I really can’t accept his behavior, and I think I should have a good talk with him. One time I complained to my mother, but she said that we were still young and could earn money slowly, and she didn't want me to fall out with my boyfriend over this matter. My mother really wants to marry me off, but the problem is that this matter is beyond the scope of what I can accept.

Because he was in debt, he hardly bought any clothes. I took the initiative to buy them for him. He rarely goes out for fun. Sometimes I take the initiative to book tickets and arrange all the itineraries, so that he can accompany me to relax. He recently quit his job to run online ride-hailing services, and sometimes he can earn some pocket money a month.

Later, his parents felt sorry for him and helped him replace all his credit cards, so his burden became lighter. After the foreign debt was paid off, he relaxed. I often use various excuses not to go out to drive cars, and I feel more and more that this person is impatient. Now both parents are starting to talk about marriage, and he said he would start looking for a job after this period of busy work is over. But our wedding day is approaching, and he still doesn't have a decent job. I don’t want to hear people ask my husband what he does when I get married. I can only say that he is now a freelancer.