At the end of every dead end, there is another dimension of sky.

| ?Liao Yimei ?|

You are like a piece of sunshine, melting the entire stubborn iceberg in my heart.

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It begins with a line from Liao Yimei: At the end of every dead end, there is a sky in another dimension. And what I want to say is that in the heart of every girl who is anxious and afraid of love, there is another piece of sunshine that can warm the entire Arctic glacier.

I stubbornly believe that people always have subconscious judgments about the results of things, but they are too shy to admit it and annoyed to accept the established results. And when we face the irreversible arrival of something, if we don’t have the courage to solve it, it will definitely come again. Conflict and contradiction are always the key points of drama development. Regarding love, it is undeniable that I am a person fleeing from poverty. It's like God sees human struggle and sees it as meaningless. I saw the sadness of love, so I disguised myself as a hedgehog to protect myself.

It is the instinct of all animals to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and humans will consciously seek self-liberation. A pessimist is easy to escape, but there is no absolute pessimist in the world. Optimists are likely to be happy, but there is a lack of pure optimists in the world. It is difficult for most people to find absolute relief in life, so there is no limit to the sea of ??suffering, and there is always a chance to return to the shore. Most people have not yet cultivated to the point where they can get rid of all egos and look at problems outside of themselves, so they have a fearful heart. In Buddhism, greed, anger, and ignorance all come from the greed of the mind. Most suffering in the world is also caused by the self-mind.

If you feel that love is painful, it is because you feel sad and you have not met the truly right person.

To get rid of suffering, you must first change your mentality. Let yourself feel happy and joyful, love is joyful.

People, especially women, can be so strong that they can be invincible when they don’t meet anyone trustworthy, because they can only rely on themselves. And when they meet someone who is trustworthy and willing to rely on them, their whole world will melt. Every movement of their fingertips and every flower that smiles from the corners of their mouths are soft, happy, and sexy.

Love is both weakness and armor.

Hi, thank you for letting me meet you, for giving me sunshine and warmth. Give me a chance to let go of my cowardice and stubbornness. Tell me, hey, you can be soft like a girl.

Hey, you melted the entire glacier in my heart.

2.

The essence of love lies in understanding.

Understanding without thoughts and pursuits, a life without doctrines and sophistry. But this understanding is so rare.

I once took a green train because I only had standing tickets. Opposite me stood a couple who looked like they were college students.

The journey was boring and the time was long. Standing for a long time was a bit too much for the girl. The boy took out a scarf from his backpack, then arranged the contents as flat as possible and put them on the ground. Watching the boy smile innocently and sit on the backpack. The boy put the scarf on the girl's legs, turned around and smiled happily, and the two of them were silent the whole time.

When you know a person well enough, a tacit understanding will be generated in the process of getting along with them. No need to say anything, I already know your feelings.

In fact, when most people talk about love, they talk about needs and self-needs. Everyone thinks that their love is simple and purposeless. In fact, in most cases, it is Love, security, and expectation are all self-protection after choice. When you really love someone, you don't think about so many feelings. You just want to be with you, go to the supermarket together, take a walk, hold hands and bump heads together, and live ordinary days awkwardly. But still enjoying himself.

Yes, I just want to hold hands with you, go to the supermarket, walk on the path, and watch the sunset.

What about you.

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Understand.

How much do I know about you, and how much do you know about me.

Maybe most people are lonely. The hardest thing to live in this world is to understand. Like you can't even empathize with your loved ones.

A few years ago, I accompanied my mother to buy New Year’s goods. When I was pushing the cart, I saw that my mother’s slightly chubby figure was still very nimble, and she had a careful eye for picking things. Something I picked up casually was intercepted by the old lady, and she gave it to me conveniently. I picked the same kind of items but different brands.

But I was happy to accompany her leisurely like this.

So, I learned: the yogurt must be the latest, and the vegetables must be judged by the circumference of the leaves to determine whether they are fresh. Various nuts and jelly should be packed in separate bags so that children can choose easily. Look at the opening of the pistachios, pick them in threes and fives, and pass the time during the New Year's Eve vigil. Don’t buy snacks indiscriminately, don’t buy fried ones... These tasks with a full sense of citizenship make me very happy. This is life, simple and real, but also sophisticated. When I checked out, I realized that the little savings I made could add up to dozens of dollars.

