Marriage needs hard work and maintenance to last, but the so-called maintenance does not require you to pay unilaterally, otherwise it will easily turn your love into washing machine love. At first, it will haunt you, turn around you, then drain you, and finally leave you hanging ... The most terrible thing about washing machine love is not how much you have paid for her, but when you run out of energy, she will leave you immediately.

Therefore, if you want to maintain a long-term marriage and avoid washing machine love, you must learn how to find a balance when you pay for each other. What exactly should I do?

1, keep it fresh.

You can do a meaningful thing with her like this.

For example:

I have a female friend whose boyfriend is in finance. They will go to the bank to open a savings account as their wedding fund.

Although my best friend's money only accounts for a small part of the wedding fund, she feels that every time she deposits a sum of money in this account, she feels that she is investing in her feelings, and the investment is naturally rewarding. My best friend thinks that the reward of the fund is the joy and happiness on their wedding day.

I want to say that her boyfriend is still smart. In fact, every effort of a girl will make her more dependent on you and pay more attention to your feelings. The most important thing is to make her believe that there will be a future with you by doing something with her.

Of course, you can also cultivate a hobby with her that you both like but have never touched. It can be dancing, but music, baking, pottery.

Have to admit the fact that:

Feelings are not everything to men. You still have a career, studies, games, brothers and hobbies. Feelings are just a part of your life.

2. Keep the diversity of role consciousness.

That is to say, you are like a father and a little daughter when you are coquetry, like a lover when you flirt, and like a comrade-in-arms when you work. ...

For example, if your girlfriend plays the coquetry with you, all she wants is your tenderness and touch. You can hold her and say something intimate and obscene to her.

For example, baby, your coquetry is really cute. I really like this moment. If only time could stay at this moment forever.

At this time, she will definitely bury her head in your arms. At this time, you can kiss her and touch her.

When she handles her work, all you have to do is stay with her and encourage her. If you can give her some concrete methods, she will love you to death.

At the same time, you can also ask her to do something for you, comfort you when you are busy at work, and expose your difficulties appropriately, instead of always choosing one person to bear all the difficulties in life. After all, good love needs you two to run together.