A 61-year-old woman was extorted NT$400,000 by a young man using her private photos. Why is she still being abused by netizens?

Recently, the Henan police received a call.

It is reported that the call to the police was made by an old woman in her sixties. The old lady said on the phone that she had been cheated. What's going on? ?

The media learned about the entire incident through police investigators.

Since last year, the old lady met a boyfriend online. What is surprising is that her boyfriend is quite different in age from her. How big is it? The old lady is 61 years old, but her boyfriend is only 18 years old. In other words, at the age of the old lady, she can be the young man's grandmother.

Although there are many "year-old lovers", such as Xie Xian and Coco in the entertainment industry, they are 49 years apart but have been in love for 12 years. For example, the well-known Nobel Prize winner Yang Zhenning and his wife Weng Fan are 54 years apart, and they are still in love as before. So, don’t ordinary people have the qualifications to fall in love forever? During the age-old relationship between an old lady and a young man, the old lady was extorted 400,000 yuan by the young man. Why was she reviled by netizens?

It is reported that the old lady and the young man met through the Internet. After a series of online chats, they developed online dating into real life. They have been dating for a year. During this year, the young man kept asking the old lady for money, and the old lady did her best to meet the young man's needs.

At the earliest, the old lady took the initiative to help the young man because she found that his economic conditions were relatively poor, so for the so-called love, she began to dedicate her love to the young man. Not only did she support the young man financially, she later rented an apartment for him, and that apartment became their love nest.

Perhaps, the old lady never thought from the beginning that the young man’s love for her had a strong purpose. He kept asking the old lady for money, and the old lady told the young man her Alipay password without reservation. Later, the young man took seven or eight credit cards from the old lady.

Later, the old lady received a reminder call from the bank, and she learned that the young man had overdrafted 400,000 yuan. The old lady was filled with anger and immediately found her young boyfriend. Not only did she not get the answer she wanted after questioning him, but she was blackmailed by the young man. The young man said that if the old lady didn't give him money, he would post the old lady's private photos that they had taken when they were together online. The old lady was a face-conscious person, and when word spread about something like this in her later years, her face was tarnished. But in desperation, she finally picked up the police phone, which led to the scene we saw at the beginning of this article.

Although many people not only have no sympathy for the old lady's plight, but also scold her for being ignorant. She is obviously a lot older, but she gets together with a young person. But how many people understand that the elderly have stronger needs for spiritual life than young people. In particular, there are many empty nesters. In their daily lives, they don’t even have the luxury of finding a close person to talk to. They have lived to this age, experienced a lot of hardships, and are alone in their twilight years. Don't they deserve sympathy?

However, the editor would like to remind elderly friends here that they must be careful when making friends, especially when meeting young people who are very different in age from themselves, they must sort out the interests and know the world. There is no such thing as a pie in the sky.