My mother called me again last night.

Mom said, "Baby, did you talk about your boyfriend?"

"Not yet, Mom, I'm in no hurry."

"Then when you talk, remember to know about his family and think about it!"

"Mom, you are excited. I haven't even seen anyone. Don't worry. "

"Be sure to find a good condition, have a house and a car, have money at home, and be good to you ..."

"Let's go, mom, I have something to do here. I'll talk to you later. "

My mother has been nagging me every two days since I got married. Repeatedly stressed that find a rich man to marry, no money must not get married.

I began to wonder, why on earth is this? Do I really have the ability to find a rich man? I have always believed that what kind of person you are is what kind of person you are around.

I am average-looking, and my work is only enough to support myself. Most of my colleagues and friends love shopping and are not motivated. Why did I become knowledgeable, talented and charming, and embraced the rich man?

I really can't agree with my mother's theory. When she first mentioned it to me, I blushed and retorted: No money is sweeter than love! Life is just as passable!

Later, my mother kept grinding cocoons with me again and again, so I stopped moving out of my sermon. As long as you mention it to me, I will perfunctory and answer sweetly: OK, I will definitely find a rich one.

I thought to myself: rich people don't like me, so I'd better find someone who likes me. If I had money, I would call it your heart.

Marriage has always been a close battle. The weak side lost, ran away in despair or was pushed around by the other side with thick neck. When the strong wins, it will command the people around it with its nostrils.

Mother-in-law also looks at you coldly. She really hates this Gao Qian daughter-in-law in the dust.

Aren't these all plots in TV series? Mother-in-law always likes the right female number two, but glared at the kind and gentle heroine.

Of course, it does not rule out the classic bridge where civilians marry rich people and sparrows become phoenixes. Isn't that the most enviable Princess Kate? But you forgot who Kate is.

Is this inappropriate in China? Not to mention Kate's knowledge and talent have covered many girls who want to marry the prince.

My mother always urges me to find a rich boyfriend to get married, so that I don't have to work overtime until the early hours of the morning, because there is no subway when I go home, and I have to take a dangerous motorcycle to save the car rental fee.

Sometimes I think. It's hard to move without money. When I was ready to buy a small black bottle and a small brown bottle on the Double Eleven, I looked at the balance of the bank card, then deleted it without saying anything and changed it into a cheap substitute for buying domestic products.

God knows how much I want to have so many beautiful clothes and luxurious cosmetics. How I wish a man could hand me a card for me to swipe casually.

I once compromised when I was too poor.

Just last year, my aunt introduced me to a successful person who was eleven or twelve years older than me. There are luxury villas, three generations of officials in the family, government work, and relatives all open companies and take the official road.

I was quite embarrassed to accept the friend application of the blind date, and opened a circle of friends to read a few pages. Compared with my youthful and colorful circle of friends, the circle of friends of this "leader" is also quite "terrible". One chain home shares "shock! That 18-year-old girl turned out to be ... ""Look at these ten health tips, it's too late if you don't read them! "

The other party is also more direct. I want to find a beautiful young girl who has never had a boyfriend. It is best to be able to cook and take care of the elderly. My parents are worried about taking care of the nanny. I just want to find a wife who will be filial to the elderly. Can you cook? "

I just replied faintly: I can cook.

Look at his next amazing work: "What do you do now? If possible, I hope you can stay at home without working. I'll give you pocket money. "

I have long anticipated the scene when I married into a rich family: I took care of my in-laws all day, took full care of my children after giving birth, and invited several rich women to play mahjong together after sending them to school, with a bad perfume on my face that looked very old and smelled like a lady.

Thinking of this, I quickly refused: I'm sorry, I think the age gap between us is too big. I'm afraid it's not appropriate. Please find another marriage.

I can totally understand why my mother asked me to marry a rich man. She suffered a lot when she married my father, and she didn't relax a little until I grew up. When I heard from my mother that I had no money, I couldn't even eat milk powder. You can only cry when you are hungry.

My mother suffered too much because of lack of money in her marriage, so I think her daughter can live a happy life of dressing and begging for food, which can make me grow old without worries. ......

But what is the situation in our family? If you are well-off at home, you won't starve to death if you have food. If you want to buy a better air conditioner, you have to bite your bullet and save it for a few months.

I want to find a rich boyfriend. How can I blend into the circle of that rich man? Driving an untouched luxury car, eating high-end seafood that I don't want to eat, and drinking hundreds of cups of coffee that I haven't drunk. Is it as funny as a countryman going to the city and grandma Liu going to the Grand View Garden?

And how can he eliminate his inner humbleness? Since ancient times, people with high incomes have always been the backbone of their families. China has never changed for five thousand years. Madam's income is high, so it is natural for her to have the final say in the family's finances. Husband's income is high, even if the salary card is in his wife's hand, it is not a word to get money. (except for wives and slaves)

Grandma told me: if you want to take money from your husband, you have to open your palm in front of him. You are most confident to make money yourself.

When you marry a material marriage without love, the waste of material can no longer meet your inner needs, and you will always be eager to eat instant noodles together and share a steamed bread in the rented room. Your mouth is bitter and your heart is sweet.

People's desires are always endless. They want to get material things and love through thick and thin at the same time. But you have to know that if you marry material things from the beginning, it will definitely not be you who share weal and woe with your husband.

If you married a zero-deposit love at first, then seeing no hope is the reason for you to end this relationship.

If I can marry love, and he has money by the way, that will be my mother's heart.

But I still like him who earns only 6 thousand a month, because he can make me fat. what can I do? This is my destiny, and I am destined to share joys and sorrows with him all my life.