The epidemic in the United States, at this time, there are still many people in the United States who don't pay attention to it. At the large gathering attended by 7,5 people on Independence Day, they still didn't ask to wear masks and keep social distance.

Seeing this scene, Facebook CEO Zuckerberg couldn't help posting an appeal on Instagram: Please wear a mask. A new wave of epidemic is spreading rapidly. Wearing a mask can keep us healthy and make our country run normally.

He also has a photo in which he and his wife are head to head, both wearing masks.

This matter has also made a hot search in China.

This was a very positive thing, but some people in the comment area commented on the appearance of Xiaozha's wife Priscilla, saying "I thought it was a photo of my son and mother" and satirized her for being old and ugly.

Actually, this is not the first time Priscilla has been attacked in terms of appearance.

In p>212, the day after Facebook went public, Zuckerberg announced his marriage to his girlfriend Priscilla, who had been in love for nine years. At that time, he was the youngest billionaire, handsome and only 28 years old.

At this time, if Priscilla divorces him, she will have tens or even hundreds of billions of assets immediately, and she will become rich at once, and many people will lose their teeth with acid.

For a time, people not only wished, but also questioned: Why did this handsome young billionaire marry a plain-looking wife?

In the comment area, some people say that it is difficult to understand the aesthetics of westerners.

There's another one on the Zhihu that specifically asked this question.

The core basis of the above doubts is nothing more than the familiar "rich woman's appearance": a rich man must marry a beautiful wife, and only beauty can match wealth.

but is this really the case? What does plain Priscilla attract Zuckerberg?

Let's look at Priscilla's growing experience first.

If life is a gamble, then Priscilla has undoubtedly caught a bad hand.

Priscilla's parents are refugees who smuggled into the United States from Vietnam. One is a waitress and the other is an accountant.

Since her parents were busy making a living, Priscilla was brought up by her grandmother who didn't speak English.

Her parents don't have much education, but they deeply know that education can change a person's fate. Therefore, no matter how hard it is, they will still provide Priscilla with education.

Priscilla herself worked very hard and got excellent grades since she was a child. At the age of 18, she was admitted to Harvard University, a top university in the world.

It was here that she met her Mr. Right.

They were college classmates. At that time, Zuckerberg didn't have any aura, but he loved computers and networks. He even dropped out of Harvard University after studying for two years.

Priscilla felt that although this guy felt a little unreliable, his pursuit of ideals deeply attracted her, and she was very happy with him, so she fell in love without hesitation.

do you understand? Many people's so-called "marrying into a rich family" actually got the order wrong.

Priscilla was not "liked" by Xiaozha after she became famous, but accompanied Xiaozha to create Facebook from scratch.

Their love process is no different from that of ordinary people, and there is no one to admire.

What attracted Zuckerberg was Priscilla's intelligence, strength, flexibility and independence, as well as her soul of "knowing him".

By the time Priscilla graduated from Harvard, Facebook was on the right track, and Zuckerberg invited Priscilla to become a partner.

It's natural that husband and wife should run their own businesses together. Unexpectedly, Priscilla flatly refused, on the grounds that she had her own things to do.

First, she became a science teacher in a primary school.

Then I went to the Medical College of the University of California, San Francisco, and got the qualification as a pediatrician one week before the wedding in 212.

In the United States, doctors have a high social status, so it is very difficult to get into medical schools and obtain medical qualifications.

On the same day, Xiaozha couldn't hide her inner excitement and confessed to her fiancee on Facebook: I am proud of you.

During their nine years of love, the two have been struggling on different tracks. Priscilla has not lived as a vassal of Zuckerberg, but has been steadily glowing in her own field.

Their wedding was held in their backyard. There was no luxury, no guests gathered, and even no diamond ring. Priscilla wore a ring designed by Zuckerberg and completed the simple ceremony.

I ate McDonald's in 32 yuan on my honeymoon, and made headlines and was laughed at.

so, what do they spend most of their money on? The answer is: charity.

As a pediatrician, Priscilla has seen too much suffering. When she talks about children's illness in public, she often can't help crying.

To this end, she and Zuckerberg launched an organ donation registration tool on Facebook, which attracted 1, registrants on the first day.

When she saw the families of lost children in despair and pain on the Internet, she launched the "Amber Alert" on Facebook platform to help find the missing children.

In p>215, after their daughter Max was born, the Zuckerbergs announced a decision that shocked the world-they donated 99% of their shares in Facebook to set up a foundation, and the money was used for "personalized learning, disease treatment, connecting people and building a strong community."

In December p>216, they announced that they would invest a huge sum of US$ 3 billion to help scientists conquer the world's most important diseases.

In Zuckerberg's letter to his daughter, there is such a sentence:

"You have given us a reason to reflect on the world we want you to live in. Like all parents, we want you to grow up in a better world than we do today. "

Zuckerberg is the kind of person who looks up at the starry sky, and his partner is standing at the same height as him.

In thousands of people, Priscilla speaks confidently and generously. When she talks about her beliefs and dreams, the whole person is full of magic.

Zuckerberg is always appreciative and loving to Priscilla, and he will praise her from time to time.

when he gave a speech at Harvard, his alma mater, his words of thanks were: "Thanks to my alma mater. My biggest gain here is knowing Priscilla."

A photo taken by his wife when she was pregnant, he commented:

"This is an amazing photo of Priscilla. I love her expression: strong and kind, brave and full of love, leading and supportive. "

Their love has already reached the soul level, but some people are still struggling with their skins.

those who laugh at Zuckerberg's ugly wife don't know that she is so happy that it's not what they want.

beautiful skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million.

