Is marriage love? Are marriage and love the same thing? Why is love and marriage two different things? Love is about two people. We can't treat marriage as love, and we can't treat love as marriage. Looking down, can we understand that marriage is love?

Is marriage love? 1 1. Is it the same thing to get married? Why are love and marriage two different things?

Because there are too few things to consider in love and too many things to consider in marriage, love is a matter for two people and marriage is a matter for two families. Love only cares about romantic stories, but marriage is boring. This is the difference. Love and marriage are two different things and cannot be confused, but love is the foundation of marriage. With love, there will be plans to get married and start a family.

People say that campus love is beautiful and college love is pure. Everyone should have a good relationship in college. I admit that campus love is really beautiful and naive, because there are too few things to consider, and there is no need to consider the arrival of money. Living expenses are paid every month. The living expenses of two people can be enough for two people's usual expenses. You can go to the city to eat something delicious in a warm afternoon, and you can take a short trip during a short holiday. You're not worried about tomorrow or the future. You only cherish the happiness at this moment. Without the pressure of work, the speculation of the world, the responsibility and pressure of the family, everything is so easy. As long as you manage your study well, this stage is just the pressure of learning. I don't need to think too right, I don't need to think too long, and I don't need to know how their family relationship is. Even I don't need to ask your parents, just care about both of us. It is enough that I love who you are. I don't need to consider geographical issues. You are not far from my home, and your home is two kilometers above sea level. I don't need to think about it, because holding your hand on campus is happiness. I don't want to know, and I don't want to know, what kind of identity you are and what kind of family you have. I don't want to know. I won't feel unattainable just because I was born in a poor family and my family was surrounded by walls. I don't need to understand all this, just because love is between us, just the two of us. What does marriage fortune mean?

There are too many things to consider when getting married, such as geographical issues, whether his home is far from yours, whether his family can live in harmony, and whether both parents will agree. These are all problems between you. The combination of two people is the combination of two families, not simply considering themselves and two people, but considering two big families.

What's the difference between karma and marriage?

So love and marriage are two different things.

2. Are marriage and marriage the same thing? Are love and marriage the same thing?

Love and marriage are not the same thing To get your heart back after marriage, I can only hope that my husband will love you well. Love and marriage have both. Only before marriage is happiness when you marry the person you love. If you get married and then have a new love, it seems immoral and you don't agree.

No, love is pure, and marriage is more of a practical need. . . Marriage comes after love. Someone once said.

Marriage is the grave of love, but without marriage, love has no good end.

Is marriage love? I'm 26 years old, and when I'm 27 next year, I can get married later. My boyfriend of five years has reached the age of late marriage since last year, because he is 29 years old and will be 30 years old next year.

I have been urged to get married by my family since last year, and he is an only child, and he is urged by his family. At first, we all felt that we were not old enough and the time was not ripe, so we didn't worry. But when his classmates, roommates and friends got married one after another in the past two years, he also began to ask me from time to time: When will we get married?

Whenever he pretends to ask me this question casually, I will choose silence or change the subject, because I really don't know how to answer him.

I don't want to get married not because he is not nice to me or anything else, but because I am really afraid of getting married.

I have talked with him for five years from the beginning to now. During these five years, I went from school to society, from naivety to maturity. He has seen my ugliest appearance and my most beautiful appearance. His kindness to me is nowhere to be picked, but from beginning to end.

He will remember the day when I have my period and prepare brown sugar and ginger tea for me in advance; I like eating fish very much, and he accompanied me for a change because he didn't touch fish. My feet are always cold in winter, so he will put my feet in his clothes to keep out the heat; We agreed to go running together. When I am tired, I will lie down and refuse to go. He will carry me. Even if I travel with my friends and accidentally get my pants dirty during my period, he will let me take them back and leave them for him to wash ... When I am wronged at work, he will always comfort me first and then explain the truth to me. His kindness to me is the kind that my father is a boyfriend in legend. I don't deny it at all He really raised me as his daughter.

