Personally, I don't advocate that you marry him. I just think that once you get married, you will be in debt. This feeling is not very comfortable. Think about it, he has been hiding it from you, just to want you to pay back the money together after you get married. Of course, there may be some special reasons, which lead to his high credit card debt now, and then he didn't know how to tell you, so he hid it. But I still think it's not good for him not to tell you, so don't get married. Otherwise, there may be more things that he won't tell you because of some difficulties in the future. If you don't find such things, he won't say them, which is quite annoying.

Trust between husband and wife is very important, even when talking about friends. Even if you forget it, you should say it as soon as possible, just say it when it happens, and always remember to tell your wife everything, so you won't forget it. My ex-boyfriend is, when I was with him for four or five months, someone always called me and said how much he owed and asked me for help. But I ran to ask him, and he told me that he didn't borrow any money, so I left it alone. As a result, I found out that he did borrow the money, and he didn't pay it back for a year, which was long overdue. Then I helped him with a few hundred dollars later, because he didn't have enough money, and he always said that he wouldn't pay it back if he had known it, but how can you borrow money? It's also here. I feel that there is something wrong with his character.

He was going to propose to me, and then after this incident, he didn't prepare any proposal, just like giving up, and then he cheated on me soon, giving me the feeling that I had done something wrong. Now I'm glad I broke up with him, because the girl who talked to him about friends later seems to have a huge indemnity on his back. I don't know why, but I only know it.

That's why I advised you not to get married. Of course, you can have a good talk with him and ask him what's going on. As long as he is willing to tell the truth, nothing is a problem.