First of all, I think the first main principle of getting along with others is to respect each other. Respect each other's feelings, respect each other's personality, respect each other's living habits, and so on. In the process of getting along, you will know something about each other, know each other's preferences, and perhaps know each other's pain. Don't joke about each other's likes and pains, because you feel humorous and hurt their feelings without knowing it.

Secondly, if others need help, they should try their best to help others. Friendship is often produced and maintained by helping each other. Often helping others will show that you are kind and kind, and people are generally more willing to establish long-term and profound friendship with these kind and kind people.

Also, learn to control your emotions and don't vent them on people around you. Sometimes when you are in a bad mood, vent it on people around you, and people around you will feel wronged. Why do you want to be your vent bucket? This is also a rude and irrational behavior, which shows that you are naive and have a bad temper. Therefore, no matter what bad things you have experienced, you are in a bad mood. Control it. Don't explode.

Optimistic and cheerful personality and tolerant and generous quality are also magic weapons to get along well with people around you. Of course, everyone likes to see a happy and smiling person, instead of frowning all day, as if the whole world owes him, so that others don't want to be near you at all. Also, even if people around you do something wrong, you can forgive others generously, which is also conducive to getting along with others.

The last point, which I think is also the most important point, is to be sincere when getting along with people around you. What is sincerity? It means don't lie to others, always put yourself in others' shoes. My roommate is a super popular person with friends all over the world. She never seems to lie to anyone. If she made a mistake, she would admit it to others and ask for forgiveness. She won't flatter, because she can gain the trust and friendship of others. She is a natural and graceful person, neither supercilious nor supercilious. Everyone likes her personality, so she can get along well with the people around her.

I think the reason and responsibility of whether people can live in harmony comes from both sides. We can only ask ourselves to do what we should do in our usual communication, and we can't control what others think and do. Sometimes, in the process of interacting with others, we respect others enough, treat others politely, and fully consider each other's feelings when speaking and doing things. But the other party still treats us badly, disrespects us, and even does things that hurt us. This is the other person's personality problem.