a lot? Excellent? That's how it was forced out. Force yourself not to be lazy, not timid, not to retreat, force yourself out of the comfort zone, and make yourself mature in a hard battle. The following is an inspirational article I collected for everyone. I hope I can help you.

inspirational article: if you want to change the status quo, you must push yourself!

H is my college classmate, and I know him in a class presentation in the middle term. The general education course is boring, and many students simply read the materials to cope with the exam in order to get two credits. H was shown in the lower order, but his appearance made me feel refreshed. What shocked me was not the cool and dazzling PPT, but his creative views and cited arguments. It can be seen that H spent real effort after class.

at that time, my study and life were in a mess: I slept until 1 o'clock in the morning, ordered a takeaway at noon, slept in cut class in the afternoon, and played dota online at night. I didn't drag my tired body to class until the exam, waiting for the teacher to draw the key points? This is not a case. The decadent atmosphere pervades the whole dormitory. In fact, everyone is very confused. Without teachers and parents' earnest instructions, who will define college life? Who knows what is meaningful and can directly influence the success or failure of life in the future? Who knows which is the right way to the other side of the ideal in a complicated and tempting society? For a long time, I believed that college life should be like this.

The appearance of H made me doubt my understanding, and I began to pay attention to H's life. Every morning, he gets up at 6: 3, and after reciting English for an hour in the Woods, he goes to class on time or goes to the library. H will rest for half an hour at noon. If there is no class in the afternoon, H always habitually plays volleyball. After half a year, he has been able to compete with the students of the physical education department.

in every exam, H scores are among the best. But he is not in the traditional sense? Good student? . He often argues with the teacher because of different opinions, which is justified, but there is no emotion to vent. By the way, H organized it? Not one less? The activity has also become? At the end of each month, H will lead the students of the community to repair, update and clean the old computers collected from all directions and send them to the surrounding schools for children of migrant workers.

to my surprise, H achieved economic independence as soon as he went to college. In addition to the scholarship he gets every year, he will take a part-time job as a tutor on Tuesday and Thursday nights; He also got a tour guide certificate. When we were blowing air conditioners at home during the winter and summer vacations, he had already led a tour group from abroad to travel around the country.

everything in H's life, study and work is orderly, full and not messy. (yispace.net) Now we return it every day? Drunk to death? By then, he had turned his life into a poem. I once asked him, 365 days? Schedule? It's all full. Are you tired?

　? I'm not tired at all. I enjoy this life very much. ? H's answer is obviously beyond my expectation. It turned out that when he first went to college, H, like everyone else, was confused in the future, and he was once entangled in seeing a psychiatrist. However, he finally passed that threshold. Now, I dare not slack off every day and try to be a better myself. ? At that moment, I suddenly realized, originally? Male god? There are also little-known lost times.

yes, whose youth is not confused? College students in their twenties are like wild horses running wild in the boundless Yuan Ye. Who knows which direction leads to the rich grassland and which direction leads to the muddy swamp? However, when we are trapped by confusion, some people have already soared; When we are confused, some people are thriving in their careers; When we are stuck at the starting line because of confusion, some people have accumulated thousands of miles and victory is in sight.

I remember that two years ago, I rented a girl in the downstairs room, and she got along well with her neighbors: she likes to share her own snacks with everyone, and she is good at egg tarts, muffins and tiramisu; When I get off work early, the girl will go to tutor the children in the opposite neighbor's house. As a thank you, the neighbor will also keep her for dinner. There is an old couple living on the first floor, and there are many inconveniences in life. Naturally, the girl's help is indispensable. She takes the initiative to undertake online shopping, mobile phone chat and hospital registration.

I had just graduated at that time, and the huge pressure of life in Beijing often made me lose sleep all night. ? Everyone is confused. You are not the only one. ? The girl tried to comfort me. It turned out that when she first came to Beijing, she was just as helpless. She often ate the last meal and didn't know how to solve the next one. Every time she pays her salary, she has to make careful calculations and leave enough money to repay the credit card debt; The little girl has to fight with the black intermediary, and when she lives in the house, she has to think about where to move next month.

things at work are even more worrying for the girl. She works in an old state-owned enterprise, and the unit benefit is extremely poor, but it happened that she was assigned to the marginal department. As a young man, the girl's work is filled with all kinds of chores, such as serving tea, sending and receiving express delivery, sorting out materials and updating computers. The uncles and aunts in the office are also difficult to get along with. The topic they are always keen on is nothing more than which vegetable market's eggs have been reduced in price. The paragraph forwarded by WeChat says that eating pomegranate often can prevent cancer. The aunt in the downstairs department was particularly confused during the divorce last month, and I don't know how to take care of my future work and life. I can't imagine what I will be like in 1 or 2 years. ? Every time this is mentioned, the girl is always very sad.

