According to the International Loneliness Scale, there are ten levels of loneliness:
Level 1: Going to the supermarket alone
Level 2: Going to a restaurant alone< /p>
Level 3 Drinking Coffee Alone
Level 4 Watching a Movie Alone
Level 5 Eating Hot Pot Alone
Level 6 Level 7 goes to KTV alone
Level 7 goes to the beach alone
Level 8 goes to the amusement park alone
Level 9 moves house alone
p>Performing Surgery Alone at Level 10
As a person who has been working away from home since adulthood, the first nine levels do not seem to be considered lonely. If you really know how to enjoy the special feeling, maybe this is not a kind of suffering that needs to be endured, but a kind of proud independence.
Because our life itself is a lonely journey. There are always many things that we need to face independently, and others cannot take the place of us. Even if the person who is with you cannot understand you, it is just two people being lonely.
Only the tenth level of loneliness, requiring one person to undergo surgery, is really something that most people cannot bear.
After all, when a person is sick, his heart is very fragile, and if he has to face surgery, the physical problem may be more serious, and if he has no one to accompany him, he will feel really helpless. .
Although we have seen through the nature of loneliness in life, we still need comfort and care. If everything was done by oneself, life would have a lot less meaning.
The first level goes to the supermarket alone
The second level goes to a restaurant alone
The third level drinks coffee alone
Level 4: Watch a movie alone
Level 5: Eat hot pot alone
Level 6: Go to KTV alone
Level 7: Go to the beach alone
p>Go to the amusement park alone at level 8
Move alone at level 9
Do surgery alone at level 10
I'm early I had two surgeries on one person at full level. The doctor asked me to ask my family to sign. I said that I am only one person. If there is danger, I can do my best to rescue you. I will give you a credit card. The password will tell you that the 400,000 limit is enough for rescue. The doctors all looked at me confused.
I once read an article that is still fresh in my memory. This article is called "Man is a Fish". This article compares a human being to a fish, which I think is very appropriate. Man is a fish, he can live in a fish tank, in a pond, or in the sea.
Everyone longs for a happy life and a warm and happy home, where they can love each other and work hand in hand for a lifetime with their beloved partner. However, life does not develop according to our own wishes. Some people lose their partners in middle age, some people are widowed in old age, and some people choose to live alone.
Life forces us to face loneliness. Once we get used to living alone, we learn to tolerate loneliness. One person earns money and spends it alone, no one cares about him, no one cares for him, and no one stays with him when he is injured, so he learns to be strong. Learned to face everything and bear everything alone.
Full of grievances and no one to talk to about my worries, I came to the park alone, walked aimlessly, looked at the flowers and grass, and sat quietly in a corner of the park. People who are in a hurry will feel much more relaxed.
Go to the beach alone to watch the sea, walk on the beach and watch the ebb and flow of the tide, watch the rows of waves on the horizon, watch the waves stir up in the sea, let the sea breeze blow your hair, and your mood suddenly becomes brighter. All worries are forgotten.
Travel alone, go to food streets and restaurants alone, and taste various delicacies. Go to a coffee shop alone and drink wine alone. Go to the movies alone, read books and newspapers alone, go to the doctor alone, queue up to register, and wait quietly for the results of the examination. Celebrate the Spring Festival alone, talk to the mirror alone, move alone, leave alone...
A person can also live a wonderful life.