After listening to this course, I wrote about the circle of friends, so I wrote this article again, the content is as follows:

Sooner or later, everyone needs to think about these questions:

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Which needs do you engage in a job to satisfy yourself? ?Survival, life or life?

My credit card was overdue and I was in debt, so I had to find a job; I had to work to support my family because I was old and young; this all came from the pressure of survival.

Our parents’ generation has basically been like this all their lives. Faced with their children's studies and the support of the elderly, they have never had the opportunity to think about themselves, what they like, and career development. These are topics they dare not think about.

There is no need to be rich or wealthy, a small amount of wealth means peace and quiet, working from 9 to 5, having a safe job, taking care of your family, the company environment is comfortable, you can feel free to take time off if you need to, and the work is not too busy. The time to be busy is also limited, and more consideration is given to the needs of life. Even if the salary is not high, it can still be maintained stably. After all, besides work, people have life.

In order to live, people say, do we have to fight tooth and nail? In fact, it's almost the same. Most of those enthusiastic entrepreneurs and dream chasers who give up stability and comfort to pursue their dreams have inspiring stories.

They not only want to make money to survive, but more importantly, they have their own beliefs in life and the realm of life they pursue. For example, if I aspire to be a person who brings physical and mental health to the world, how can I bring more beauty to the world? Anyone who is well-known as an accomplished person will have his or her own mission and vision.

If I change my profession or track, do I want to get the results behind my desire, or is this something I will regret if I don’t do it?

This is an era filled with desires. Various advertisements say, what to study, a monthly salary of over 10,000, and an annual income of one million. Various exaggerated advertisements, including many followers. ? For example, writing can be monetized, with a monthly salary of over 10,000 yuan.

Did you start learning to write when you saw a monthly salary of over 10,000 yuan, or do you really love writing and want to seriously polish your writing skills. This is completely different.

The former is based on desire, the latter is based on love. Different original intentions will lead to different results.

The former will be very tired and chase money. You will get tired after chasing for a while, you will lack endurance, and you will give up very easily if you cannot get results.

But it is different for those who love it. He will continue to engage in this practice, and maybe one day he will publish a book and become famous.

So, today, no matter which industry you are engaged in, you need to ask that "WHY", which is the original intention.

The original intention is the seed. If the original intention is wrong, the result will not be good. Sow and you will reap, everlasting. ?

Do I have love in my heart? Have you ever experienced flow?

It’s that kind of selfless devotion. As you become more engaged, you feel more and more energetic all over your body and your eyes start to shine. Many people think that "flow" is a myth. It only means that you are miserable at work and have never experienced the climax that work brings you.

Have you ever seen a teacher giving a lecture on the podium, and his voice gets louder and louder and more energetic throughout the day? You are tired, but he can still drag you down. That is selfless devotion to this career. Have you ever seen a teacher who looks at his watch after speaking for a while? He could hardly stand himself.

The former is enjoying, the latter is suffering. There is nothing wrong with the job itself. What matters is whether it is suitable for us. Of course, there are also career planning, career assessment and other tools on the market. But it’s easy to deceive yourself with those questions. But flow, your inner feelings, cannot deceive others, nor can you deceive yourself.

The intensity is similar to whether you love your partner or not. So, don't say you don't know. I don’t know, I just don’t want to face this problem yet.

Among the people I met, there were children born in the 1990s. We all thought it was normal for them to be confused about career development.

As for those born in the 1980s, we are about to face the mid-life crisis. The first half of our lives is about to come to an end. How can we maintain the glory in the second half? Or how can we still have the second half if we have never been brilliant? Opportunities for overtaking in corners?

Post-70s, you think there should be no problem. The post-70s are facing the beginning of the second half of their lives. After working hard all their lives, looking at the embarrassing retirement salary, they are thinking about the second half of their lives, how to do the career they love, and then Increase your income and ensure that your quality of life does not decline. In addition to making money at this time, inner willingness is very important.

For those born in the 1960s, their children have established their own families, and there are no longer heavy responsibilities in life. They suddenly collapse. Do they want to sit back and wait for the crisis of their health?

People will never give up and pursue the meaning of life. Maybe not today, not now, but I believe it must be at a certain stage in the future, in a certain era, maybe personal fate is different.

Fortunately, I am a child who has been thinking and exploring these issues since I was in my teens. To this day, after more than 30 years of life, there is more peace and calmness in my life. Regardless of whether my current situation is good or bad, it is a necessary stage of my life's growth. At this moment, I feel at ease.

At the age of 60, my mother found the value and meaning of her life and sent care and condolences to more people. This keeps her alive and hopeful. I hope it can give people a feeling of aging backwards.

People will never live for the sake of eating and drinking. No matter how well-dressed they are, they will get tired of it after a few days. Only by finding the will of life and self-worth is not something a person can give up easily. It may be the most valuable thing to pursue.

I’m so happy that we met early in this life.