Normally, if it is your own child, then both situations will be very distressing. However, according to our ancient tradition, daughters may have to get married first. At present, the legal age for marriage is that boys are two years older than girls. In other words, strictly speaking, a daughter who doesn't marry should be more sad than a son. It is undeniable that the divorce rate in our society is increasing year by year, which leads to many reasons why young men and women don't like to get married now. In fact, it is not that the divorce rate in the previous society was low, but that the previous society was often forced. For example, two people who have never been suitable have to persist for decades, because their thoughts were not open at that time, and with the development of society, their thoughts are becoming more and more open. So I think there are several reasons why young men and women don't get married:

1, it's good to be alone.

Now, as long as you look closely, many men and women will find that they all feel that living alone is better, because since the reform and opening up, women's human rights have become more and more important, and even have a tendency to surpass men. In our first-tier cities, some fashionable women can be seen everywhere, and any one can earn tens of thousands of dollars. To a certain extent, they don't need to get married, because they live well alone.

2. Don't want to be bound by marriage

Many young men and women, while enjoying the two-person world of love, do not want to be bound by the shackles of marriage, because they believe that they must be together after marriage, and even influenced by traditional concepts, they will think that divorce after marriage is a very shameful thing.

Step 3 be selfish

Because most of the post-80s and post-90s generation are only children, they are loved at home since childhood and are the apple of their eye. They are afraid of falling into their mouths and holding them in their hands, so they also love a group of the most selfish people, so it is difficult for them to understand and tolerate each other in a long-term relationship. It is this selfish personality that makes the divorce rate of young men and women very high.