1 In the alumni group, Xiaomei, who has been working for two years, talked about her short-term plans: obtain CPA within two years, practice speaking, take the TOEFL exam, and save money to study abroad for a graduate degree.

Some good people advise: You and your boyfriend are both good enough. You will be thirty in a few years. You have to consider the process of getting married and having children. Why bother going abroad again.

There are also sour and slanderous people who say: I must be planning to climb to a higher level.

In fact, Xiaomei's current results are considered top-notch among her peers and even her peers. I have also asked her privately why she is still working so hard. If others achieve your results, they will probably start to relax.

, or she is just trying to work hard in her current field, aiming for promotion and salary increase. Studying abroad may very well mean that her current achievements will be wiped out, so why bother.

Xiaomei replied to me and said, I am only 25 years old and there are still countless possibilities in life. Why not learn more while I have time and energy.

I go my own way and don't care what others think.

Xiaomei has always been a person with clear goals. During college, she was able to juggle studies, clubs, and internships with ease. Her schedule was fully arranged, and more than 90% of the planned goals she set were achieved perfectly. She was the teacher's favorite student, and at a time when everyone was still confused about the future of graduation.

At that time, Xiaomei defeated a group of graduate students with her strength. She received an olive branch from a well-known company and entered the workplace.

Having a career that everyone envied, Xiaomei did not stop. In her spare time, she took the securities industry, fund industry, and judicial examinations. She is currently studying for a postgraduate degree in business management. She always said that she always believes that any knowledge can be

It won't be useless. Even if it is not used for a while, it does not mean that it will never be used.

To be honest, I quite envy Xiaomei. Most of us originally had many choices, but slowly, we have narrowed our paths. We don’t have the courage and persistence like Xiaomei to make changes, so we have to stay in the original place.

The road continues to move forward. This kind of life is not bad. If you can persevere all the way, you will have good achievements, but few people can persevere to the end. I don’t say whether this road will be blocked by accident. Let’s just say that during the journey, we

Often we become slack, lost, stuck in the same place, and stuck in our comfort zone.

As for Xiaomei, when we were immersed in our own corner, the preparations and efforts she made were enough to allow her to make different choices at any time. As she said, there are countless possibilities in life.

Hirokazu Kore-eda's "Walking" said, "You are only 25 years old. You can be anyone you want to be." You have to remember that there are countless possibilities in life, and what we have to do is to be ready at any time.

Choose all possible preparations by yourself, don’t fall into comfort, don’t be afraid of changes, and take the initiative.

2. At the beginning of every new year, most of us are used to setting a lot of flags, such as researching, making money, losing weight, finding a partner, etc. But at the end of the year, we turn to the goals we set before. Alas, being able to complete one is already considered a great achievement.

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We always envy others for their excellent eloquence and writing skills, their high-paying jobs and excellent resumes, and their slim and fit figures... Little do we know that we can also be the person who is envied, as long as you are willing to change and persevere.

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It is said that there are no limits in life, and opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. I know a school girl who has loved literature and art since she was a child. She also majored in literature in college. Her biggest wish is to write and let her articles reach more people.

people see.

However, under the strong interference of her parents, she finally listened to her family's advice when she graduated and found a job, and returned to her hometown to become a high school Chinese teacher.

But she never gave up her dream of writing. After preparing for lessons, she would calm down and write, whether it was what she saw, what she thought, what she felt when she read, or the stories she shared with her students.

She wrote the articles herself, deleted them, mailed them out, and submitted them to various magazines and newspapers. At first she received little response, but gradually more and more articles were selected for publication. Not only did she earn royalties, she also accumulated some readers, and even

An enthusiastic reader wrote to her, and when she talked to me, she said that it was the greatest encouragement to her.

After persisting like this for more than three years, the school girl's writing skills became more and more refined. Not long ago, she was valued by the provincial daily newspaper and extended an olive branch. She successfully completed the career change and took the job closest to her dream.

In real life, due to various pressures, we will more or less drift away from the life we ??want, or even run counter to it. Some people are still content with the status quo after complaining, while some people choose to accumulate hard work and finally pay off their hard work.

Get what you want.

Life is short and long. As long as you never forget your original intention and insist on adding value to yourself, one day you will become the person you want to be.

3. I believe that many people have had this experience. Even if their work is unsatisfactory, even if there is an imbalance between effort and income, they have said they will quit their jobs countless times, but in fact they have many concerns and little action.

The female teacher who is so big, I want to see her has indeed made many people admire and envy her, but not everyone has her courage.