Interview＼Ruby Lai, Jectices Ho Written by＼Ruby Lai Female artist Gigi and blogger Stanley, who have always been non-marriage-minded. After dating for more than two years, their love changed their views on relationships. Stanley said: "No more

"I can't find anyone more suitable than Gigi." So the two decided to get married and live together, create their own happiness, and travel around the world hand in hand.

The young lady became a ***, and she felt more at ease after marriage. Regarding her marriage, Gigi said frankly that she felt more at ease and stable after marriage, and there was a deeper sense of bondage. However, the two of them did not get married just because they got married.

Control each other's freedom too much, but still give the other party a reasonable amount of breathing space.

The secret to maintaining a good relationship between two people is to "always maintain a sense of love", even after marriage. Gigi said that ever since they started dating, she has always used small cards or gifts to convey her thoughts and feelings, always making something different in her life.

Interesting, creating sweetness.

Nowadays, old concepts such as "why get married if you don't have children" and "raising children to protect yourself from old age" are still common in society, but these two sets of concepts do not exist in Gigi's life at all. Gigi said that marriage will make the two of them better.

Closer, this is what she discovered from the change after her best friend Lu Jiayi married her husband, and it was also one of the reasons that prompted her to decide to get married. She is still in the newlywed stage, and her face is filled with happiness and sweetness.

joy.

In addition, Gigi also said that since we often see news about elderly people living alone and their children being rebellious in the news, we know that raising children to provide for old age is not an absolute matter, so we will not be bound by these concepts.

The two of them are very good. It is very important to confirm the knowledge of having children. From being unmarried to being married, the next question to face is "to have children or not?" Gigi said with a smile that the two of them have no pressure to have children. On the one hand, the elders of both parties see it.

The children who were originally unmarried are already very happy to be married, so how can they dare to continue to give birth to children?

On the other hand, there are still many places to go with Stanley and many things to be done together, so having children will not be part of the plan in the next few years.

Is there any possibility of a child suddenly popping out?

Gigi said that unless it was accidental or Stanley wanted it, it would be impossible. However, neither of these two conditions would happen at this stage, because she and Stanley have an inseparable acquaintance, and there is no plan between the two of them accidentally.

In the painting, Gigi said seriously: "You must have a plan before you have a child, because once you give birth, you have to be responsible." Gigi advises everyone to make sure that both of you "want to have a child" before having a child*

**Common knowledge, never get married just to get pregnant, or be caught off guard due to accidental pregnancy and make your life a mess. Having a child should be carefully considered and weighed to ensure that both parties are ready to be parents.

, to welcome new life.

In addition, Gigi also mentioned that there are big differences in the way children are educated in the East and the West. She said that she had seen in the news that Westerners did not praise children's appearance very much, such as "You are so cute", "

"You are so handsome" and the like, but when the child actually behaves well, they will praise the child for doing well. However, on the other hand, Asians often use many words of praise on their lips, and they are overly protective of their children.

, causing the children to lose some of their ability to take care of themselves in life, like flowers in a greenhouse, too fragile.

Relatives and friends post wildly about the baby, but having a baby is still not in the plan. Although every time I open Facebook, I see friends and relatives around me posting frantically about the baby, and they also talk about parenting at gatherings, but Gigi is still unmoved.

She said that she and Stanley once attended a party hosted by a friend, which was mainly for children. The whole party was filled with the sounds of children playing, screaming, laughing, crying and other noises, which made the two of them return home after attending the party.

When I got home, I was in a state of exhaustion. I didn't want to say anything at all. I could only say that children are terrible.

Gigi said that her friend Li Yi likes children very much. After giving birth to his son Star, his image as a dad has become clear. He also said that he wants to have three children. Gigi believes that after having children, hard work and happiness coexist, but life will be complicated because of children.

More bonds, for example, if she takes her children to travel abroad with her friends who have children, these friends are almost absent from the evening trip. The reasons include the children are tired, they have to take care of the children, some occasions are not suitable for children, etc. This makes Gigi although

She can be considerate but feels that it is a little less fun because she likes to schedule a full schedule for overseas trips. Therefore, they and Stanley have many travel plans and currently have no plans to have children.

Flying around with dreams, women should keep their own lives. In addition to travel plans, Gigi and Stanley also have many things they want to accomplish together. It is their dream to buy property in Okinawa or an island country that they both like, or

When the physical strength is no longer enough, it is also a good choice to buy a small house in the countryside and live a leisurely life where the two of them take care of each other.

Gigi said that the two manage and plan their finances separately, but they will save a "dream fund" every month, and this "dream fund" will become the wings for them to realize their dreams and take them everywhere.