What expenses are shared by all dependents: 1, food, clothing, housing, transportation, medical care, etc. 2. Living expenses such as water, electricity and coal incurred by the dependents living alone. 3. The expenses of family members' birthday parties. 4. Funeral expenses and other expenses that need to be shared by the dependents. The maintenance agreement can only be modified after all dependents and supporters agree. In case of any dispute arising from the performance of this agreement, the supporting parties shall negotiate amicably; If consultation fails, you may request mediation organizations such as villagers' committees for mediation; If mediation fails, the dependents and the dependents shall bring a lawsuit to the people's court where the dependents live. In the process of consultation and mediation, the supporters should negotiate in the principle of seeking truth from facts, seeking common ground while reserving differences and being most conducive to safeguarding the interests of the dependents, and properly handle the disputed matters. What should I pay attention to when paying alimony: 1. Supporters celebrate their birthdays every year, and the expenses for banquets are borne by all supporters. During the celebration, supporters should create a relaxed and happy atmosphere as much as possible, and should not talk about topics that hurt or insult dependents or other supporters. 2. The supporter has the obligation to cultivate and harvest the responsible fields, contracted land and private plots of the dependents according to the wishes of the dependents, and take good care of the trees and livestock of the dependents, and the proceeds shall be owned by the dependents. The dependents can give appropriate subsidies to the dependents who provide labor services. 3. If the dependents can't take care of themselves, they will take care of themselves once a month and be taken care of by the current dependents. If the individual supporter can't take care of the dependents personally, he can ask someone to take care of him according to his wishes and pay the required expenses in time. Supporters can negotiate that one of them will take care of it, and the other supporter will pay the corresponding subsidy, and the amount of subsidy will be negotiated by supporters. 4. If the dependents are sickly and inconvenient to walk, the dependents should give timely treatment, care and careful care, care for the dependents spiritually, and should not treat the dependents with rude language. The supporter has the obligation to pay all kinds of expenses, pick up and drop off articles and mails according to the requirements of the dependents. The supporter has the obligation to manage other affairs according to the requirements of the dependents, and other supporters may not interfere.