Although many media are now exaggerating the difficulty of college students in finding jobs and warning contemporary college students to have a sense of crisis in different ways, it is undeniable that there are still a large number of students who can't help but feel high from the moment they get the college entrance examination notice. As a result, crazy skipping classes, playing games and falling in love are like a picture to vent the suffering of these 12 years.

It's not to let everyone go to college with the same energy as before, and not to let everyone relax their tight strings, but to relax in moderation. If you indulge too much, you won't get back that stirring heart. It's easy to relax, but difficult to close your heart.

2. If you don't understand this, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, you can make it up later.

Friends who have experienced college have had this kind of mentality. Sometimes we can't fully understand what the teacher said in class, so we will inevitably pay less attention to it, thinking about learning it before the exam in the future. But before the exam, I found it was so hard. Once you don't understand the content, you can't keep up with the later courses, especially science. If a knowledge point is not mastered, the following courses are even more difficult to understand, and science is different from liberal arts, so light backrest can't cope with the exam.

3. Finding a job is a senior matter

In fact, from the moment we enter the university, we should understand our position, make a general plan for our future, and then carry it out. For the job or post you want to do, you should know the skills and experience needed for those jobs, so that you can fully accumulate these capitals in college. For example, if you are doing administrative work, you can consider taking a driver's license. Students who want to do foreign trade can consider taking another second foreign language. Or students who are dissatisfied with their major can consider taking a double degree or taking some vocational skills training courses. Take advantage of the university's abundant extracurricular time to make the best preparation for your senior application.

4. I hate those active people, and I'm too lazy to be "officers" and take part in various activities.

When people come from all corners of the country to gather in one place, most of my classmates are strangers to each other, and everyone's psychology is somewhat crude. Influenced by age and secularity, they don't want to take up and run for some positions any more. They even think that officers and officers are just helping others, and both students and class committee members are thankless.

It's true that these are the responsibilities of being a cadre in a university, but we should see the benefits that these positions bring to us.

since we entered the university, we should understand that we should always prepare for becoming a social person, and we should begin to know how to deal with the relationship with counselors, other colleagues and classmates, just like dealing with the relationship between superiors, peers and subordinates, and at the same time, it is also to train us to deal with the relationship between study, work and entertainment.

More practically, students who hold student positions are more likely to be liked by teachers, and some class cadres are spared by teachers even if their grades are not up to standard. When selecting any award, they also have qualifications, such as joining the party. In the final job search, they are also the objects recommended by teachers and schools. Let's compare the gains and losses of being a student cadre, and everyone should have a number in their hearts.

5. I'm an adult when I'm in college, so I can do everything that adults can do.

From an early age, we yearned to grow up, crossed the threshold of 18 years old, entered the ivory tower of our dreams, began to have funds at our own disposal, and began to live a self-supporting life. We were excited, proud and grew up. But we can really do whatever we want, huh?

Let's not talk about smoking for the time being, because this has become secondary and primary.

Let's talk about college cohabitation, which is the most concerned and sensitive thing for everyone. I agree with you that there will be regrets if you don't fall in love once in college. But whether college love should cross that hurdle or not, can you think again, although we understand that when you are blushing and moving, we can't resist the passion completely. But when our reason can control our actions, we should nip in the bud.

unmarried cohabitation in college is definitely more harmful than beneficial. This is not an alarmist, but from your own personal interests. When renting a house, the monthly rent of several hundred yuan plus some necessary daily necessities is enough to consume a college student's monthly living expenses, not including the cost of buying some family planning supplies or accidentally getting pregnant; Secondly, are you really sure that your future partner will be the other person? Think about what your childhood dream was, and then think about what your wish is now. There will be too many changes in your life tomorrow. People who get married may divorce. How much is the possibility of your relationship lasting forever?

In a university in Wuhan, a couple once died of gas poisoning while taking a bath together in a rented house. Those who got pregnant unexpectedly are everywhere, and the possibility of cohabitation not being discovered by classmates is very small. What do you think of your classmates around you? What will happen if these are passed on to teachers and parents? Once you break up with him, will he or she take some private things about you as conversation materials among classmates?

In college, most of us are immature, and what we say and do may be extremely thoughtless. Think twice before you do anything for yourself and for him/her.

Let's talk about consumption in advance. When major bank cards introduce credit cards for college students, it is also a test for all our college students' financial ability. You know, many people who work will be overwhelmed by credit card bills, not to mention you, a college student? This method has some merits, and you can solve some urgent needs. However, college students should pay special attention to the negative impact of this desire expansion. Never put yourself on the blacklist of the bank before entering the job, otherwise, you will regret buying a house or a car in the future.

6. Fear of society, fear of employment, hiding in small buildings and becoming unified

According to analysis, many of the hot test troops are caused by employment pressure. Fear of society, fear of employment and inadaptability to students' transformation into social people have caused many more serious phenomena than this.

** Animals, unable to take care of themselves, and so stressed that they choose extreme ways to end their lives are everywhere in universities. Most of these people are autistic and introverted. In an environment that is different from the previous campus and can't speak entirely by grades, they are becoming more and more confused and unwilling to communicate with others. They still keep the situation that they used to go to school and study after school, and they continue to accumulate knowledge after school. They don't communicate with others, participate in any activities, and don't use the effective resources provided by universities to develop themselves and avoid weaknesses. As a result, they are more and more excluded and less understood by people around them. Most of these psychological developments become morbid, which leads to some campus tragedies happening frequently.

Although not all students will have such a serious situation, there are many failures in finding a job, falling in love and getting along with others because they don't know how to use the unique environment provided by universities to improve themselves and develop themselves. Students who don't know how to communicate, who can't understand others, who can't hold correct values to society and the world, who just bury themselves in hard work, wake up.