Unless she can't wear it or can't afford it!
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A few days ago, I accidentally saw a report on the Internet that a provincial capital city had a rich blind date.
It is said that a person must be expensive to enjoy membership.
The momentum attracted many female college students to go on blind dates, and one of them sent two daughters who were still in college.
I can't help but sigh, "Beat the tiger brothers and the mother and daughter soldiers. This is really enough to be a mother!"
In the interview, the reporter interviewed a man who entered the venue and asked him what his mate selection criteria were.
The man replied, "I want to find a girl like Melinda as a wife."
Melinda and Bill Gates have made such a great career together, and I hope to find a girl to fight with. "
The blind date of the rich has been on the rise since 1 1, and it is still a hot topic that has won public attention.
Today we will discuss how a single girl can find a good partner, regardless of whether it is true or not.
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In our hometown, there is such a girl, 29 years old, unmarried and bent on becoming a rich boy.
Since the girl was 20 years old, her parents have arranged for her to go on blind dates, or they dislike the man's poverty.
Either the man is not good enough for his parents, or he is old, or his parents are not handsome enough.
Relatives around me just started to give her blind dates and introduced all the single guys with good conditions to her.
Together, the number is estimated to pull a truck, but the result is not one.
Finally, everyone was curious about what her standards were. She replied that she must have money, be good to herself and her parents.
After marriage, you should not work hard, you should not be wronged, you should be handsome, you should be similar in age, and you should not be short.
After listening to her standards, friends and relatives around her changed their old enthusiasm and no one introduced her.
Everyone tacitly believes that if this goal can be achieved, the ancestral graves will be filled with smoke.
You may delay, but time will not. At the age of 29, many people may retort that it is normal for a woman who marries late to go to sea.
Don't worry, let me introduce her background again. The girl's parents are simple farmers with junior high school education.
Height less than 1.6 meters, dark skin, ordinary appearance, princess disease, working 10 years, or a female worker on the assembly line.
Even in this case, she can't resist her shoulders and lift her hands all day. She kept saying that it would be the life of a rich family in the future.
This job should not be done, and that job is rough, so I often fail to finish the tasks assigned by my supervisor on time, and my salary is deducted a lot.
In the end, there was only a meager salary.
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Nowadays, many urban women marry late because they have just graduated from college and entered the society.
I also want to learn more to improve myself, to add value in the workplace, and to find a congenial partner.
That's why I put off getting married.
And this girl is obviously not this type. She has already entered the society.
So far, my comprehensive strength has not improved at all, and my goal has always been to enter the upper class.
It is certainly true to have such a goal. Everyone has the right to pursue a better life.
The question is, what is the possibility of achieving this goal?
Back to the rich blind date at the beginning of the article, the answer given by the man,
Obviously, he hopes to find a woman who is of great help to his career as a partner.
Many girls may not know Melinda, but only know that she is just a small employee of Microsoft.
Its ugly, because good luck became Gates' wife, that's all.
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In fact, Melinda received two bachelor's degrees in computer science and economics from Duke University.
Later, he received an MBA from Duke Business School, one of the most famous universities in the United States.
Former President Nixon graduated here.
After graduation, Melinda entered Microsoft, and soon achieved impressive results, and began to serve as department head.
At that time, there were already 100 employees.
She is a typical workaholic, and many projects and products she is responsible for are now widely known.
What's more worth mentioning is that she once fed back an important message, corrected the fatal error of Windows and avoided the company's heavy losses.
Later, Gates pursued this girl who is very capable and has the characteristics of a good wife.
Gates was sincerely rejected by Melinda, and finally they came together.
Why does the outside world know little about Melinda? Because as the wife of the richest man in the world, Melinda has always been the focus of social attention.
But she doesn't like publicity. She asked her husband to promise not to mention her when answering the reporter's question.
She donated money to her alma mater, just hoping that the teacher wouldn't tell anyone about herself.
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The reporter once asked Gates what was the most successful choice in his life? He admitted that he "married Melinda,
If it weren't for her, maybe our foundation wouldn't exist. "
So far, Melinda is at the helm of the largest foundation in the world.
Even Warren Buffett, the stock king, commented that Melinda is a very smart woman.
Finally, I donated most of my assets to their foundation.
Let's imagine how Melinda got into Gates' eyes if she wasn't so smart and had the characteristics of a good wife and a good mother.
Only by being an excellent self can you attract an excellent partner. The essence of love is attraction,
That is, you have qualities that others appreciate, so he may fall in love with you.
People often appreciate the excellent qualities of outstanding people, and there are even fewer outstanding people in life.
Especially women, so it is even more valuable. Many people think that women should not be too good,
Don't work too hard, or you won't get married.
See how Sun answers this sentence:
Li Bingbing asked Sun, What do you think of me?
Sun said: excellent, beautiful, in good shape and capable.
Li Bingbing said: I heard that men don't like women who are too good?
Sun said: a man will never dislike that a woman is too good, just as a woman will never dislike that clothes are too beautiful unless she can't wear them or can't afford them!
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The giants you see, they are looking for life partners. If it is not suitable, join hands to make the family business bigger.
Realize their ambitions;
Otherwise, you are a peerless beauty and you will fall in love with this country. In ancient times, there were kings who laughed at Bomei people and called them "bonfire princes".
Or you can be equal to him in career, help him achieve his career and become a capable wife.
Can maintain the prestige and dignity of the family;
Of course, there are other outstanding aspects, most of which are still in the top three.
If you don't have a strong family background and charming appearance, you are just a mediocre person, nothing special.
Imagine if you were a very good and successful man, would you easily let such a woman be your partner?
Which class are you in? Which class will you be in? It's hard for fan Mei Sheng to get into Andy's circle.
When you are good enough, strong enough, and naturally surrounded by equal and like-minded people, it is difficult for eagles to associate with birds.
Only by becoming an excellent person first can we attract an excellent partner and a group of excellent friends.
Phoenix can only come when plane trees are planted! ! !