　? If you want to change the status quo, you must force yourself! ? Suddenly, the girl's eyes sparkled. The girl began to force herself to strive for perfection in her work, and often volunteered to work overtime and work in Dai Yue. But no matter how late she comes home, she has to study for an hour. She even signed up for class, used the weekend time to recharge her batteries to study French and CFA, and got the certificate in two years. The girl's life is becoming more and more colorful. She demands that she must learn a new dish and practice yoga twice a week. She forced herself to open her heart and take the initiative to know every neighbor. How can you see the world if you can't even get out of your own house? After half a year, the girl's talent was appreciated by the leader and transferred to the sales post, and her salary doubled. By the end of the year, I got a bonus of 1 thousand yuan.

after all, frogs are always boiled to death in warm water, aren't they? Obviously, this girl is being? Boil to death? Before successfully jumped out. There is one in psychology? Comfort zone? Theory, once people break the already familiar and adaptive psychological mode, they will feel uneasy, anxious and even afraid. This? Comfort zone? That's what killed the frog? Warm water? . If you want to get out of confusion, you will inevitably touch your psychological defense line, force yourself to jump out in time, and you can avoid the bad luck of sinking. Once your comfort zone is broken, its scope will expand again, and what you thought was impossible will become a piece of cake.

being confused is not terrible. What is terrible is not having the courage to face it? If you don't know what the future holds, you will be ashamed to move forward; if you are afraid of mistakes, you will hold back; and if you are afraid of being excluded, you will blindly fit in and become a self-indulgent person. In the face of confusion, only by pushing yourself can we get out of the predicament and see the future clearly.

Believe me, being confused is not a safe haven for you all your life. Grit your teeth and push yourself, even if you are extremely weak, you must face the difficulties. Even if the road ahead is tortuous, we must stride forward; Even if you are timid in your heart, you should bite the bullet and hold on; Never give up even if the hope is slim. When you persist, you will be pleasantly surprised to find that everything you have paid is worth it. Think about when you were babbling and toddler. If you didn't force yourself to open your mouth and take a step, how could you know that the world was colorful?

I don't know my strength until I push myself

Now every night before going to bed, I force myself to write a paragraph, and I can't sleep until I write it. I just want to record my thoughts every day, think about my future direction, and strive to live every day of my life.

Seeing that everyone in the WeChat circle of friends is sharing different contents every day, sharing them must be something that is meaningful and something that you want to keep as a memory. Everyone wants to live every day well and have some unforgettable memories.

during the previous 11 holidays, most of the photos and videos posted in the circle of friends were photos and videos of traveling. I remembered that I went out for a trip at this time last year. At that time, the company had a five-day holiday, which was also very rare for our sales industry. Seeing where everyone is planning to play, I really want to go out for a walk, and I bought the plane ticket in advance, one because of the discount, and the other because I am afraid of going back on my word. Later, when I came back, I was thinking that if I hadn't gone out at that time, five days might have passed and I would have gone to work as usual, but I would definitely have some regrets.

Actually, when faced with a choice, making a decision early will make you relaxed. Most people choose to make a final decision when they are about to start, which often deviates from their original intention and leads to escapism. So when it's time to push yourself, push yourself, in addition to not making yourself so passive in the face of problems or choices, you can also make yourself less sorry.

inspirational feeling: success sometimes requires pushing yourself

padmasi waller, chief technology officer of Cisco, USA, was once asked, "what is the most important lesson you learned from your past mistakes?" She replied, "When I first started, I turned down many opportunities because I thought? I'm not qualified for this job at this level? Or? I don't know this field yet? . Looking back now, in a certain period, the ability to learn quickly and make achievements is the most important. Nowadays, I often tell people that when you look for your next goal, there is actually no such thing as a perfect time. You have to take the initiative to seize the opportunity and create an opportunity that suits you, instead of refusing it blindly. Learning ability is the most important trait a leader must possess. "

Padmasi's answer gives us two inspirations:

First, there is no perfect time in life unless you "force" yourself.

