What is the secret to a happy family?

Let me ask you a question first. Our credit cards have bills, Huabei has bills, and phone bills have bills.

So do relatives or lovers in our family have bills?

Answer: There definitely is!

In the process of running a family, we must also have an account in our hearts. Our family ties with our family members will revolve around the emotional accounts of our husbands or children. In the process of running a family, we must have an account in our hearts. You also need to have an account.

If you have an account, you will have bills, right?

Saving money means that some of our actions towards our baby or husband can make the other party feel more positive feelings

To make the baby or husband feel very warm and happy, this is how we save money in this account

What is saving money?

Help the other person solve their problems, give the other person warmth and strength, and make the other person feel that they are having fun and trust themselves. These are all ways to save money! [Love]

Withdrawing money means that it starts to make the other party have some negative feelings

What is withdrawing money?

[Hug] For example, suppressing others to improve oneself, speaking without considering other people's feelings, mistaking low emotional intelligence for outspokenness. Many times, the other party will feel that this person speaks like this. In our opinion, this is taking advantage of others. money!

It’s not that this “money” cannot be withdrawn, but if we start withdrawing it when we don’t have enough money, our family or friends will not like us very much when they overdraft their bills.

So when we deposit enough money into each other’s emotional account, we can withdraw the money appropriately!

This emotional account is also called a trust bill

Let’s set up a scenario. When we first formed a family, the relationship between husband and wife was still in the running-in period, right? !

When trust has not been fully established, we compare our husband’s shortcomings with the advantages of other husbands. We often say: Other husbands buy clothes and bags for their wives. Look, I don’t even know what I want from you. I’m really blind.

Think about it for a moment. Is my husband feeling very annoyed at this time?

Obviously, when my husband treats us When the positive feeling decreases, we withdraw money from this emotional account

When we realize this, should we save money?

Many times the comparison is inadvertent. After talking about it, the other party may actually say nothing and may feel very uncomfortable.

Or they may directly criticize you: other people’s husbands are so nice. Are you looking for it?

Either the husband feels a little guilty, which is a sign of low energy.

It is better to reflect on himself, change himself, and learn to save money.

For example, when he comes back after a busy day, can we say, Husband, you have worked hard all day, thank you for your continuous efforts for me and this family.

Or maybe when my husband cooks a dish, can we say: Husband, I suddenly feel like I married a chef. It tastes so good. How did you cook it?

He immediately said, "Do you want to eat what I cook?" The arrangement is too deep!

This is daily life, and life needs adjustments.

The relationship between husband and wife also needs to be managed.

The relationship between husband and wife also needs to be managed. It does not become more and more dull, and not everything is as it should be.

Pass Learning and language is also an art

I have taken care of my husband and children, and my family is full of love. Think about whether you are happy!

Why are people anxious?

Because I don’t understand,

I’m like a blind person who can’t see the road.

So I start to feel anxious.

What to do if you feel anxious? ?

Only when you learn to change yourself can you not be anxious.

Because you learn and understand more, you will not be anxious.

Have you ever praised your husband? How do you usually praise your husband?

Maybe we are not used to expressing it, but we can try to use language to express it positively

I give this example just to let everyone know that there is such a trust bill, there is such a Emotional account

It can achieve a dynamic balance by continuously depositing and withdrawing money.

Most of the time, we look at the shortcomings of our children first and what is not good about our husbands. , but ignored what they did well.

Why can't you see the advantages?

When we start to show denial, we are actually withdrawing money

Ask yourself: Do you like to hear praise or criticism?

So, from now on, I need to look at my children and my significant other with a pair of appreciative eyes.

Also, I need to be gentle with others and say more words that make people feel comfortable. Because there is love, every word must be said well

It is affirmative to express it. We just learn how to express it positively. If we can do good to you, me and everyone, we will continue to practice it. Okay,

We are helping everyone save money

When we save more money in our happiness account

Will our family be happy too!

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Nanjing Congcong, in the fourth group of Class 275. I hope everyone will join in practicing writing.