My mother said that no matter how small a day is, it is never too small. I suddenly felt that I did not fully understand my mother. I used to think that my mother was the kind of careless old lady who didn't have any calculations. In fact, she was also very careful about her life and saved everything she could.

On the way home, my mother asked me hurriedly, "Do you like hawthorn flavor?" I bought some. I said, Mom, when have I ever liked hawthorn flavor? I have always liked strawberry flavor. My Mom: Oh, I remembered wrongly, who likes to eat hawthorn flavor... Me: Mom, I remember it was you. My mom: Oh, yes. You have different tastes from me.

The smallest understanding is like the deviation between my mother and me about each other's hobbies. This deviation also comes from our own opinions, which escalates to a lack of understanding of the spiritual level and lifestyle, and finally leads to disputes. The beginning, development, and ending of things are all further deepening of conflicts and contradictions. Interspersed in the middle are the affirmation of one's own values ??and the negation of others' values. To understand a person, it is good to use your heart, but to understand a person is even more difficult than to use your heart.

Everyone has their own taste buds, just like everyone has different standards for lovers. We cannot ask others to be the same as ourselves, we can only be as tolerant and understanding as possible. In life, there are always some people who do things that sigh in the world in the name of love.

3.

"Everyone is lonely.

In our life, it is not rare to encounter love or sex. What is rare is "Meet and understand."

There is a saying in "Rhinoceros in Love": People can live on carbon dioxide, as long as they have love.

Love is like amber. The beauty of the texture and material is very important, but the most important thing is to have someone who knows it. Bole and Chollima, Zhong Ziqi and Yu Boya, you and him in love are all like this. It is not easy to meet someone who understands you in your life, but the valuable thing is to never give up the pursuit. Brave people are always more likely to be lucky. You may encounter the arrangement of the matchmaker at some point. I don’t seek glory for a lifetime, but I seek love and love.

But the simpler and easier it is to say something, the more difficult it is for people to do it well.

Loneliness and love are not complementary, nor are they a pair of antonyms. They have no connection per se, but if a person in love is still lonely, I think this is very sad. Because there is no way to understand, and there is no way to find a way to get closer to each other's souls because of understanding. Because of this, when you meet such a boy, cherish it, girl. Meeting someone who understands you is like ice and snow meeting the whole warm sunshine, melting not only your loneliness but also your cold world.

Then, all my paranoia and pride completely collapsed, and all my extreme and disdain for love returned to enthusiasm. Don't laugh at me, let a cheerful pessimist gain the knowledge of happiness, I feel quite happy in my heart. What's wrong with being pretentious? I'm happy when I'm pretentious. Although all these sophistry and discussions about ism may be meaningless, what I want to say is, hey, if you make a girl who is so eloquent and argumentative become soft, sexy, and happy like a marshmallow, then this He is undoubtedly a successful knight.

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Emotions are like a pool of water. A grain of sand falling into the water will also change the water level, although it still looks calm - the simplest emotions also have things you have never understood. one side. When we begin to muster up the courage to face our own feelings, we will put loneliness on another level and thread the needle. When looking at my own feelings, I often wonder: What is affecting our love? Stimulate our desires? Shape our vision? Cause our love? What kind of power, what kind of breath, what kind of temperature, what kind of smile, what kind of atmosphere, what kind of breath. What kind of body and soul, what kind of coincidences, what kind of loneliness and persistence, what kind of heart and what kind of thinking.

What you think you like turns out to be boring, and what you think you hate turns out to be kind.

These questions, like all of life's fundamental questions, have no answers. But it is from these that all drama and philosophy, from antiquity to the present, have derived endless expressions and moving expressions. "All love is sad, but even though it is sad, it is still the most beautiful thing we know." In the face of all the vulnerabilities in the world, why not pursue beauty with all your heart, not to mention that it is useless to have so much.

Love is the most beautiful thing we know, so we should always pursue this beauty firmly.

Believe me, God will be kind to those who are brave, strong and have dreams. If you love something, love it bravely. If you desire something, desire it bravely.

As long as you have enough courage and desire, you are invincible.

fin.

Modo said: "Human beings are prisoners of their own situations"

Most of human beings' own troubles are essentially anger at their own incompetence. .

Okay, then be brave. Love bravely and live bravely.