Besides, I never have to worry about material things. He bought his own house and car in the provincial capital city. His salary has always been his own, and then he is responsible for raising me and raising this small family. What I earn is my own. According to him, how much I earn is my private money. He usually gives me many gifts, and even when I go out to play with my friends, he will sponsor half of my travel fund.

It stands to reason that with such a good person, such a good feeling and such good conditions, I have no reason not to want to get married, but the fact is that I am more and more afraid of getting married and even dare not want to get married.

Actually, I didn't think so before. At least when I was in college, I wanted to marry him as soon as I graduated, have a baby for him, and then live a warm and happy life together. I even thought that when I was white-haired, I could sit in a rocking chair and watch the sunset hand in hand.

You say I don't love him, but I think I do, otherwise I wouldn't have been with him for so many years, and I wouldn't stop crying at the thought of not being together in the future. So sometimes I am ambivalent about why I love him but don't want to marry him.

Perhaps it is because in this impetuous society like instant noodles, my heart is becoming more and more impetuous. I don't want to get married. I always feel that even the best feelings after marriage will deteriorate. For example, a beautiful love will become a strong affection; The affair I want will also become a chicken feather. That's not the life I want. I don't want to be like that, nor do I want my carefully managed love to be like that. I know I am selfish, but this is what I really think.

Friends around me say I don't know if I'm lucky, but I'm really not ready to get married.

Perhaps because he understands my fear of marriage a little, he seldom talks about marriage now. Maybe I should be glad that he didn't rush me like his parents did.

During the Spring Festival, we had a video chat with a college classmate. We can't help but sigh the ruthlessness of the years and spit out the reality of life. Finally, she added: If half the people in this world don't get married, I will definitely be one of them.

Maybe it's a problem of our generation: I don't want to fall in love or get married.

For boys, getting married means having a warm home, but for girls, the responsibility is too great.

Some girls even think that marriage is a loss-making business. Obviously, you live in a house without your name, and you have to be judged as if the house has nothing to do with you. You have to be a free nanny after you get married.

After careful calculation, thrift will eventually become a yellow-faced woman, and there is still the risk of being abandoned at any time. If you want to spread an awkward mother-in-law, an inconsiderate husband, you will be angry. I gave birth to a baby through hard work, but I didn't say shit or fart, and the child's name was not his last name.

Therefore, more and more people, especially women, would rather be free than start a complicated relationship because of temporary loneliness.

Just like my classmate said: single life is wonderful, why should we compromise a perfect marriage?

Although I'm not single, I don't want to get married, although I don't think getting married is necessarily a grievance.

Just like a sister who maintains high-quality love said: getting married is never the goal, but spending the rest of her life with the person she likes.

I'm not against marriage. I still believe in marriage. I believe my love can go to the palace of marriage.

I don't want to get married now, it's not true, but I'm not ready yet.

Is marriage love? 3 1 Zhu Deyong said, "Love will torment everyone, and the only way to get revenge is to get married, which will double the destruction of love".

Every time I see this sentence, I can think of someone who once said that if you really hate someone, marry him. This is the best way to leave him alone.

I once wrote an article about whether there is pure friendship between men and women. A reader's message at that time was impressive. She said, "There must be. My husband and I are pure every day. "

All this shows that marriage is indeed the grave of love, and once you step into it, love will disappear one day. But in fact, as Peter Dixon said, "The difficulty of marriage is that we love each other's advantages, but live with his shortcomings."

Love and marriage are always fundamentally different. Love means that you want to live with someone. After you fantasize, this fantasy is often divorced from reality, just a happy imagination.

The so-called marriage means that you really live with one person and choose that person. From now on, even if you don't love, you have to go on together.

We often overestimate the passion in love, but underestimate the tenderness in marriage.

There are often such people in life. In marriage, you say you don't love while you love hard. When asked, she said with a wry smile, "I just want to make a living."

Maintaining life in this way is the normal state of many people's marriage, because it is the unique tenderness of marriage.

Xinyue and her husband have been married for 10 years. They have experienced too many things and thought about divorce too many times. I wanted to insist at first, but later it was because of the children. Now, they think it's a pity that they have put up with it for so long and divorced before their children grow up.

So I persisted day by day and persisted until now.

