It is foolish not to think everyone is a good person in life. To deal with moral kidnapping and malicious attacks, you should learn to say no, preferably on the spot, and then the Jedi will fight back, violently attacking the other side with sharp words and conclusive factual evidence, exposing the other side's tricks on the spot, and making him feel ashamed and afraid of you at the same time (some people have to give a lesson, otherwise his overbearing character will be revealed).

For example, if someone cuts in line, but you say he is in a hurry, you can directly refute that everyone is busy and who is not in a hurry! For another example, during the Chinese New Year, relatives always ask about your income. You can directly say that you have been idle recently, didn't go to work, and are doing something you like, and then ask him or her: Do you have anything you want or like? If he (she) says yes, the topic will change. If he or she says no, tell him or her what his or her ideal or dream is.

Step 2 transfer contradictions

If someone kidnapped you morally, you can shift the focus of the contradiction or event, such as leading the entanglement between the moral kidnapper and the event to other people or other events, preferably trivial matters, so as to reduce the intensification of the contradiction and reduce people's excessive concern for themselves.

For example, if you don't want to sleep in your seat, you can arm yourself with luggage. These are escape strategies. If someone asks, why don't you give up your seat? I will fight back and say: there are so many people in the whole car who want to give up their seats. Why should I? Turn the contradiction to the owner as a whole to suppress each other. There is also forced marriage by parents. In this case, parents often have filial piety to suppress and interfere with their children's emotional life. If you refuse directly, it will be considered unfilial. In this case, we should get rid of contradictions. Marriage and filial piety have no inevitable logic. As long as we bypass the contradiction of filial piety, many problems will be solved.