Frustration is also the wealth of life. Almost everyone expects smooth sailing.
Many people say: On the way forward, even if there are no singing or dancing, no flowers in bloom, it is best that there is no wind, rain, and no setbacks.
Actually, this is impossible.
However, I do not want to expand on this topic here.
I want to talk about my perspective on frustration.
I realize more and more deeply that setbacks are also an asset in life.
A life without setbacks is eclipsed in a sense.
It is said that "frustration is the wealth of life". The most important point is that setbacks will make us smarter, stronger, mature and perfect.
Of course, this first requires us to withstand setbacks.
However, in real life, people who have been bitten by dogs are bitten by dogs again!
How to understand this?
After analysis, I think the key lies in people's attitude towards setbacks.
To avoid being bitten by dogs, some people resort to barking and running away when they see a dog. The result is counterproductive and encourages the dog's arrogance, and it is inevitable to be bitten by a dog again. Some people just bend over when they see a dog coming.
waist, pretending to pick up a brick from the ground, the dog immediately ran away with its tail between its legs.
Even people who have never been bitten by a dog can still use the latter method to deal with dogs.
Because smart people can not only understand some truths from their own setbacks, but are also good at summing up experiences and lessons from the failures of others.
From this point of view, isn't frustration a rare spiritual wealth?
True, we can learn from the experiences of others.
But I always feel that the road of life is too smooth, and the whole life becomes boring.
So, I thought about whether many of us who are parents, teachers, elders or leaders now can let go more and let the children go on their own, and let them rely on their own efforts to achieve a career.
Woolen cloth?
And students who failed the college entrance examination, can they get something from their setbacks, cheer up, and start a new round of fighting?
You have had more setbacks and endured more hardships than others, so once you succeed, you will definitely have more joy than others.
After experiencing setbacks and hardships, you will work harder, cherish it more, and be more promising!
The more afraid you are of dog bites, the more likely you are to be bitten by dogs.
Instead of always being passive, it is better to learn to take the initiative and attack.
As long as we can withstand setbacks, setbacks will make us smarter.
Underlying human society and holding up modern civilization, isn’t it the various setbacks that humans have experienced?
Frustration is indeed an asset in life!
Friendship and wealth In my eyes, friendship is wealth.
True friendship can make me more cheerful.
When I entered junior high school, my first good friend was Coco.
I still clearly remember the day I registered. Coco and I went to move the class books together. There was a box of school supplies that required two people to move. At this time, Coco said to me with a smile: "Well, let's move this together."
Learning tools, right?" From that moment on, we were good friends.
Some people say that friendships that come so quickly will end quickly.
However, this is not the case between me and Keke. Until now, I am still laughing and making trouble with Keke, laughing and joking without being serious.
Once, before we did exercises, we stood on the playground and pinched each other's faces. The head teacher happened to come over and said, "How can this be happening? We are so stupid." After listening to the teacher's words, we were still where we were, just giggling.
Thinking about it now, it is indeed stupid as hell, but who can say that this is a stupid thing?
That was the most sincere scene of our friendship!
The next second friend is Ling.
She has no bad temper and always stands quietly at the back of the classroom.
As for me, I always hold her hand and tell her what is in my heart.
Good and bad, she always listened quietly and smiled slightly. She was always so optimistic.
I have no inhibitions in front of her, and so does she.
So, she always sees clearly the gentle me, the irritable me, the happy me, and the melancholy me.
Anyway, sometimes, if I act a little bit in front of her, she will always let me do it.
Of course, these two are not the only good friends of mine.
However, the friendships I have are valuable.
Wealth has different meanings in everyone's eyes: money, success, family affection... For me, friendship is the wealth I have.
My Wealth Some people think that wealth is "omnipotent" money, while others think that wealth is a beautiful spiritual home. The bright moon in the mountains and the clear stream on the rocks are the wealth of the hermit. The mysteries of the universe and all things in the world are the wealth of the wise, and music is the wealth of Beethoven and Mozart.
Wealth, color is the wealth of Leonardo da Vinci and Monet.
In short, everyone has his own wealth.
What?
What is my wealth, you ask?
My wealth is youth.
Many people are looking for youth.
They hold "Long Live Youth" in their hands and say "Eternal Youth" in their mouths, but they have never experienced the true meaning of youth.
I think the more important thing about "youth" is to always have a young heart.
Many young people came to the borders of the motherland to defend the motherland and dedicated their youth to the motherland.
Some people, like Lu Xun and Bing Xin, are dedicated to their positions and devote their youth to their careers.
Kong Fansen and Jiao Yulu served the people all the time, and they dedicated their youth to the people.
There were many angels in white who served the patients regardless of personal safety during the SARS period. They dedicated their youth to society.
You may say that everyone has had "youth", but it is only a temporary wealth, and it will gradually fade away as time goes by.
But I think that as long as we understand the true meaning of "youth" and keep a young heart, youth will last forever.
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