Our fears often come from the uncertainty about whether we can do it or not, and also from the fear of the pressure we will bear. The more people who like thinking and planning at ordinary times, the more likely they are to have fears. On the contrary, people who are careless or utilitarian at ordinary times will not worry so much and go up with joy. As for how to adapt to a higher position, you can do it first. It can be seen that "do it before you do it" is better than "think before you do it", and learning quickly and making achievements are the main things.

Second, in a rapidly developing society, it is most important to seize opportunities, so don't worry about whether you need to stand on tiptoe.

Frankly speaking, it's not easy to give you a chance in the workplace. No leader will repeatedly persuade a silent and cautious person to apply for a higher position. More realistically, you may feel that you are not qualified to try, but there are people around you who are not as capable as you but dare to try. If you don't go, they will go and run up at a faster speed.

The question of "the right time" not only appears in the workplace, but also often appears in our lives: when to change jobs, when to go abroad, when to get married, when to have children ..... For these common questions, people often give only ambiguous answers: it is not right now, let's wait until the conditions are ripe.

when is the "right time"? This question is difficult to answer. Interestingly, if these things happen without planning, such as being called by headhunters to suggest job-hopping, unplanned pregnancy and having children, everyone can accept them happily. It can be seen that our hearts are willing to embrace some opportunities for change, but instinctively resist the risks that change will bring.

Opportunity does not come from your choice, and how many risks will be involved in the future, but from a person's devotion to something and the efforts you are willing to make for it. If we always passively wait for good luck like sitting on an escalator, generally nothing good will happen.

I once had a job, when my line manager talked to me. Our topic was novel: Don't be afraid of promotion.

yes, I used to be a person who was afraid of promotion.

it's not that I don't want a higher job title and salary, but the pressure of changing roles with promotion will make me timid. When you do a junior job, you just need to do the job at hand with technology; To be promoted to the role of manager, you need to undertake certain sales targets. Another example is the previous work, just manage yourself; If you want to rise again, you need to manage other colleagues. However, these people who are in your charge can't be appointed by you, and they are often unruly, so your pressure will increase and you will feel life. I always flinch at critical moments, and give proper and sufficient reasons: I'm not ready yet, and I'm afraid it's difficult to be competent with my present ability ...... < P > For a long time, I was complacent about being so "down-to-earth" and "humble", and I felt that doing so showed that I was a responsible and modest person. Until I quit the job, my boss gave me a heartfelt advice when I left: "I hope you don't be too complacent about the status quo, but be more enterprising." I was surprised and unconvinced: "It's not that I refused to seize the opportunity, but the time has not yet arrived!"

I have a friend who has the opposite experience and performance.

She is recognized as a "good person" soft persimmon in the workplace. She is more content with the status quo than I am, and her only wish is to take a few more days off during the annual vacation. As a result, the leaders of the two factions fought and ended up losing both sides. After the reorganization of the unit and department, they considered the candidates for the new department for a long time and chose her-because she was the only one who did not belong to any faction and would not arouse too much contradiction.

The friend who was kicked off the duck shelf is not happy, because the work of the leader of this department is not easy. He should not only have superb balance skills like sailing on the waves, but also know how to handle things properly. My friend didn't want to do it, and she didn't know how to tell the boss above. She was appointed while tossing and turning. Instead of being happy, she was born with Huafa.

However, if it goes up, it will go up. Things that seem difficult will be broken down into every day, and it will pass. Of course, there are many problems, but fortunately, the department has just been bloodbath once, and it can't be shaken twice in a short time, so some difficulties have been held up by her teeth. As a result, she actually worked in that position for two years. Later, she was poached by a headhunter to do the same job in a Nordic company. Although the position was the same, her salary doubled several times, and her interpersonal relationship was much simpler. She herself won the trust of her boss with her "appropriateness" and "consideration".

faced with opportunities and major decisions, our most natural reaction is to wait for a suitable opportunity, but what is the right time? Without knowing or thinking clearly, we entrusted the answer to the future.

Mayer, the president of Yahoo, once mentioned in a speech that people should do something that is not yet allowed.