Dale. Dale Carnegie (1 888165438+1October 24th ~195565438+1October1), the father of American modern adult education, is a famous American interpersonal master, and is a western.

1, the biggest difference between winners and losers is that winners will try to benefit from failure and try other methods.

Have you ever seen an unhappy horse? Or a sad bird? They have no worries, because they don't have to show off in front of their peers.

If you can bravely admit your mistakes, you will certainly benefit from them. Because admitting mistakes can not only win the respect of others, but also increase your self-esteem.

As long as you are sure that what you are doing is right, don't let anything hold you back. All the great achievements in the world are confrontation? Impossible? Result. Whatever the difficulties, it is important to finish the work.

We often have many opportunities, but we seldom find them because we are not prepared. Pay attention to the opportunities around you.

6. calmly analyze the past mistakes, try to benefit from them, and then forget it. This is the only way to make the past constructive.

7. Most of us are either worried about yesterday or tomorrow, but refuse to make good use of today!

8. It's easy to make the world happier. Why? Just say a few words of sincere thanks to lonely and discouraged people. Although you may forget what you said today tomorrow, the receiver may cherish his life.

9. Don't hold a grudge. Don't be afraid to give in when you are in trouble. Villains always insist on their own opinions to safeguard their dignity. People who are willing to take the initiative to reach out and talk to others, admit their mistakes and propose to start over are all open-minded people.

10, as long as you? Pretend? Being interested in work may make you really interested, or it may reduce your burnout, tension and anxiety.

1 1. Don't be unwilling to try your best because you think things are trivial. Accomplishing anything can make people stronger. If you can do the little things well, there will be no problem with the big things.

12, today is life, the only life you really have. Make the most of today! Arouse interest in sth! Cheer up! Cultivate a hobby. Let real passion sweep you. Make today interesting!

13. If we have accepted the worst, there is nothing to lose.

14, a cheerful businessman should have two advantages besides cautious habits: agility and nonconformity.

15, towards a certain goal? Pool? Never give up halfway? Gas? What do these two add up to? Ambition? . This is the success or failure of all undertakings.

16. If you want to make friends, you should first do something for others, which requires time, energy, consideration and dedication.

17, private property, the law of wealth accumulation and the law of competition are all the highest achievements of human experience, and they are also the soil that has produced the best fruits in society so far.

18, respect other people's opinions. Never say:? You are wrong. ?

19, to make others like you, you must first change your attitude towards people, relax, look natural and smile, so that others will have a good impression on you.

20. A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never succeed in big things.

2 1, young when you have faith, old when you are confused; Self-confidence is young, fear is ancient; Hope is young, despair is ancient; Years may wrinkle your skin, but to give up enthusiasm will hurt your soul.

22. Try to work in a comfortable environment. Remember, physical stress can cause shoulder pain and mental fatigue.

My motto is: first of all, honesty; Second, diligence; Third, concentrate on your work.

24. Today is too precious to be eroded by painful worries and regrets. Lift your chin and let your mind shine, like a mountain spring jumping in the spring. Seize today, and it will never come back.

If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others, something that takes time, effort, consideration and dedication.

26. Real reading awakens the sleepy and chooses the right target for the hesitant. Appropriate books guide people to the right path and prevent them from going astray.

27. When the opportunity is presented to you, if you can firmly seize it, you will succeed in nine cases out of ten, and those who find opportunities for themselves will win 100%.

28. Only 15% of a person's career success is due to his professional skills, and the other 85% depends on interpersonal relationships and external skills. Soft and hard are relative. Professional skills are hard skills and interpersonal skills are soft skills.

If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others that requires time, energy, care and dedication.

A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never achieve great things.

3 1. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others that takes time, energy, consideration and dedication.

32. Secular? Time is money? This sentence, so thieves who steal other people's time will of course be punished, even those happy good people should avoid it like taboo diseases.

33, sporadic time, if you can use it quickly, you can become a complete time. So-called? Accumulate soil into mountains? Yes, it is easy to lose a day, but there is no way to get it back.

34. Life is like a stage. If you just describe one thing, you can't move people's hearts.

35. Being humble and three points on the road of life means being broad, overcoming all difficulties and removing all entanglements.

36. You may understand that people who are born to do wrong will only blame others and never blame themselves.

37. When a person changes from himself, he is no longer an ordinary person.

38. Besides your job, find a hobby for you as your psychological and spiritual remedy.

39. Use your spare time to find a favorite sideline outside your own industry, and find more if possible. The more sideline businesses, the bigger the circle of friends and the more spiritual pleasure.

Grasp the present, don't mourn the past and don't worry about the future.

4 1, the first secret of successful interpersonal communication is: ask the other person for help; The second secret: praise others sincerely; The third secret: try to meet the needs of others.

If we have accepted the worst, we have nothing to lose.

43. A cheerful businessman should have two advantages besides cautious habits: agility and not following the crowd.

44. If you want to make friends, you must first do something for others, something that needs time, energy, consideration and dedication.

45. Private property, the law of wealth accumulation and the law of competition are all the highest achievements of human experience, and they are also the soil that has produced the best fruits in society so far.