There is only one true heroism in the world, which is to still love life after recognizing the truth of life. ——Romain Rolland

When everyone shouted "Wow", we all thought it was earth-shattering. The whole meaning of the future is that the family and even the world will change because of him.

But one day you will find that no matter how much parents love their children, the children may not be what their parents want; no matter how much the children dislike their parents, the children have to accept a reality, and this is what children do You may not be as good as your parents in this life.

Both parents and children will only have an ordinary life throughout their lives.

When I was a kid, I admired two people the most. One is the father and the other is Cheng Sheng.

At that time, there were few people in the country who could earn a living, but my father was an exception. My father has a monthly salary of dozens of dollars. Although he doesn’t come home often, I look forward to it every day and look forward to the lot of good things my father brings back. Whenever my father holds my hand, I feel extremely honored. I think that when I grow up, I will be like my father, earn a salary and be enviable.

Cheng Sheng is tall and thin. He looks like an elder in the impression, but he is actually only in his early twenties. Cheng Sheng has been reviewing for two years. In order to get into a prestigious school, he often stayed up all night, and everyone in Zhuangzi was full of praise. I went to Cheng Sheng's house once, and after saying a few words, Cheng Sheng wanted to give me a question. Looking at the geometric figures he drew on the paper, I was so frightened that I ran out of the door.

My father and Cheng Sheng were like two gods, and they became the heroes I was obsessed with and longed for when I was young. When I grew up, I realized that they were also very ordinary. One winter day ten years ago, my father was already in his dying years. He was hunched over, with a urine bag stuffed in the pocket of his cotton trousers. He squinted his eyes in the sun. I asked him about it. He was weak and didn't look alive at all. At that time, it had been ten years since Cheng Sheng passed away due to illness. After he was admitted to college, I never saw him again.

It turns out that my father and Cheng Sheng are ordinary people. No one gave them an umbrella. It was windy and rainy, and they were just trying to hold on in this life.

Time flies, and after graduation, I got an iron rice bowl. But for one professional title and one position, I have been studying non-stop for half my life, jumping from one degree to another, jumping from one size to another. Every time I just stopped, I soon became a stepping stone for others and became a candidate. The denominator of a percentage in a ratio. Looking back, I found that it was hard work after repeated defeats and defeats along the way. I thought that relying on my own efforts was enough, but today I discovered that there are too many things that I am incompetent about.

Sister Yuan, like me, is also a strong woman.

She worked hard because she was a grassroots person, so she pinned all her hopes on her children. The children are also very up to date. They have been very sensible since they were young, have very good grades, and have been admitted to a good university. They are just like a child. Looks like someone else's child. But after the child went to college, he played "games" all the time. He failed five classes in one year and was ordered to drop out of school. The couple started to quarrel, and the child ran away in anger. Sister Yuan wanted to die. This year, her child is working in a trademark agency and earns several thousand yuan a month. Seeing her child supporting herself, Sister Yuan can finally breathe a sigh of relief.

It turns out that children, like us, are also ordinary people and are destined to live an ordinary life.

Accepting the ordinary does not mean accepting mediocrity. If you want an ordinary life, you also need to work hard.

A few days ago, there was an article on Zhihu, "I have tens of millions in Shanghai, but I live at the bottom of society." This article is about a middle-aged man who wanted to go to a retreat for a retreat. To get a house in the school district of the attached school, I had to bear a loan of more than 5 million yuan in my middle age, and began to live a life of frugal living and budgeting.

Many people say that this is asking for trouble. Why do you have to buy a house in a school district? Even if you graduate from Tsinghua University, you may not be able to live well. But if you don't work hard for your children in this life, no matter how hard you work in the future, you will not be able to make up for your guilt for your children. Because parents only talk about giving to their children. Even if the child is destined to be ordinary, he cannot be allowed to live a mediocre life since he was a child.

Fan Shengmei in the TV series "Ode to Joy" is as beautiful as a flower, but she comes from a poor family. She has been dragged down by her parents, brother and sister-in-law for many years. Faced with a bottomless pit that cannot be filled, her kindness and vanity are like her life. Two mirrors reveal the hardships and hardships of ordinary people. She pushed Wang Baichuan further and further away for a house. She exchanged her big-name bags for A-grade goods in order to provide money for her family. When she asked for a loan, Mr. Zhang and Brother Wang all rejected her. Struggle and frustration, glory and pain, just like your life and mine, make people cry.

It turns out that the life of ordinary people is to do their best to make their families live better, not just for themselves.

After working for many years, I often lament that fate plays tricks on people. Why didn't anyone tell me how to work hard when I was young? You have to go through many detours to gain something. Is it really so difficult to be an ordinary person?

I have been through countless examination rooms, but I have never been able to pass an exam by sneaking in and peeking at other people's test papers. Every homework had to make me lose a layer of skin before I could just pass, so I envied other people's calmness and ease. easy.

During the professional title review, I saw that the other party’s piles of achievement certificates were just obtained by putting them in other people’s names, while I only had a pitiful few books, each of which was made with painstaking efforts. It was achieved through hard work, so I was jealous of the unfair fate.

In terms of job promotion, I saw that many people who worked honestly had no chance to be promoted, while some people changed careers in a few years, holding passes, and climbed to a position that was unattainable, so I Lamenting the differences between people.

Only now do I understand that people like me are everywhere in the crowd, and they shed a lot of bitter tears.

When I used to watch TV dramas, I thought that business people would eventually become big bosses, that small leaders would become big leaders in a few years, and that children who scored 100 points in math tests were destined to become smart science students. The beautiful MM finally married Gao Fushuai, whom I have been secretly in love with for a long time. But today I realized that we are just ordinary people throughout our lives. We cannot have a cheating life. Even if we live a stable life, we still have to pay 100. efforts,.

In the passing of time, no one is relaxed.

I never thought that I would become an unparalleled celebrity, nor could I become a prominent figure such as Fan Bingbing or Jack Ma, because we only have an umbrella above our heads, which is too small. The wind and rain are too strong, so there will be no earth-shattering life and stunning stage in this life. My father, Cheng Sheng, Sister Yuan, Fan Shengmei, and the 36-year-old Shanghai man with a loan of more than 5 million yuan, from head to toe, from beginning to end, we are all ordinary people, and this is our ultimate proposition.

We are a generation of ordinary people, but we are willing to live an ordinary life meaningfully.