don't have to pay for your first marriage, let alone your second marriage. What does it mean for a man to pay all his income? Absolute trust will give you your life. Cherish such men.
the first marriage and divorce are all tricky, and the second marriage is more about money. The second marriage is to live together. Why should a man's salary be handed over to a woman? Can a woman's salary be handed over to a man? Nowadays, it is common for women to divorce in society. Can men still have a sense of security? Divorced after less than three years of first marriage, how long can the second marriage last? Therefore, warn those second-married men that women who covet your salary card will divorce sooner or later. In such a marriage, second-married men can boldly say no, and it will be impossible to maintain their marriage.
the feeling of this problem is that everyone has different ideas.
No matter the first marriage or the second marriage, a man who doesn't want to spend money for you and doesn't give you financial power will never love you, just treat you as a free nanny. So it is more realistic to make money by yourself!