01030 Liu Suizhou According to incomplete statistics from the "Girls Protection Fund", from 2013 to 2016, there were 1,401 cases of sexual abuse of children (under 14 years old) publicly reported by media across the country, with more than 2,568 victims.

And these numbers are just the tip of the iceberg of sexual assault cases.

According to data released by the Supreme People's Procuratorate, in the four years from 2010 to 2013, procuratorial organs nationwide received 7,963 child molestation cases.

In other words, there are 6 cases of child sexual abuse among the prosecution cases received every day.

This does not include cases where the victim did not call the police or choose to prosecute after the crime.

In fact, many subjective and objective factors make it difficult for most child sexual abuse cases to be disclosed, and the ratio of hidden cases is 1:7.

In other words, the exposure of a child sexual assault news may mean that 7 cases have already occurred.

The above data reminds us: As parents, we have the responsibility to teach our children to protect themselves and prevent sexual assault from an early age.

However, talking to children about how to prevent sexual assault places high demands on parents. How to talk and what content to talk about are difficult to grasp, and parents are required to have the ability to provide sex education to their children.

There is a picture book that helps troubled parents solve this problem. It uses interesting stories to teach children how to protect themselves and prevent sexual assault.

The story tells that before going to bed at night, the mother chatted with her son Jimmy, telling Jimmy to protect his private parts, to respond tactfully to other people's touching behavior, and to seek help from parents and the police in a timely manner.

Let's take a look at this picture book together.

Every night, before Jimmy goes to sleep, his mother will chat with him and sometimes play a tickling game with him. Through chatting with Jimmy, his mother tells him a story: There was a little girl. One day, when she was playing outside, a

The neighbor's uncle came over and said to her: Do you want to come to my house and see the newborn kitten?

The little girl recognized this uncle and was very curious about the newborn kitten, so she followed him home.

After arriving at his house, the neighbor's uncle said, if you come and sit on my lap, I will let you look at the kittens.

The little girl suddenly felt very uncomfortable and said: I want to go home.

However, the neighbor uncle actually put his hand into her underwear.

The neighbor's uncle tricked the little girl into his house. The bad uncle put his hand into the girl's underwear. Fortunately, the little girl ran out. Mom said to Jimmy: In the story just now, the little girl suddenly felt very uncomfortable. Many people will do this when they are in danger.

There are some special reactions, as if the alarm system in the body has sounded an alarm, such as suddenly feeling very nervous or having an uncomfortable stomach.

Therefore, when the alarm system in the body is activated, you must be extra careful.

Jimmy asked: When my body's alarm system is activated, does it make me feel like vomiting?

Mom said: Maybe, but it might also make you sensitive and irritable, like a very restless cat.

The function of these sensations is to remind you to be careful.

Mom told Jimmy: You must not allow others to touch some private parts of your body, and you should not touch other people's private parts at will.

Don't let others touch the private parts of the body. Teach the children to distinguish what is normal touching. The mother also told Jimmy that when someone touches his private parts, he must be brave enough to say no. In some cases, saying no to adults does not mean that he is

Not a good boy.

Mom said: If a child has a problem with touching, it is definitely not the child's fault.

If an adult or older child tricks you into engaging in an intimate game of touching, even if they ask you to keep it a secret, don't tell me because you're afraid I'll be angry or they'll laugh at you.

You don’t have to tell adults to be brave about touching. Most children who have been sexually assaulted and molested have limited expression and understanding abilities due to lack of knowledge about sex education, and they do not know that they have been sexually assaulted, let alone

She said she would take the initiative to tell her parents, but when the parents noticed that their child was suddenly depressed, had a fever, or had symptoms such as redness, swelling and bleeding in the lower body, they took them to the hospital for examination and discovered that the child had been sexually assaulted.

Some children only realize that they have been molested or even sexually assaulted when they grow up.

These experiences will leave huge psychological barriers in children. The physical injuries can be healed, but the psychological trauma may become a lifelong shadow, and they may eventually choose to end their own lives.