It is often said that when a woman gives birth to a child, she can know whether the man she marries is a man or a ghost. Indeed, many contradictions between husband and wife, a man's character, will not be revealed immediately after marriage, but will be gradually revealed after giving birth to a child.

Giving birth to a child is a big event, and everything should be considered. After all, it is not easy to take care of a child and a woman. You should be dedicated and careful.

It is precisely because these things are complicated and require a lot of thought, so it is easy for couples to have conflicts.

In the past, when a woman gave birth to a child, she stepped into the gate of hell. Even if medical technology is advanced, there are still many risks in giving birth to a child, and even if you don't die, you have to suffer a lot.

After all, giving birth to a child is extremely painful, and only a mother can bear it for the child. Women have suffered these hardships, and if men don't take care of her wholeheartedly, I'm afraid it will chill women's hearts.

Chapter 02

The contradiction between Chen Yuan and her husband Shang Yu had already appeared before giving birth to a child, mainly because their personalities were a little different. Shang Yu is a careless person who doesn't know how to take care of others, even being spoiled by his family. However, Chen Yuan is a sensitive and thoughtful person. When these two people meet, they will naturally not be safe.

Sang-woo doesn't understand a woman's mind or her difficulties. As the only child in the family, he is used to being self-centered, so he feels that everyone should revolve around him.

Therefore, Chen Yuan was heartbroken by Shang several times and talked to him like a chicken to a duck. Sometimes I don't want to ask him for help. He just concentrates on doing his own thing.

At that time, Chen Yuan regretted marrying Sang-woo, but what could he do? Married, the choice of people, no matter how bitter can only endure, no matter how many contradictions can only be slowly resolved.

Later, Chen Yuan got pregnant. Shangyu's temper naturally failed to take good care of pregnant women. Besides, she is in poor health. Chen Yuan dare not make fun of her children. Almost all her pregnancies were at her parents' home, and she didn't go home until the end of the month.

However, after only staying at home for a few days, the jade monk became angry every day, and the calculated due date was abruptly advanced by several days.

On the day of giving birth, Chen Yuan was heartbroken in the delivery room, but Shang Yu was playing games outside with headphones. Chen Yuan's parents were so anxious that Shang Yu was unreasonable. Shang Yu naturally said, "What's the use of being anxious?" I can't have a baby for her. "

Chen Yuan's parents suddenly turned black and ignored him, only paying full attention to her daughter's dynamics.

Because it was a natural birth, Chen Yuan stayed in the hospital for three days and then went home. Originally, Chen Yuan's mother was going to take care of Yuezi, but something happened at home and her mother-in-law was far away, so Shangyu could only take care of her.

Shangyu's company is more humanized and will give maternity leave to the maternal husband, so Shangyu can have time to take care of Chen Yuan who just gave birth to a child.

Chen Yuangang was very glad at first, and thought that Shangyu's company benefits were good, but Shangyu stayed at home for a few days and had peeled off a layer of skin from Chen Yuan's torture, so he just wanted to stay away.

Chapter 03

Shang Yu is at home at ordinary times. He is a man who can't even save a fallen oil bottle. He has no experience in caring for people. He only thinks about himself. How can he care about others, let alone understand the difficulties of maternity?

It was winter when Chen Yuan was confined, and she was too weak to catch cold. It happened that every time Sang-woo entered the bedroom, she felt bored in the bedroom, so she opened the window. Even Chen Yuan didn't listen to her several times, saying that Chen Yuan had so many things that even the wind blew away.

This kind of thing is endless. What makes Chen Yuan collapse most is that Shang Yu never helps the boss when the child cries. She hasn't recovered yet, and she has to coax the children and change diapers, but she hasn't even eaten a bite. She only felt her ears buzzing and called sang-woo a few times. Chen Yuan ran out and found Shang Yu addicted to playing games.

Chen Yuan was so angry that he dropped his mobile phone on the ground and said, "Didn't you hear the child crying?" Can't you hear me when I call you? "

Shang Yang said unhappily, "I'm playing a game. I'll come as soon as I'm done. What's the hurry? "

Shang Yu's attitude angered Chen Yuan. She said at the top of her lungs, "When I was in the delivery room and almost fainted, you were playing games outside. You were still playing games when I was tortured by children. What's the use of a husband like you! "

Shang Yang's face was half confused and half angry. He said, "Who doesn't feel pain when giving birth? Why are you so melodramatic? " I'm unlucky to marry a wife like you. "

Chapter 04

Shang Yu's remarks made Chen Yuan completely desperate. She saw what kind of bastard she married, selfish, completely ignorant of caring for others and how to love someone. Such a person might as well leave early.

Chen Yuan asked her mother to pick her up the next day and go back to her family. She said she wanted a divorce. If such a man stays with him for one more day, she is afraid that she will get sick.

Chen Yuan has made up her mind that she will never forgive him this time. I used to think that as soon as the child was born, Sang-woo would naturally become mature and understand the responsibilities and responsibilities on his shoulders.

But the child was born, and before she was out of the month, she saw Shang Yu's character clearly. When she gave birth to the child and was locked in the confinement, he was so selfish that he ignored her and the child, even if he would not change in the future.

So, even if Sang-woo knelt at the door of Chen Yuan and begged her to go home after her mother-in-law's lesson, she ignored him, and she didn't want to live that lonely life any more.

After all, a woman looking for a husband just wants a man who can care about her, take care of her when she needs it, and shelter her from the wind and rain.

However, the expectation is beautiful, but the reality is cruel. Many women find out after they get married that men can't shelter from the wind and rain, but bring many storms.

When one day, the family and marriage relationship that should bring warmth and security to women only bring pain and injustice to women, how should women face it?

Not all women, like Chen Yuan, have the courage to stop loss in time after seeing the true face of Sang-woo after the child is born.

Too many women, facing an irresponsible man, have chosen patience. However, no matter what kind of choice a woman makes, don't be wronged and don't let yourself regret it.