A husband drank too many glasses of wine when he was socializing. When he was sent home by his subordinates, his heart was almost burnt. The child is still young and needs enough sleep every day. Even if my husband doesn't come home until after twelve o'clock, he still smells of alcohol.

At that time, Xinyue had an impulse to throw her husband into the corridor, but she still took a cup of warm water, said angrily, "I'll drink you to death", and then rummaged through everything to find a good antidote.

In the early days of love, the other party seems to do everything well. Drinking too much will make you feel distressed. At the beginning of marriage, he was drunk, and you think it is not easy for him to serve this family. But after the marriage lasted for a while, you were angry when you saw him drinking, and you wanted to say something when you saw him complaining about his stomachache after drinking yesterday.

When I am angry, I really don't want to live, I want to leave immediately, I want to cut off all contact with this family, and finally calm down, change clothes and go out to buy food.

This is what marriage looks like. There are arguments and persistence, and you spend your life unconsciously.

Just like in The Story of Qi Dad, Fu Seoul said, "You are prepared for a good marriage. He has the right to get off at any time, but he never leaves. "

Marriage is a choice. From the moment you choose this person, you will know that you have an extra responsibility. What you hesitate to endure again is not concessions and grievances, but that you still have hope for marriage. As long as there is hope, it is still possible. After all, marriage is like drinking water.

Marriage contains too many factors other than love.

When you are in love, you like it. If you like someone, you just want to be with him. I feel that my feelings are weak, and with a wave of my hand, my current position becomes my predecessor, and my love for you becomes love.

But marriage is different, because love is not the only thing that matters in marriage.

"Pheasant Brother" Jordan chan said in the face of marriage: "Once I get married, I will definitely not divorce. No matter what happens, I will try my best to solve it and make the marriage last. " .

But so far, Jordan chan's marriage is really happy. Unintentional interaction with my wife at the concert can tell everything. Not deliberately, not melodramatic, just seeing that person, I will laugh.

Many people envy Jordan chan's marriage, but not only because they are happy, but because Jordan chan knows what is responsibility, tolerance, understanding and trust.

Two people bring out the best in each other, and now they have a happy marriage. After all, when a couple enters the marriage hall, they should have more responsibilities besides love, and this responsibility is the reason why two people will not divorce easily.

Those who are integrated into your life, in the end you don't know whether to love or not.

As the saying goes, "The young couple are old friends", and many young people know nothing about marriage.

I think entering marriage means being with the person I love and living a sweet life every day. But Titanic and butterfly lovers, as well as all kinds of fairy tales, can become classics because they have no married life.

Marriage is realistic and even more cruel. It can kill the love between two people and make life dull, but this is not the reason for not loving, because after a long time of love, husband and wife become family and friendship. Your impulse to divorce is just a resistance to ordinary life.

So some people say that divorce can solve many marriage problems with intensified contradictions, but the contradictions in many marriages are not so intensified.

That man didn't do anything to you, and he didn't fall in love with someone else. He didn't stay at home all night, nor did he stay for long. It's just that the passion between two people gradually disappeared. The longer the marriage lasts, the more bored you are.

Just eat what you like every day, and it's good to be tired of eating. People who love again, once they enter marriage, will always be unbearable one day. These times are not because you don't love each other, but because you are used to each other.

It is said that couples who love each other again will have the idea of 100 divorce and the impulse to strangle each other 50 times. Many people have heard this sentence, but in the second half of this sentence, there is another sentence, "Of course, the secret of happiness lies in the handshake of 10 1 and the forgiveness of 5 1."

When you fall in love with that person, maybe breaking up is just a matter of words. But when you enter the marriage, you should understand that you should stick to it from the moment you choose this person.

Every couple will quarrel, divorce and say things that hurt each other. When you feel that the other person has hurt you, it is only because you still have the position of the other person in your heart.

After all, couples who really have no feelings, not only have no communication, but even no harm.

So there is an essential difference between love and marriage. The so-called marriage, even if you don't love it, you have to go on together. Because on our wedding day, we promised: "whether rich or poor, whether healthy or sick, we will grow old together forever."