Just like in The Big Bang Theory, when Penny said that Amy was not dressed sexy enough, Amy replied, "Some people think that a smart brain is also sexy."

The more you go up, the scarcer the smart brain and interesting soul are, even scarcer than the beautiful and sexy skin.

There is a hot post on the Internet. Many girls who want to marry into a rich family are asking-what is the standard for rich people to marry? What kind of girl can marry a rich man, as long as she is beautiful?

One of the answers was highly praised:

I am the manager of a TOP1 headhunting company, and there are thousands of people who have worked with an annual salary of millions, including many vice presidents with an annual salary of tens of millions. President, even chairman, but there is a statistic that is quite surprising. Most rich wives are not beautiful women in the secular sense.

This is not absolute, but mostly about probability. Of course, there are cases where rich people marry beautiful women, so there is no need to discuss such a small number of examples.

why is this happening? Don't rich people like beautiful women?

I don't think so.

when a rich man marries a wife, he usually considers three conditions, one is external, the other is internal, and the other is the other's wealth.

It's the only choice for many rich people to marry a wealthy wife and make their business in by going up one flight of stairs.

For example, when Xu Jinheng, a Hong Kong real estate tycoon, married He Chaoqiong, the daughter of the gambling king.

For example, Liao Zhenhan, the son of Taiwan Province Sanqiao Group, married Sun Yunyun, the daughter of Pacific Wire and Cable Group.

This is a part of the rich, and some rich people don't want their life to become a tool for marriage and profit, so they choose two factors, external and internal.

Please note that people who can become rich are not stupid. If they are stupid, they can't become rich. They are extremely smart and will be very cautious about marriage.

Buffett once said: When I was young, I dated the most beautiful woman recognized locally, and later I heard that she was divorced three times. Imagine what a terrible thing it would be if I married her at that time ...

So, for the rich, which do they pay more attention to, external or internal?

I think it will be the latter. I have met many rich people, and most of them will choose women at the same level as themselves, at least at the same level mentally.

Compared with appearance, it is difficult to change internally, which is formed by a person's decades-long experience and experience. When you marry a vase and go home, the pattern and cognition of two people are not at the same level at all. Every day, chickens and ducks don't speak the same language, which doesn't help you. Why? Doing charity?

believe me, rich people can reach that position and have met countless beautiful women. They may be attracted by the appearance of some women and fall in love at first, but when it comes to marriage, there are many factors to consider and they will definitely be cautious.

Why did Wang Sicong fall in love with so many online celebrity, but didn't marry a beginner? Why Liang Luoshi gave birth to three children, but still can't marry into a rich family in Li Ka-shing?

there are actually many reasons behind this.

some people may say, can't you have both? There are also women who are beautiful but have connotations.

yes, but it's too few.

Therefore, many rich wives are not necessarily beautiful women in the secular sense.

it is the biggest misunderstanding of the rules of the game in the upper class to think that the rich can be conquered simply by beauty.

Although the criteria for choosing a spouse vary from person to person, it is difficult to generalize, but most of the people who can enter the marriage hall with him are women at the same level as him.

They share the same view, are like-minded, and are diamond cut diamond and evenly matched, complementing each other and making progress together.

One day, an American girl named Bowles posted a question on the financial forum:

"How can I marry a rich man?"

Bowles said that he is 25 years old and very beautiful, and he wants to marry someone with an annual salary of 5, dollars. "In new york, an annual salary of 1 million is considered a middle class. My requirements are actually not high."

soon, a man named rob Campbell replied to her.

Robo Campbell is a veteran of Financial Street with an annual salary of over 5, US dollars, which fully meets the requirements listed by Bowles.

What you are talking about is actually a simple transaction. Party A provides attractive appearance and Party B is responsible for providing the corresponding money. It seems to be a fair transaction. But there is a problem here. Your beauty will disappear, but my money will not decrease for no reason. In fact, my income is likely to increase year by year, while you are unlikely to be more beautiful year by year. From an economic point of view, I am a value-added asset and you are a depreciated asset. Not only depreciation, but also accelerated depreciation. It may sound cruel, but for an item that depreciates rapidly, it is wise to rent it for a short time instead of buying it for life.

Secondly, from an emotional point of view, marrying you is a very risky behavior, because if one day a man with an annual income more than mine appears, there is a great possibility that I will be mercilessly abandoned by you, and while you throw yourself at others, according to the marriage law, my property will be lost by half. Therefore, the risk of trading with you is very high. People who earn more than 5 thousand a year are not fools. We will only associate with you, not marry you. By the way, I have more hope to become a person with an annual income of 5 thousand than to meet a fool with an annual income of 5 thousand!

Robb Campbell's reply was cold and heartless, but it was very true.

There's a good saying in an old saying in China: People are concerned with color, while those who are depressed love relaxation.

beauty is the most unreliable proof of sincerity.

even if you meet a rich man who only values beauty, can you guarantee that you will always be young and beautiful? When the face gets old, will it be easily replaced by younger and more beautiful newcomers?

looks are natural, but knowledge, manners and temperament can be improved the day after tomorrow, and they are even scarcer and more precious than the former, such as brewing an altar of wine, which lasts forever.

and we strive to improve, not to please others and find a home, but to please ourselves and enrich our lives.

I always think that the sexiest part of a woman is her brain.

when the best self is slim and graceful, the best one is appreciated from a distance.

He appreciates your talent and your character, which is what we should pursue, pure love.

I must be a kapok near you, standing with you as the image of a tree.