Write down all the grievances in your heart and tell yourself that you will never be affected by these negative emotions again. Live a good life and give yourself what you want. No more complaining, no longer entangled in the current fly camp dog Gou. Control your emotions, do what you should do, or be filial to your daughter as always.

Don't cling to what you can't get, don't be afraid of loneliness, and don't be afraid.

Try to settle down, do what you want to do, don't fish for three days and dry the net for two days. Don't shout tired, because the road is your choice. Everything in the world is bitter, only crossing the river.

In later life, reduce anger, reduce anger, and reduce psychological depression. Only do things, but think too much. If what you want doesn't come true, you're not working hard enough. Don't lie flat, don't give up the struggle, because only by constantly learning can you gain something.

In retrospect, I read so many books, but I didn't put them into action. The books I read are free. Zeng Guofan is a person I admire very much. I don't admire those geniuses, only those who have achieved something through hard work the day after tomorrow. I used to admire Zeng Guofan, but now I admire Huashan.

They moved me and always wanted to be like them. Although I am plain, I am not plain, just an ordinary person, but I also hope to create some achievements like them. The meaning of life is inner enrichment and satisfaction, not those material things. Relatively speaking, I admire the satisfaction of the spiritual world more.

I see many shortcomings of myself, and I know that if I can't change my shortcomings, life can only be like this, and I won't achieve anything. What have I achieved for me? Generally speaking, we should have the leisure and freedom we want. This leisure and freedom is not bought by the sacrifice of others, nor is it because of some restrictions. It is the leisure and freedom I gained after hard work.

Of course, I can't get this leisure and freedom at present, because I need to survive. When I have to work in order to survive and make money, I am not free, just a commodity, trading my time for meager income.

I no longer crave those unrealistic fantasies, and I know that only by keeping my feet on the ground can I get where I want to go. Don't aim too high, start with small things and do every small thing well. Don't worry too much, it's too hard to imagine the future life.

Diligent accumulation, perseverance, perseverance, until now, I may only appreciate a little. Huashan is hardworking. He insists on writing every day. Except for one day off on New Year's Eve, it has lasted 1000 days. Insist on getting up early and memorizing words. He spends his time and energy on things he likes and doesn't take part in useless social activities.

Let's look at Zeng Guofan again, insisting on getting up early, reading, keeping a diary, practicing calligraphy every day, and educating children. They want to clean the yard by themselves, but they live a luxurious life.

They are all successful. I think they are successful. Of course, they also achieved good results. But it is not because of achievements that we insist on doing these things, but because we have done these things that we have achieved success. They have something in common. They insist on getting up early, reading and writing, and studying.

And I, when I leave my only four small goals, I know what I can do to become better. Keep exercising, reading and writing, and save money for study.

No matter what happens in the future, I will insist on starting from these four little things. Maybe I can't make some achievements and go further, but because I have done these four little things, when I look back, I will no longer regret or be angry. Because this is the most important thing for me. They can satisfy my heart better than money and material desires.

I can't help crying when I think about my mother and these things. The influence of family background on you needs a lifetime of self-healing. In the future, I don't want to think about things that made me unhappy before. Those bad influences engraved in my mind, let it dissipate with time!

I want to do a few small things:

1. Prepare a bank card and transfer 500 yuan money into it regularly every month. This 500 yuan is for my mother, but I won't take it out now, just in case. Although it is not much, it will be a lot of wealth when she needs it.

2. Prepare a bank card and transfer it to 500 yuan regularly every month, which is the last guarantee fund for yourself. In other words, the money is used to study and improve yourself, not for other purposes.

3, walk more than 8000 steps a day, except for special circumstances, adhere to complete this minimum requirement.

In addition, give yourself some warnings:

1, don't be lazy, act when you don't want to do it, as long as you act, you won't be anxious and cranky again.

Keep studying and seize every day, because the time now determines where you can go.

Life is half fireworks and half happiness. Life is half awake and half relieved. The only thing that can really cure you is yourself.