The mentality of self-rationalization of human nature determines that most people are destined to be poor. We have an innate powerful self-protection mechanism, which will constantly imply that only our own ideas and choices are the best and most reasonable.
To sum up, the poor think that the gap between people is determined by objective conditions, while the rich think that the decisive factor of this gap is subjective initiative.
The thinking habit of the poor is that they do it because they are rich/connected/lucky. I don't have these things, so I can't do it. If I have these conditions, I can do it. (Example: Why is his article so well written? Because he is just a college student who has plenty of time to read and write on paper. I am a doer who is busy with business management every day, otherwise I will definitely write better than him. )
The thinking habit of the rich is: they did it, why didn't I do it, and how did I do it? (Example: Why is his article so well written? Because I like eating, drinking and having fun, I like watching American dramas, and I don't like reading books. If I can read as much as he does, can I write as well as he does? )
Poor man, it's hard to get rid of the fate of achieving nothing without breaking this self-protection heart.
Unfortunately, most people are immersed in self-comfort all their lives, from lack of talent to unfulfilled ambitions, and finally feel dull and powerless.
The thinking of the rich is to integrate resources, not to have ready-made resources.
In fact, many poor people are unwilling to get paid all their lives. They are just waiting for their chance. They are always waiting for an opportunity.
When I was studying in the United States, I was surprised to find that every international student and their parents actually have a road to the peak of their lives. Undergraduate study hard, actively participate in extracurricular activities, expand social networks, and finally get excellent grades and rich resumes. I worked in a big company for several years, accumulated work experience, continued to study MBA in a prestigious school, and became a senior manager of a multinational company. Finally, he was transferred back to China to be the manager of China District, and even the time was ripe. With years of work experience and contacts, I jumped out and started a successful business.
The life strategy that sounds so hearty is actually the most classic thinking of the poor. The poor always think that every step of the rich is taken away by the boat step by step, so they should wait until all the opportunities are ripe and all the resources are obtained before starting to act.
This day will never come unless there is an accident.
What they can't understand is that a small number of people in the world have similar objective conditions with them, but they are doing things that they think are out of reach.
This small group of people, who have no principal, ask friends to borrow money, investors to invest, and even bank loans; If you don't have technology, you can learn it yourself or find someone who understands technology to help you do it; It doesn't matter. Find someone to introduce you to dinner and give you a gift.